First of all, I URGE you to apply outland! My husband is American. Here's the reason why. Inland first stage is 11 months, second stage is 8 months. Total of 19 months. HOWEVER. Outland is only 11-12 months with BOTH steps. He can be with you even though he's applying outland. My husband has been here since May 2011, we got married Sept 2011, applied March 2012, sponsor approval June 5th 2012. It's A LOT faster.confabulation said:Hi everyone,
First of all, thank you so much for this thread - it has already cleared up a couple things. I do still have some questions, however.
I'm the Canadian my boyfriend is American. We were originally planning on getting married late next summer, but we would like for him to stay up here sooner rather than later as I live on an island which makes travel expensive and it takes forever. Now, we're looking at sometime within the next few months if everything else is okay.
I'm 25 and a student, he's 32 and a cartoonist (meaning he is, essentially, self-employed). We've known each other since about 2004/2005, but we actually started our relationship in 2010. He's been up here for six months now (we lost track of time) maybe a week or two longer.
We were leaning toward inland application (primarily because the travel is so expensive).
My questions are:
- Does he need a passport before I can sponsor him? He has one of the passport ID cards that allows him to travel by land only.
- Can we apply if he has overstayed his six months? I have seen some folks say yes, others say no.
- There is no appeal for inland applications - is it likely we will have to be concerned about this if we have photos, emails (between us as well as him and my family), chat logs, illustrated gifts (he doodles for me a lot), no violent criminal background, no history of bankruptcy, etc? I, obviously, have a growing mound of student debt, and a bit of other debt (maybe a couple thousand), but that's it.
I'm sure there's more, but that's all we can think of for now. Thanks!
As for your overstay, I would honestly, have him leave and come back. It would be better if he voluntarily leaves. Even if you DO apply inland, he MUST have legal status. If he is here illegally, that could spell a lot of trouble. I would take the time and have him go to the states, get lunch, come back. Or something like that. Then the 6 months starts again. Once it comes close to the end of the NEXT six months, (And keep track!!!) about 30 days before it expires, apply online for a visitor's extension. It's 75 dollars, and takes only 30 days to get one. Then there's another 6 months. My husband has applied for two, and both have been approved.
Photos, e-mails, plane tickets, itineraries, ferry tickets, call logs, anything like that, copy's of gifts, receipts of dinners you had etc etc, are all great! As for the debt, I'm 10K in debt, plus on disability, so I'd say you're okay