Kingston,Jamaica

[Helpmeplease]

hatewaiting- I will check it out and see if I see that...I've seen where there is a list that says,decision made,in process,approved and all that but thought that was just for everyone..I thought it would be right on the spot that it says in process starting whichever date and then below that it would say they received the medicals...I wll check it out thanks

 

[Helpmeplease]

homesoon, exactly that's what I thought it would say..directly under the in process I thought it would say your medicals have been received...anyways nothing I can do but wait..I was hoping he would get the call for originals by the end of this year but looks like it will be next year..kingston must be going on vacation soon enough.

thanks for everything guys!

 

[missinmyboo]

hi family how is it going

jamwifey my ecas say in process Medical results have been received.
y u ask [/color] any thing i need to now and my hubby say it has a B#### and they will contact him in 6 munths and 2 munths before the time

 

[missinmyboo]

sassy75 what da F*** !!!!!!!!!! are u sayin to me the F***ing officer told us if he live that he would not have to pay that $15oo canadion only for the ARC and I also asked a legal ade lower and she say only the $400 what happend to your hubby

 

[homesoon]

Hey Sassy & Missing....

I can't believe that. My lawyer told me that they can't ask you for the $1500 because that's a recovery cost for those that didn't pay for their own ticket.
Anyhow, not going to worry about it. this process has cost us so much already and, if we are asked for that money - oh well.

Ladies, this is such a tough tough process. To all those that need an ARC, I hope this doesn't become the reality for us.

12 more days to JA for me! can't wait.

I remember reading a few of your posts where the stress was playing on your relationship. I'm starting to go a little Squirrly too. I picked a fight with my man yesterday. I just feel so far away and disconnected, maybe I just wanted attention? anyhow, not like he doesn't have enough stress already

 

[Soso-2-di-whurlll]

Morning Everybody....... Slow morning in here.....wha Gwan my friends.....
LCW
KC
HOMESOON
FF
ROSY
MISSING
BOO
HATEWAITING
SASSY
Help me please
PENI
CANUCK....BAM BAM
JAM.... stay strong girl...yuh soon get call for Original Docs...
Everyone ELSE..BIG UPS
Stressed aka GAZA PIT BULL......... What's up...
I checked out the jamberee ting in Youtube and BWOY....... KARTEL A LOOK YXES inna him full white suit....PANTS TIGHT TIGHT TIGHT all the way up to his BUDDY...
and the pink SHIRT...... BWOY dat mon deh.... mi love him BAD BAD BAD

Mi like to see VADO a SING TEACHA TUNE DEM....... MI NAH LET GO..... LOLLLL

WELCOME VANNY..... you are in good hands... good luck with the TRV... Fingers crossed for you girl.

I hope KG a come through this week... been slow since my hubby got through which was almost 2 weeks now....so mi know seh this week a bring big big news....

KC HOW WAS THE PARTY...... there is a big passa passa in Oshawa Boxing day, thinking of going with hubby.....

Yesterday me, hubby and Likkle Man went to a tree farm in the BOONIES and we picked out and cut down our own X-mas tree.... hubby a real trooper... him love the snow..... can't believe it.... He cut down that sucker like he has done it before and carried the whole tree around like a likkle lumberjack in his timberland boots and touque..... LOL......

I can't wait for all of you to get to experience all of these things.... It's so much fun.
He cooked yesterday .... Rice and peas.....and GUESS WHO SEASONED all the meat and cut up everyting and stir the pot........ SOSO TO DI WHURLLLL

Mi even a boil da water tuh ROSIE and add the salt......... LOLLLLLLLLLLLL
The brown stew chicken a SWEETTTTTT...... I am loving the learning and hubby is learning to be patient..... cause him seh mi nah cut da chicken da right way....and at first he a tell mi seh... da irish and onion a na cut small enough.... but him seh CHO.... mek it stay, but next time, mi betta memmba wha him a teach mi.......

And the best part is now him cyan seh mi nah cook fuh him....and mi have today's lunch sort out fuh work....... BAP BAP BAP

Bless everyone

 

[homesoon]

Where are all the updates??? Come on JA, let's start reuniting families!

Hope this finds everyone well. 2 weeks and then we'll be into hoping and praying for 2010.

It's a quiet one on the JA forum these days. You know what that means? There's going to be an explosion of updates soon with great news!

 

[missingmyhubby]

Hatewaiting....thanks for the info about jamaican x-mas.....this time next week i will be on the plane...i can't wait.

KC....were you as mad as i was to find out beenie nah come....cho i was gnikcuf MAD, i bugged my one girl friend to come with me, then we get there and it is canceled!!! WTF!

Hope everyone had a good weekend, today is the start of a new week, lets pray for some updates! ;D

 

[stressedwife]

*****UPDATE******
so hubby got mail today...requesting original docs....birth and marriage....says he has 60 days...... he also said he has a B# on the letter now......
i am happy but thats not all that was on the letter....................
:
HERE IS STORY:hubby has 2 kids but only one is listed on appliccation...... when him and his babymother broke up she left him with one child and she took one....she moved to ochi...he doesnt know where his son is other than that..and she wouldnt send him to foreign anyways....so he only put his son that he takes care of on application

the letter today states they need 4 passport photos for his other child......and stated his name....I am wondering why they would ask for that as he is not coming nor is he on the application....can someone give me some answeeres.....please...hubby gonna call them tommorow and tell them he knows nothing about other child..see what they say...i am so stressed..i hope this is not another block in the road....god knows....said he will fax me letter tommorow.....i feel so down

 

[stressedwife]

I dont know if anyone is feeling like this...but i get frustrated so easy...i am taking my anger out on him like this is all his fault...today he just kept saying baby am soory...but stop acting like this...i dont know why i am just angry at the whole damn process......ARRRRRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH :'(
I HONESTLY TOLD MY HUBBY I WANT TO BE ALONE THIS WEEK...TOLD MY FRIENDS THIS TOO....MAYBE THE STRESS WILL GO AWAY IF I KEEP TO MYSELF...THATS HOW I AM......god give me strenght.....

where is everyone??????? i need like an intervention...stress one.....

 

[rosemel]

Good evening, hope all is well with my Forum Family and everyone had a great weekend.

Hey stressed congrats on the update and I think we are all in the same boat ....and it has to do with this time of year...try to relax and understand it is also hard for hubby. I am having the same problem...I know when hubby tells me how many days we have been into this process it starts getting me down. Counting each and everyday. I hate this process and the not knowing anything or how much longer it will be before we will see each other again??? Chin up and things are moving with your file, that is always a plus!!

SOSO.... you are finally in the kitchen cooking with hubby....(thumbs up)....see it isn't hard to boil that water (wink)...lol, sounds like you guys are having lots of fun..SO happy for you and can't wait until we are doing the same. Glad he is adjusting to this winter we are having...have you made your first snowman???

Lonely...You ok??
Jam...your time is almost over...hope you have had a wonderful weekend with lots of BAM BAM before he leaves.
Well I wish everyone a great week and hopefully some news for all of us very soon.

 

[homesoon]

Hey Stressed,

Not sure how they tracked down the other child unless he was listed on the birth certificates or he had an application in from before where he had listed them - or a passport from the past?? hmmm. But I can understand why you're stressed and angry. Here is an update and that should be good news BUT yet you see a potential problem because of the additional requests. I really like Maple's advice - keep your cool - one day at a time!
Remember, your hubby will so appreciate all of your help once this is all said and done. And you keeping him focused and calm is important.
everything that might become a challenge with this situation of yours can and will be worked through - it will just take patience (and you know how I feel about that - yuck!)
Anyhow, just keep your chin up. Today is stressful and a good nights sleep will give you focus.
Wait until he calls tomorrow and gets the details as to what he needs to do.

Take care, Homesoon

 

[homesoon]

oops - I meant to say that I like rosemel's advice ...
OH ... and congratulations on the update stressed... an update is good news! a step in the right direction. ;D

 

[stressedwife]

thanks homesoon and rosemel.......appreciate it...
in no way am i ungrateful for the update...its just all so confusing... and no my hubby never had him on any sponsorship......nothing like that..i am wondering if they did background check and his name came up....becausse his other son name is in his last name too.....i dont know..when he fax it to me..imma email them..if he gets no answer when he caall dem tommorow.....i just have to wait....
i will keep my chin up....thanks

 

[missingmyhubby]

Stressed...although your are frustrated i must day congrats on the update, i know you see potential problems, but it doesn't change that fact they are doing something on your file, and that is good news ;D
I am sorry you are feeling sooooo stressed right now, :'( it is a terrible feeling , and even more frustrating when our rational mind knows are irrational mind is taking it out on others, but thats what friends, husbands and family are there for....to hold you together when you feel like you are falling apart.
You don't need an intervention your feelings are valid and completely understandable, this process drags us up and a down an emotional roller coaster that appears to have no end, everytime we see the light coming near the end of the tunnel there seems to be a drop and another tunnel please try to keep strong, based on what we read from people like soso, FF, KC, the end must be so worth the ride. ;D