I would like to clear the rukhsati issue once and for all and show you all something from CIC.
It is really important that the guide that is online is read 10 times before we apply.
It is highly recommended.
Below is the guide for Pakistan Nationals.
http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/pdf/kits/guides/3907e.pdf
Go to page A-5 and read the Proof to Sponsor "they" are looking for.
At the very bottom it clearly states the following:
For nationals of Pakistan:
•Approximately 15 to 20 printed photographs of you and your sponsor with relatives and friends. Photos submitted should be comprised by the wedding ceremony (signing of the contract or Nikkah) and customary celebrations held afterwards (the wedding reception or the Rukhsati in Urdu). Photos should also include pictures taken of you and your sponsor together on other occasions, for example, either before and/or after the wedding.
Note: Ensure that all photographs are clearly labelled in English or French with the names of the persons appearing in the pictures, the date the photo was taken
This was modified: Date Modified: 2011-07-18
I believe this should be enough proof and clears all the confusions.