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[livelife]

Ito yun link para makontak si Hon. Jason Kenny
at mag email na din asawa ko dito about our concerns regarding sa delayed process ng mga application sa CEM
the more emails na matatangap ng office nila about issues regarding CEM mas mabibigyan nila ito ng pansin
kaya JOIN NA! hehehe

http://www.parl.gc.ca/MembersOfParliament/ProfileMP.aspx?Key=170319&Language=E

thanks po sa link...nag email na din ako...there I aired-out all my grievances and disenchantments of this waiting game that makes me feel clueless day after day, night after night...

 

[balaize]

guys lets all be positive.. kng paguusapan nmn natin delay ng mga papers eh wla na tau maggwa kundi maghintay,.. intindihin na lng natin na ganun tlga .. GOD has a reason for everything... were here to help ung mga tao naguumpisa magapply ang ung mga mern tanong d para husgahan ung system... lets just accept and try to stop the negativity sa forum..... kc pag mern isa maguumpisa lahat tay sasama lang ang loob pare pareho tau ng narramdaman .. ung lungkot na maksma mga asawa... pero!!!! magtulungan tau na bawasan ung stress KEEP on smiling and pray . lng po kc nakkalungkot kng sabay sabay taung naiinis sa paghihintay GOODLUCK sa ating lahat..................

OCT applicant pako.. we need to think to mern mga mas matagal naghhintay... take care :-*

,,,That's correct! Tama ang ginawa mo ...para maiwasan ang stress...sometimes you send email to CEM ok..and tell your story para makita nila ang papers mo..show them na wala kang bitterness sa tagal ng papers mo sa kanila..I hope it works.. maski dito sa Ontario ang PR card ko is until now ay wala pa..instead of 30 working days wala pa rin..at meron na rin batas dito bago pa lang na kapag ang isang immigrants may magawang kasalanan deport agad..kahit kami dito hirap din magaantay kasi need namin ang PR card for OHIP health card..pero until now wala pa rin..belib ako sayo matyaga ka..sana anamn yong iba is kagaya mo ..may patience, may nabasa ako dito nagmura na..naintidihan ko siya..pero do you think matuwa si Leon? why not send message to Leon..TELL her story makatulong din sya..meron nga dito subra 1 year naganaty..last month pagkatapos ko nag give ng advice tuwa nya natanngap ang visa sa wife..@hourra......I dont heard him posting some ;shit; WORDS.. ..KEEP ON PRAYING ..BRYK..

 

[mdc]

For me just don't differentiate if the applicant just met online and u met in person.. nasaktan din kami.. I met my hubby online until now wala pa rin 11 months na...we are on 4 years now2 and 4 month kami be4 nagpakasal...Hindi naman fair if all filipino couple ang I approve nila eh canadian nga hubby naming eh canada nga ang country dapat prioritize nga nila and canadian. Di naman nya agad-agad ma give up work nya kasi he is just 46 year old ano kakainin naming if ditto sya..i know if retire sya ditto kami manirahan sa Philippines as of this time di talaga puede.My love is true to my hubby...Nagdasal na ako taimtim para lng magkasama lng kami its not important if in Canada or Philippines as long as were together...There is one situation that I said to my prayer if he wants an exchange to this agony I feel maybe in the future he can give me malignant cancer as long as I can experience to be happy together with my hubby...Maybe my faith is not too strong still in doubt but I just want to be happy...I told it to my hubby while crying and he said don't say it and don't be sad we will be together soon..
I MISS MY HUSBAND BADLY..even we not together but we talk 2 time a day or more...but still not same like in real that u can touch him i feet protected and very happy:'(

Hi nabasa ko ang mga sinabi mo foreigner din hubby ko, ang tagal na din pala ng application mo dapat may bisa ka na ngayon ako mag 7 months na din this july.San ka ba ngayon dito ka ba sa Pinas?April 30 ko sinubmit passport ko sa cem.

 

[livelife]

hi mdc,
kelan ka nagsubmit ng passport?

Ano timeline mo?

 

[emrn]

kanya-kanya pagcocope ang mga tao we cannot judge them how they react and how they cope. There are others na mahaba ang pasensya meron din ibang hindi, meron ngang kakasubmit pa lang ng passport eh ngrereklamo na bakit wala pa, like what I said kanya-kanya yan yung iba naman dito eh ng e-air lang ng nararamdaman kasi nga hindi biro mghintay, hindi biro na hindi kasama ang mahal natin sa buhay, hindi din biro na nakatigil ang buhay nyo at mga plano nyo. Kung yung iba nakakapagmura well sa kanya yun hindi naman tayo minumura nya dala lang yun ng emotions at frustrations, like what I said we should not JUDGE. Napakadali kasing sabihin na mgkaroon ka ng pasensya specially kapag wala ka ng hinihintay at andyan ka na, sana wag natin kalimutan na one moment in our life napagdaanan din ang mghintay at mafrustrate. Sana din maintindihan din na hindi biro ang maghintay lalo na kung wala tayo kasiguraduhan. Right now the people who are airing their frustrations here need it and they need people who understand not people that will judge them, kaya nga kahit paano they have this forum kasi iniisip nila na meron makakaintindi sa kanila. Sana irespect na lang natin ano yung nararamdaman nila. We admire those who really has the patience for this, but iba-iba ang tao and we are in no position to Judge anyone specially if they are just airing their sentiments and those rantings are not directly to u. Please don't judge people just because they feel frustrated and right now they are emotional. The last thing that these people need are those that judge them.

 

[aldrin]

Sana ganun kadali maging positive. Sana ganun kadali mgkaroon ng good vibes, I filed my application Sept 2,2011. I know meron pang mas nauna sa akin. Hindi naman sa we are bringing negativity sa forum it's just that there are people here who is going through exactly what we are going through this forum is not only about helping new applicants but also to air out frustrations and to comfort each other as well kasi nga tayo-tayo lang may alam ng nararamdaman ng isat-isa. Mglabas man tayo ng frustration sa family natin or sa best friend natin titingnan lang nila tayo and they wont understand at all yes they will try to say ok lang yan malapit na yan bukas andyan na yan pero iba pa din dito sa forum kasi alam mo na pareho kayo ng pinagdadaanan and it also helps to know that you are not alone going through this ordeal. Tao lang din tayo it's been awhile na din and we can only take so much, this is our lives they are playing with. Yes walang magagawa ang pgrant at pagkainis but somehow it also helps to release what you feel. I talk to my husband everyday, we skype a lot, we talk on the phone for hours. Even sa work sya dinadala nya laptop nya sa we can see each other every chance we can get. Pati nga paglalaro ng second life pinatulan na namin para lang atleast dun nagkakasama kami, nakakapgdate nagagawa namin mga gusto namin gawin. I appreciate that you are trying to lift up our spirits and we appreciate it, kaya lang sana acknowledge din na frustrated na kami and this is also a place for us to release what we feel and find comfort as well. But I guess we needed someone like you to lighten up the mood a little bit.

wag nang malungkot .. atleast ikaw nakkausap mo pa asawa mo kung ikkwento ko ung pinagddaanan namin ng asawa ko now eh mas mahirap pa bsta pray ang be positive un lng pwede natin gwin wla maggwa inis natin isipin mo na lng na 12 months process sept 2011 ka and wait ka till sept pass sept dun ka magtaka and lumapit sa MP>// may mga iba mas malalim pa sa mga pinagdadaanan mo// i have friends from here na nanny cla and they need to wait 2 years para mging landed cla and another 3 years max pra makuha nila family nila say thats 5 years to be with their family tau wla pa isang taon.... application dba//? so lets be thankful hindi tau ung 5 years just saying isipin mo na lng mern masm mabigat na problema kesa sa paghhintay natin

 

[dadaem]

ms. dadaem...ask ko lng po pano po kinukuha ung Acknowledgement of Receipt? and pano po kumuha ng MP? tnx po...godbless..

Halu Pochi,

Naalala ko sayo ung candy na pochi-pochi. Paborito ko yun nun bata pa ko eh..hahaha!Anyway,binigay lang saken ni emrn yung link sa pagkuha ng CAIPS. Yung acknowledgement of receipt na sinasabi mo eh email or snail mail na manggagaling sa CPC-M or CEM. Di naman ako nakareceive ng ganon. Eto yung link:

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1LF-oK0c_F9kKPfiP9MjlKZZ1RzqQVCRLOKWV3QsRGZI/edit?hl=fil&pli=1

click mo na lang yung hyperlink na CAIPS.Andyan lahat ng instructions. Yung sa MP naman, sinearch ko lang yung name ng MP namin.Tapos nakuha ko yung email nya.

 

[emrn]

wag nang malungkot .. atleast ikaw nakkausap mo pa asawa mo kung ikkwento ko ung pinagddaanan namin ng asawa ko now eh mas mahirap pa bsta pray ang be positive un lng pwede natin gwin wla maggwa inis natin isipin mo na lng na 12 months process sept 2011 ka and wait ka till sept pass sept dun ka magtaka and lumapit sa MP>// may mga iba mas malalim pa sa mga pinagdadaanan mo// i have friends from here na nanny cla and they need to wait 2 years para mging landed cla and another 3 years max pra makuha nila family nila say thats 5 years to be with their family tau wla pa isang taon.... application dba//? so lets be thankful hindi tau ung 5 years just saying isipin mo na lng mern masm mabigat na problema kesa sa paghhintay natin

Thanks aldrin yes I'm really trying hard not to be sad. Di mo ba nakakusap asawa mo? hehehe ang sitwasyon ko na nakalagay dito is just the tip of the iceberg. The more na tumatagal ang CEM sa desisyon the more na tumatagal din na hindi ko nakakasama mga kids ko kasi nga nasa ex ko at ibibigay lang daw nya yung kapag nasa canada na ako at stable ako. Malayo na nga ako sa hubby ko sa Canada malayo pa ako sa mga kids ko. Ang sakit na lumalaki sila na hindi nila ako kasama tapos tuwing nakakausap ko sila sasabihin nila mommy sana makapunta ka na sa canada para makuha mo na kami.... Pareho kayo ng sinasabi ng hubby ko malapit na september kung wala pa talaga ibang usapan na daw yun. Keep it up ikaw yata taga angat ng mood dito hehehe. I'm not really this kind of person I've always been the kind of person who always see the brighter side of things but this whole ordeal has made me into a miserable person lol. Thanks for lifting me up and other people here too goodluck with your app sana mgkavisa na tayo hehehe

 

[livelife]

hi emrn,

I emphatize with you. As I read your last post, I can imagine how hard life is for you. Well, maybe not financially, but emotionally. It is not easy to be away from kids growing up - to have instead watched them breathe as they sleep, to have instead watched them smile when they see you. Really, sometimes life is so unfair. I hope that your kids will be brought up by the father in a way to have fear in God, love for others, compassion, and a growing love for you as their mother.

Sometimes, we worry if the upbringing they have by your husband's side may not be as what we would want it to be. As you've said, your husband is someone influential in their locality. So, he may have the tendency to be arrogant and violent, and not much a good role model to the kids.

Why didnt you file custody for your kids. Yes, I know, there are maybe some other personal and extraneous factors behind such situation but I respect your privacy. All I can wish is that, just hold on, have faith in the Lord. You will only be able to fully appreciate the sunshine after a rain. My sister's experience is an awful lot like you.

Yes, we appreciate those who exerted effort to keep us going, to wish us good vibes in all these waiting games. But this is not like the Hunger Games movie, wherein the protagonist has control to change her story. She can control her own fate, her destiny. But for us who are waiting, we are like chessboard pawns, always on the lookout when is when is coming.

So, I hope that those who have been luckily granted a visa for a considerably shorter waiting period than us will just keep quite. To somehow 'admonish' someone na nagmura because he is desperately waiting, and cant wait any longer for the visa result is quite insensitive. Yes, we all have our ways of coping with life's chances and odds.

So, please people, dont JUDGE. If you have nothing much more to say to help those who are still waiting, maybe get over this forum. After all, you got your visa already. What is there more to stay? You are just simply adding insult to injury.

 

[aldrin]

Thanks aldrin yes I'm really trying hard not to be sad. Di mo ba nakakusap asawa mo? hehehe ang sitwasyon ko na nakalagay dito is just the tip of the iceberg. The more na tumatagal ang CEM sa desisyon the more na tumatagal din na hindi ko nakakasama mga kids ko kasi nga nasa ex ko at ibibigay lang daw nya yung kapag nasa canada na ako at stable ako. Malayo na nga ako sa hubby ko sa Canada malayo pa ako sa mga kids ko. Ang sakit na lumalaki sila na hindi nila ako kasama tapos tuwing nakakausap ko sila sasabihin nila mommy sana makapunta ka na sa canada para makuha mo na kami.... Pareho kayo ng sinasabi ng hubby ko malapit na september kung wala pa talaga ibang usapan na daw yun. Keep it up ikaw yata taga angat ng mood dito hehehe. I'm not really this kind of person I've always been the kind of person who always see the brighter side of things but this whole ordeal has made me into a miserable person lol. Thanks for lifting me up and other people here too goodluck with your app sana mgkavisa na tayo hehehe

ganun tlga naintindhan ko mern tau mga moments na d na talga ntin kaya kc dba iisa lang hinihintay pra makapagumpisa na sa mga pinapangarap natin.. visa na lng and then pag mejo settle sna mern pa tau chance magkaroon ng reunion sa totoong buhay .. have some bbq sa park or dinner dba kita kta tau

 

[balaize]

kanya-kanya pagcocope ang mga tao we cannot judge them how they react and how they cope. There are others na mahaba ang pasensya meron din ibang hindi, meron ngang kakasubmit pa lang ng passport eh ngrereklamo na bakit wala pa, like what I said kanya-kanya yan yung iba naman dito eh ng e-air lang ng nararamdaman kasi nga hindi biro mghintay, hindi biro na hindi kasama ang mahal natin sa buhay, hindi din biro na nakatigil ang buhay nyo at mga plano nyo. Kung yung iba nakakapagmura well sa kanya yun hindi naman tayo minumura nya dala lang yun ng emotions at frustrations, like what I said we should not JUDGE. Napakadali kasing sabihin na mgkaroon ka ng pasensya specially kapag wala ka ng hinihintay at andyan ka na, sana wag natin kalimutan na one moment in our life napagdaanan din ang mghintay at mafrustrate. Sana din maintindihan din na hindi biro ang maghintay lalo na kung wala tayo kasiguraduhan. Right now the people who are airing their frustrations here need it and they need people who understand not people that will judge them, kaya nga kahit paano they have this forum kasi iniisip nila na meron makakaintindi sa kanila. Sana irespect na lang natin ano yung nararamdaman nila. We admire those who really has the patience for this, but iba-iba ang tao and we are in no position to Judge anyone specially if they are just airing their sentiments and those rantings are not directly to u. Please don't judge people just because they feel frustrated and right now they are emotional. The last thing that these people need are those that judge them.

...I am so sorry if naoofend kita, akala ko kasi tama yong sinasabi ko..di ko alam may nataman pala ako..pasensya na..sa story ko after my our marriage last May 28,20011..bumalik hubby ko sa Canada May 30,20011..inumpisahan ko ang applications..grabe din inabot ko bago ko nakompletp pares..almost 5 months din akong nag process sa papers ko..dahil sa nangyari sa NBI..hubby ko never nagbigay sa akin ng support kasi di naman nya alam itong mga papers na ito..nangyari din sa DFA na iniinslto ako kasi parang nakaloko sya sa akin ..canadian hubby ko then 52 na ako..meron na ring time na nabulyawan kami sa NBI cebu dahil siguro stressed na rin sila..pumila ako ng 2 am sa NBI cebu..taga Bohol ako..then balik uli after 1 week..pila again for another 2 am para lanag mauna..nakuha ang clearance ko almost 1;30 pm..umiiyak na ako..bakit ganito kahirap magapply..exhausted ka na masyado..nag pedus ako binaha pa kami sa Cunco ave..halos makansel ang counsiling namin dahil late kami..napadal ko ang mga papers sa churh just to ask basbas before ko dinala sa Fed ex ang papers adress t my hubby's office.pero nakuha niya 2 weeks pa dahil nasa trip sya..sa PPR ko 5 days natanggap ng CEM di ko alam bakit ganoon katagal..noong ng DM na ako moitor ko ang visa ko..kinakabahan na ako..kaya nagtry akong nagpunta sa DHL sa area namin..laking gulat ko andoon lang 4 days nakatambay..ni walang tawag or text man lang..or delivery..kaya pasensya na kung may nasabi ako masakit sa inyo..nainintidahan ko kayo kasi nangyarin sa akin yan..PASENSYA NA..

 

[livelife]

hi balaize,

Thanks din po sa pag-unawa. Di ko namalayan, sa iyo pala galing yung post. I know you have all the best intentions naman para sa mga wala pang visa. Feeling ko tuloy, parang we are like family here. May tampuhan, kahit hindi magkakilala sa isa't-isa. Talagang mahirap lang talaga kasi mag-antay na walang kasiguraduhan. At saka, kahit update man lang ng ECAS, walang fix na date. Sabi, every Tuesday pero di mo mapigilan mag check everyday kasi may iba, nagkaroon ng updates even on Sundays.

Pasensya na po. Siguro, sa stress lang din talaga sa paghihintay. I hope to see you someday and know you more balaize.

Thanks. God bless.

 

[Christine08]

Thanks Nash! I hope for you good news too!

I always hope and pray for those here in the forum, its really so difficult emotionally for the long waiting.
I know how it feels. God bless!

 

[redwine]

LAUGHING TIME!
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Prospective husband: Do you have a book called 'Man, The Master of Women'?

Salesgirl: The fiction department is on the other side, sir.

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There was this guy who told his woman that he loved her so much that he
would go through hell for her. They got married and now he is going thru
hell.


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Wife: Darling today is our anniversary, what should we do?

Husband: Let us stand in silence for 2 minutes.


*********

Why do couples hold hands during their wedding?

It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands before the fight begins!


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;D :-* ;D

 

[redwine]

* There was a man who said, "I never knew what real happiness was until I got married and then it was too late.

* At the cocktail party, one woman said to another, "Aren't you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong finger?" The other replied, "Yes I am, I married the wrong man."

* Man is incomplete until he is married. Then he is really finished.

* Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his bachelor's degree and the woman gets her master's.

;D :-* ;D