I hear ya! It's been very frustrating, but in the end, we have to stay focused on what brought us here in the first place. I lost my mother this year, and it is very frustrating to know that I have to stay here instead of going back home to deal with all the paper work I have to deal with over there and not to mention the fact that my entire family is over there. Coping with it has been very difficult, especially knowing that I'm "stuck" here with nothing to do. I did go to her funeral and when I came back the officer was actually very nice, gave me his condolences and let me back in. And what keeps me strong is the fact that I have a wonderful man by my side. Someone who my mother loved because she knew how much he loves me. And that's what made her happy, to know that her little girl found someone after so many heartbreaks. It may seem cheesy, naive and crazy for some. But nobody else matters in this situation. Only the people who are directly involved. I know that some can't understand this, but time will make them understand. And that, for me at least, gives me the strength to focus on what is really important here. Every day that passes gets us a little bit closer to the finish line. I must add that this forum makes the waiting a lot easier. So, thank you all for taking the time to write about your experiences. I hope everyone has a wonderful week! And remember, stay strong! We'll get there.