Good Evening,
I'm totally nuerotic, which means I worry about everything little thing. I started working on my PR application a few days ago and I'm now I'm obsessing over it!
A few questions if anyone has the time & knowledge:
- When submitting Skype conversations, is a copy and paste of the chatlog sufficient? I only ask because I can't get Skype to print directly from the screen, so I copied and pasted everything into Microsoft Word. (And would that god awful mountain of text need to be copy certified?)
- Skype #2... in our chatlog there is some very private conversation (and not just naughty... there is some of that too ). Do we need to include every line of text? All I really wanted to prove is we talked on Skype regularly - which we did with voice and video calling.
- Regarding Yahoo Messenger... Is a summary of our chatlog sufficient here or do I need to print out every single conversation? I'm refering to the conversation history that shows we talked on X day, then X day, etc. I ask for the same reason as above. My husband and I are both very private people. I'd rather some stranger not be reading our (naughty) private conversations.... although I'd rather this person reads than me not be accepted into Canada
- As far as text messaging, are phone bills showing my husband owns his phone number, texting one owned by me sufficient proof of conversation? I understand I would need my own phone records showing I owned my own number so they could be referenced. Would highlighting the texts back and forth be considerate or would that be over the top?
- In the beginning of our relationship, neither if us considered factors such as Immigration, so we didn't have our IMs set to save conversations. Will this hurt us? Can I explain this to immigration kinda like I did here and be okay?
- We eloped (after trying to save up for a wedding after 18 months and not getting very far). With a 3 week notice, my father-in-law and his wife couldn't attend. We invited no other family. My m-i-l and s-i-l are gossip mongers and my husband isn't close to either of them. Hubby made the decision to NOT invite either of them of his own free will. None of my family were invited or attended. I didn't invite them to my first wedding either. I just don't care to have them there... I don't speak to my mother at all. My dad is borderline abusive towards me verbally. My brothers are nice people, but we aren't close.... have virtually no contact with extended family. Would have 0 if Facebook didn't whore my profile around. Does anyone have any advice on how to explain this to Immigration in a way that doesn't use the word whore or monger? I'm not exactly tactful or concise, but I want to explain to Immigration my husband and I picked who to invite and neither pressured the other to not invite family. I did invite two of my friends, their husbands, and kids so I had guests. I suppose I could say I didn't think my family would have time to attend (my dad and youngest brother don't have passports either and middle brother is in Australia for whatever reason) but that's not the truth. I just didn't want my drunk alcoholic father trying to tell jokes with his balding mullet belittling me in front of my friends and husband.
- We have lived together since July 2011 (although we plan to file Outland since I'm American unless someone tells me that's a horrid idea). For obvious reasons, we stopped Skyping after that. We have a rental contract with both of our names on it dating Dec 2011. I opened a BMO account in Calgary in October 2011 (I think) and we made the account joint in June 2012 (I think). Is that enough proof of a continuing relationship? I can show them pictures of the cat we adopted and pretend is our child? (Actually I have five thousand cat pictures because I'm turning into THAT crazy cat lady on Facebook!) We used iMessage to stay in touch from October 2011 onwards so we don't have a text message record like two phones would. I'm not sure IF we can make that into a downloadable form to print off for Immigration or if they even want to see us talk about dinner, lingerie, and how much my husband hates his co-workers.... If anyone is aware of how to use iMessage for Immigration, please let me know!
On a side note, the Immigration "Lawyer" (turned out to be a consultant) I spoke with strongly advised me to file inland and said outland was a horrible idea. I've read the posts here on the versus and don't understand why he was so staunchly inland unless it makes him more money.
I have contacted CIWA here in Calgary and asked for a free consultation with one of their lawyers to review my application before we send it in. I'm hoping they agree, so I can finally get some sleep.
Anyway, sorry if I rambled and/or my attempts at jokes weren't funny. If anyone has any advice for me, I do appreciate it. Thanks for taking the time to read my ranting. Have a good evening/morning!
I'm totally nuerotic, which means I worry about everything little thing. I started working on my PR application a few days ago and I'm now I'm obsessing over it!
A few questions if anyone has the time & knowledge:
- When submitting Skype conversations, is a copy and paste of the chatlog sufficient? I only ask because I can't get Skype to print directly from the screen, so I copied and pasted everything into Microsoft Word. (And would that god awful mountain of text need to be copy certified?)
- Skype #2... in our chatlog there is some very private conversation (and not just naughty... there is some of that too ). Do we need to include every line of text? All I really wanted to prove is we talked on Skype regularly - which we did with voice and video calling.
- Regarding Yahoo Messenger... Is a summary of our chatlog sufficient here or do I need to print out every single conversation? I'm refering to the conversation history that shows we talked on X day, then X day, etc. I ask for the same reason as above. My husband and I are both very private people. I'd rather some stranger not be reading our (naughty) private conversations.... although I'd rather this person reads than me not be accepted into Canada
- As far as text messaging, are phone bills showing my husband owns his phone number, texting one owned by me sufficient proof of conversation? I understand I would need my own phone records showing I owned my own number so they could be referenced. Would highlighting the texts back and forth be considerate or would that be over the top?
- In the beginning of our relationship, neither if us considered factors such as Immigration, so we didn't have our IMs set to save conversations. Will this hurt us? Can I explain this to immigration kinda like I did here and be okay?
- We eloped (after trying to save up for a wedding after 18 months and not getting very far). With a 3 week notice, my father-in-law and his wife couldn't attend. We invited no other family. My m-i-l and s-i-l are gossip mongers and my husband isn't close to either of them. Hubby made the decision to NOT invite either of them of his own free will. None of my family were invited or attended. I didn't invite them to my first wedding either. I just don't care to have them there... I don't speak to my mother at all. My dad is borderline abusive towards me verbally. My brothers are nice people, but we aren't close.... have virtually no contact with extended family. Would have 0 if Facebook didn't whore my profile around. Does anyone have any advice on how to explain this to Immigration in a way that doesn't use the word whore or monger? I'm not exactly tactful or concise, but I want to explain to Immigration my husband and I picked who to invite and neither pressured the other to not invite family. I did invite two of my friends, their husbands, and kids so I had guests. I suppose I could say I didn't think my family would have time to attend (my dad and youngest brother don't have passports either and middle brother is in Australia for whatever reason) but that's not the truth. I just didn't want my drunk alcoholic father trying to tell jokes with his balding mullet belittling me in front of my friends and husband.
- We have lived together since July 2011 (although we plan to file Outland since I'm American unless someone tells me that's a horrid idea). For obvious reasons, we stopped Skyping after that. We have a rental contract with both of our names on it dating Dec 2011. I opened a BMO account in Calgary in October 2011 (I think) and we made the account joint in June 2012 (I think). Is that enough proof of a continuing relationship? I can show them pictures of the cat we adopted and pretend is our child? (Actually I have five thousand cat pictures because I'm turning into THAT crazy cat lady on Facebook!) We used iMessage to stay in touch from October 2011 onwards so we don't have a text message record like two phones would. I'm not sure IF we can make that into a downloadable form to print off for Immigration or if they even want to see us talk about dinner, lingerie, and how much my husband hates his co-workers.... If anyone is aware of how to use iMessage for Immigration, please let me know!
On a side note, the Immigration "Lawyer" (turned out to be a consultant) I spoke with strongly advised me to file inland and said outland was a horrible idea. I've read the posts here on the versus and don't understand why he was so staunchly inland unless it makes him more money.
I have contacted CIWA here in Calgary and asked for a free consultation with one of their lawyers to review my application before we send it in. I'm hoping they agree, so I can finally get some sleep.
Anyway, sorry if I rambled and/or my attempts at jokes weren't funny. If anyone has any advice for me, I do appreciate it. Thanks for taking the time to read my ranting. Have a good evening/morning!