Okay well. Hubby, oh heck, TONY (that's his name
) and I met back in 2006. While we had a mutal friend in common, she didn't exactly set us up or anything. He just happened to be sitting at the computer when I messaged her. He was 20, I was 17 (almost 18). Feb 11th. Yep, I know the exact date haha. But anyway, we talked and afterwards I talked to said friend and she said he is basically the male version of me, scary I know. But we became close friends, so close we called each other family "brother and sister". I dated a jerk on and off for three years, he dated some girls, obviously it never worked out. We got into a fight in summer of 2007 when he moved to Iowa, because he was being an ass to the said friend and basically everyone else. So we didn't talk for a year. Then came 2008 when I was about to have surgery and he had moved back to TN, we started talking again and became close again. In 2009, I was dumped, in the worst way possible (the jerk's mother dumped me on the phone.. nice eh?) and I sunk into clinical depression. I reached out to Tony and also to another friend and clung to them. I got the helped I needed and life went on. By April, Tony and I were talking daily. He had MSN on his Xbox 360 and we talked on that for hours. Finally one day(April 24 2010) he was on MSN on his phone and we were talking and I just blurted out "I've had a crush on you all along, but I never told you because I didn't think you'd like me that way" There was a looong pause... he replied "I..honestly felt the same about you.." Me: So how about it? Will you be my boyfriend? Him:
Sure! Soo that's how we started dating
He came up in August 2010 for my birthday for the first time, poor guy. Flew into Ottawa, and mentioned his girlfriend and how he wanted to move here someday.. biiig mistake. He was hounded to the point that he almost cried! When he came out he looked totally beaten down and rejected. But after spending time together and showing him Canadian life, he got better. On my birthday he took me out to a fancy place and afterwards, we walked along Lake Ontario, he kept shaking. I was getting really worried about him thinking he was going to pass out, but instead he got down on one knee and asked me to marry him
Of course I said yes, then immediately called my sister screaming haha.