Love or Opportunity? Coffee Social

[Kev1n]

My gf taught me us not to argue, if that makes any sense ...where in the UK is your husband from?

 

[Kev1n]

He is from the UK?

 

[blueboom]

It makes total sense!

We're working on healthy arguing and not petty, pointless arguing! Arguing because we care about something because we're invested in each other/listening to each other's needs when something pisses us off, etc. My husband is in desperate need for someone to call him on his BS, and I'm in desperate need of someone who doesn't pacify me.

He's been in Scotland for about four years, but he's an Indian citizen.

 

[Kev1n]

It makes total sense!

We're working on healthy arguing and not petty, pointless arguing! Arguing because we care about something because we're invested in each other/listening to each other's needs when something pisses us off, etc. My husband is in desperate need for someone to call him on his BS, and I'm in desperate need of someone who doesn't pacify me.

He's been in Scotland for about four years, but he's an Indian citizen.

does he have a scottish accent? My gf is Chinese

 

[blueboom]

adaoes he have a scottish accent? My gf is Chinese

Only when he curses!

How long have you been together?

 

[Kev1n]

Only when he curses!

How long have you been together?

Only when he curses, hahaha...

We started talking, over 2 yrs ago, but then didnt talk for 7 months or so, I went to China to meet someone else, but it didnt wok out, I also met my now gf briefly, and really liked her when I got home, after a few weeks I wrote to her telling her I liked her and would like to get to know her more, she told me she liked me too, but didnt think I could stick to one woman etc, any way, she came here to visit me 6 months later and we have spent of about 18 weeks together.

 

[blueboom]

Only when he curses, hahaha...

We started talking, over 2 yrs ago, but then didnt talk for 7 months or so, I went to China to meet someone else, but it didnt wok out, I also met my now gf briefly, and really liked her when I got home, after a few weeks I wrote to her telling her I liked her and would like to get to know her more, she told me she liked me too, but didnt think I could stick to one woman etc, any way, she came here to visit me 6 months later and we have spent of about 18 weeks together.

Aww, that's cute.

 

[Kev1n]

Aww, that's cute.

We are going to meet in England, in March, then come back here to get married, not sure weather to , apply inland or out land, but we wont go into that, hahaha

 

[Kev1n]

Whats your story Blue Boom, or anyone else....

 

[amikety]

We are going to meet in England, in March, then come back here to get married, not sure weather to , apply inland or out land, but we wont go into that, hahaha

You know the moral implications! :

Good news! It appears my university career shall begin again on Feb 1st. Hehehehe.

 

[parker24]

Whats your story Blue Boom, or anyone else....

Depends on which story you'd like to hear, I have plenty

 

[blueboom]

We are going to meet in England, in March, then come back here to get married, not sure weather to , apply inland or out land, but we wont go into that, hahaha

Lol, I guess it's not a great time to talk about that here, huh : All the best for your upcoming nuptials! Big wedding? Small?

My dude and I met online about two years ago. We were comfortable with each other from the beginning and connected really quickly. We fell in love after a couple of months of Skyping, I met him in the UK, and it just snowballed into a giant ball of awesome. Neither of us were the kind of people we expected to marry. I realized that he's not the "type" I thought was "my type", but he's exactly "my type"; I just didn't know it (if that makes any sense). We got engaged within six months of first talking to each other and married six months after that.

And now here we are.

 

[blueboom]

You know the moral implications! :

Good news! It appears my university career shall begin again on Feb 1st. Hehehehe.

Yahoo! Congrats!

 

[amikety]

Yahoo! Congrats!

Thanks

 

[Ms Malawi]

You know the moral implications! :

Good news! It appears my university career shall begin again on Feb 1st. Hehehehe.

Awesome news! Does that include any more telephone meetings? Sorry still makes me laugh