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Koukla74 said:
My question to all is, can this be a marriage Fraud? What steps can I take for him not to do this again to another person?
With the details you've provided, yes!!

For now, don't worry so much about preventing him. Focus on cutting the cord before the PR is approved. That alone will be a double edge sword. Once his PR is withdrawn, he will be flagged in CIC system for future.
 

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Ms Malawi said:
I have to say I wish I had a forum like this when I when I was going through my difficult time. The advice that is here is real and is helpful to those who need it. Even though my life is in a different place now I am still getting pointers and that little "reassurance" my partner is who i think he is.. even if he does need to go through the 5 layers of the atmosphere somedays in his astronaut pants!

So thank you to everyone for your advice, support, laughs and tears.

Halfmoon - you are right we are all leaders.. but I defnitiely think your heart-shaped bottom was the detail that sealed the deal! I know if mine was that precise I would be falling off my chair quite a bit more than I do now in laughter!

I am getting the feeling you would like me to post an image of my infamous heart shape?? **raises one eyebrow**
 

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Halfmoon said:
I am getting the feeling you would like me to post an image of my infamous heart shape?? **raises one eyebrow**
Well today is one of them days where anything would fly.. and I think your infamous heart shape would make more of an impression than the imprint that Tuyen left us with the other night!
 

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Ms Malawi said:
Well today is one of them days where anything would fly.. and I think your infamous heart shape would make more of an impression than the imprint that Tuyen left us with the other night!


He scarred me with that one. :-\
 

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Halfmoon said:
With the details you've provided, yes!!

For now, don't worry so much about preventing him. Focus on cutting the cord before the PR is approved. That alone will be a double edge sword. Once his PR is withdrawn, he will be flagged in CIC system for future.
I was under the impression her husband was living with her in Canada. But if not, I would definitely withdraw and if he wants to work on the marriage he'll have to prove it. Once he's landed in Canada, nothing really to do, they filed under the older law so his PPR is not conditional :(
 

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Halfmoon said:
...my infamous heart shape?? **raises one eyebrow**
heart shape bum? is that a good or bad thing?
 

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I've been cooking for 5 hours and let me tell you Ladies (and Tuyen, where ever you are) I am exhausted!
So...who wants food? There's a LOT here now :D

Anyway, gotta go to sleep...good night everyone, keep on talking please so that I'll have lots to read tomorrow at work!
I'm so happy this thread exists. There's fun stuff and there's good, serious conversation.
 

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Koukla74 said:
My question to all is, can this be a marriage Fraud? What steps can I take for him not to do this again to another person?
hey i think this is marriage fraud yes are the act of committing marriage fraud....my friend just calland cancel the appliocation and get rid of him before it too late...
 

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lunas said:
heart shape bum? is that a good or bad thing?
I couldn't find a video clip of this, but here's the text. I think it fits this conversation... ;)

Amy Farrah Fowler: Did you know that the iconic Valentine's heart shape is not actually based on the shape of a human heart, but rather on the shape of the buttocks of a female bending over?
Penny: So I spent seventh grade dotting my i's with little asses?
[Amy nods]
Penny: Cool.
 

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amaranth said:
I couldn't find a video clip of this, but here's the text. I think it fits this conversation... ;)

Amy Farrah Fowler: Did you know that the iconic Valentine's heart shape is not actually based on the shape of a human heart, but rather on the shape of the buttocks of a female bending over?
Penny: So I spent seventh grade dotting my i's with little asses?
[Amy nods]
Penny: Cool.

Stamp of approval!
 

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m_and_m said:
I've been cooking for 5 hours and let me tell you Ladies (and Tuyen, where ever you are) I am exhausted!
So...who wants food? There's a LOT here now :D

Anyway, gotta go to sleep...good night everyone, keep on talking please so that I'll have lots to read tomorrow at work!
I'm so happy this thread exists. There's fun stuff and there's good, serious conversation.
Good night M&M.
 

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lunas said:
heart shape bum? is that a good or bad thing?
Lunas, I really appreciate your innocence and curious mind. Why don't you give it a test run?

When skyping with your hunny this evening, bend over in the webcam and then come back and let us know. ;)
 

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Ms Malawi said:
I have to say I wish I had a forum like this when I when I was going through my difficult time. The advice that is here is real and is helpful to those who need it. Even though my life is in a different place now I am still getting pointers and that little "reassurance" my partner is who i think he is.. even if he does need to go through the 5 layers of the atmosphere somedays in his astronaut pants!

So thank you to everyone for your advice, support, laughs and tears.
Would someone please pass me the bounty? :'(
 

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Maddants said:
hey i think this is marriage fraud yes are the act of committing marriage fraud....my friend just calland cancel the appliocation and get rid of him before it too late...
Hey Maddants! Welcome to our Ladies & Tuyen's Coffee Social!!
 

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Koukla74 said:
My question to all is, can this be a marriage Fraud? What steps can I take for him not to do this again to another person?
http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/information/protection/fraud/report.asp

I know it's hard when you're prince charming turns into a loser. You will be better for it. I promise. :)