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- Jun 5, 2011
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- 24-05-2011
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- 28-06-2011
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- 11-10-2011
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- 11-10-2011
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- 29-10-2011
Thanks dair.dair2dv8103100 said:I don't know how you do that!! I have to be honest if we did not talk on a semi daily basis I would NOT be doing this. Please don't get me wrong because I love my husband very much but this is not the kind of relationship I want for long term. I am also not getting any younger and I know he wants to have a child and I want another also. It's not like we are in our twenties doing this.
We don't have a choice but to be "tough". If we were not we would be bumbling messes in front of our children and what good would that do?? You sound very much like me in that I am extremely independent and like you I like to do what I want when I want. But I also know that eventually kids grow up and leave and I don't want to be growing old alone.
You are right, I am lucky and thankful that I get to spend the time I do with him. I really don't know how you guys do it. I don't know if is the fact that you knew each other so long before or not but I give you a lot of credit!!
and CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am very happy for you. ;D ;D
Any update on Ur package? Have U received it by any chance? If its just the NA missing, U can probably send it back the same day U get it, right?
U know, that U have raised Ur daughter alone for ten years is outstanding! I have raised mine for only 2 years and I know how difficult it is. Keep it up! I am sure Ur husband is very proud of U and soon, there will be no need for us to keep up with these long-distance relationships.
And raise U r glass to all the independent women across the word! ;D