Love or Opportunity? Coffee Social

[Kev1n]

Merlyns_Tim: One more great piece, man you rock!

I second that.....

 

[saint4peace]

I'm under that impression too.... But report him asap. That will get him flagged. She can give them proof he's into another woman. (Probably sponsored herself, but can't sponsor him because it hasn't been five years for her yet!) He can pull whatever he has planned on his own and remain flagged so CIC is wise to him. He might whine and cry, claim refugee status - whatever. At least when he goes on welfare, she won't get the double whammy.
I've probably said this 100 times now, but my first marriage was also fraudulent. I got used for money and left high and dry with a five figure debt in the divorce. My ex-husband walked away with his college degree and LPN license, no debt except a very low rate student loan, his own car, and most of our things. And yeah, a court decided that! I got bled for cash until I was too poor to afford new shoes for work then worked to death so my "student" husband could have new things and video games. The last thing I want is to see that happen to someone else.
If I ever win the lottery, I'm erecting billboards where my ex lives letting everyone know what a cheating scumbag he is. Yes, because he also cheated on me repeatedly!

amikety: your story 'bleeds' my heart. I am so sad, now.

 

[Halfmoon]

Koukla, I feel and empathize with your pain and hurt. There's nothing in this world that could possibly hurt more than when someone uses and abuses you....especially someone who you love so much.

I promise you one thing here and you may not see it today, tomorrow or even the next while, but I can assure you that when you've gained the courage to walk away from this situation, he's going to grovel in ways an earthworm couldn't ever imagine. Don't even try to comprehend the situation or make sense out of it as I know that is what's running through your mind every minute of the day. Why and how could he do this to you? You've done so much for him and you love him so. How could anyone be so inhumane and not give you what you are deserving of. One day hopefully sooner rather than later, you'll wake up and say to yourself "Koukla, it doesn't matter why any more. The closure isn't even important. Only thing that matters is that I get the hell out of this asap. Not another second, not another minute. Run as if it's all you have to save your own life." At this time, your "true self" will take over and gradually gain the confidence, strength to build back what was stolen and broken.

He has crossed the line here. Could you ever possibly trust him again and live peacefully within your own spirit. I highly doubt it. We don't need to point out the signs as you already know them. I'm sorry you are going through this. You know what you need to do. You simply need to find the courage to write that email to CIC or pick up the phone. On the day you do, it will be the first day for the rest of your life.



Halfmoon: wow! its a great piece, I liked it so much. Keep writing. Your witing is so organised. Good one, hun. Thanks.

**blushes** thank you Saint4peace. So good to see you pop in tonight. How is your wife doing? My boss is actually on his way to Hong Kong for a wedding and then to the Philippine's for some beach time. Wish I could globe trot as much as he does. Sigh......

 

[Halfmoon]

amikety: your story 'bleeds' my heart. I am so sad, now.

Can I take a wild guess that you're the affectionate one of your two halves?
So tweet. You go from ;D to to :'( and then to ;D

 

[saint4peace]

Can I take a wild guess that you're the affectionate one of your two halves?
So tweet. You go from ;D to to :'( and then to ;D)

Halfmoon: How do you know that ? Its a big yes, hun. I appreciate your guess. I take it as compliments. I am still at work and will be here 2 more hours. I strongly believe, Halfmoon, you are a smart lady and cute too. Please don't prove me wrong. Thanks again.

 

[saint4peace]

Can I take a wild guess that you're the affectionate one of your two halves?
So tweet. You go from ;D to to :'( and then to ;D)

Halfmoon: Sorry! I forgot to answer your question. I had a chat with my wife until 4:30 in the morning, and went to bed and was late at work for 3 hours. She is so nice to me, and I owe her limitless LOVE and kisses/hugs. I cant wait until I visit her in January. Hope you sense my situation now.

 

[Halfmoon]

Halfmoon: How do you know that ? Its a big yes, hun. I appreciate your guess. I take it as compliments. I am still at work and will be here 2 more hours. I strongly believe, Halfmoon, you are a smart lady and cute too. Please don't prove me wrong. Thanks again.

Oh boy. Here it comes.

**Falls off my stool**

Gets back on....

Don't stop there, continue on...... ;D

 

[Ms Malawi]

Would someone please pass me the bounty? :'(

Whats with the Bounty??

 

[Halfmoon]

Halfmoon: Sorry! I forgot to answer your question. I had a chat with my wife until 4:30 in the morning, and went to bed and was late at work for 3 hours. She is so nice to me, and I owe her limitless LOVE and kisses/hugs. I cant wait until I visit her in January. Hope you sense my situation now.

oh yes...er em....back to your wife. :-X

Wow!! But I'm sure it was all worth it!!! I'm so happy you're happy and I bet you're going to have the time of your life when you visit her. Make sure you get a good imprint of her "heart shape" before coming back home.

 

[Halfmoon]

Whats with the Bounty??

When we get teary eyed in this thread, we need bounty. The kleenex gets too messy.

 

[saint4peace]

Oh boy. Here it comes.

**Falls off my stool**

Gets back on....

Don't stop there, continue on...... ;D

Halfmoon: hahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee....

 

[Ms Malawi]

Oh boy. Here it comes.

**Falls off my stool**

Gets back on....

Don't stop there, continue on...... ;D

Halfmoon need some help with that stool or controlling the blushes!
Gonna need to get you some soft pillows to fall on!

 

[Halfmoon]

Halfmoon need some help with that stool or controlling the blushes!
Gonna need to get you some soft pillows to fall on!

:-[ :-[

 

[Ms Malawi]

When we get teary eyed in this thread, we need bounty. The kleenex gets too messy.

Better get a case then!

 

[Halfmoon]

Halfmoon: hahahhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee....

I bet your wife could hear that laugh all the way over in Hong Kong!