CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[became-a-loner]

Can someone please tell me what rukhsati is? I stay in Hyderabad, India, and havent really seen many of those. Yes we do have cases where the nikah is done and after some time (could be months or years) the valima takes place. Does rukhsati mean the valima? Or maybe we have a different name here for it. Just curious. Thanks!

Ruksati is a spiritual act of two souls not soles meeting in heavens, angels shower their blessings on you .......... on that auspecious day the bride's family depart her but then from the back door she has to return home because embassy wont give her visa for approximately 24 months ..............this holy event is closely monitored by our super intellectuals desi's working at CHC-ISB by sightseeing the rukhsati pictures over a cup of tea, goras are also invited and then all of them see the angels in watermarks on those pictures ........... without this watchful and mindful or mindless if I could say "incidence" if not an EVENT, the marriage is not considered complete .......... CHC-ISB staff has been obsesed with making sure that all the girls get some personal time with their husbands before the spouses depart to Canada ......... and without rukhsati that cannot be promised .......... rukhsati is a bond that unites two worlds which are set apart by few oceans and mind numbing 12000 km and you know what two worlds i am talking about ........ you can just have a nikkah and ruksati and you are still geniune marriage.......... otherwise they will have your babies attend your ruksati ........ rukhsati is an emotionally charged, financially economical, procedurally required, morally needed and physically compentent life saving or threatning event ............ ok I gotta go back to work now

 

[saggit_16]

Yep you are right and it is also consummation of marriage which is one of the important issue for VO verifying marriage genuineness

Ok thanks! Its called Vidaai down here

No wonder the VOs want a rukhsati! Because a marriage is just not complete without the valima...I kinda guessed it had to do with living with your in-laws, but wondered what the big deal about it was anyway...

 

[shamsia]

Ruksati is a spiritual act of two souls not soles meeting in heavens, angels shower their blessings on you .......... on that auspecious day the bride's family depart her but then from the back door she has to return home because embassy wont give her visa for approximately 24 months ..............this holy event is closely monitored by our super intellectuals desi's working at CHC-ISB by sightseeing the rukhsati pictures over a cup of tea, goras are also invited and then all of them see the angels in watermarks on those pictures ........... without this watchful and mindful or mindless if I could say "incidence" if not an EVENT, the marriage is not considered complete .......... CHC-ISB staff has been obsesed with making sure that all the girls get some personal time with their husbands before the spouses depart to Canada ......... and without rukhsati that cannot be promised .......... rukhsati is a bond that unites two worlds who are set apart by few oceans and mind numbing 12000 km and you know what two worlds i am talking about ........ you can just have a nikkah and ruksati and you are still geniune marriage.......... otherwise they will have your babies attend your ruksati ........ rukhsati is an emotionally charged, financially economical, producedurally required, morally needed and physically compentent life saving or threatning event ............ ok I gotta go back to work now

Hahahahahaha!! LOL!! Totally enjoyed your rant!

You seem single-mindedly opposed to the idea of CHC-induced rukhsati. Dare I ask if you had your Rukhsati done, without having my head bitten off?

 

[shamsia]

Yep you are right and it is also consummation of marriage which is one of the important issue for VO verifying marriage genuineness

I see. Thanks for the info

 

[became-a-loner]

Hahahahahaha!! LOL!! Totally enjoyed your rant!

You seem single-mindedly opposed to the idea of CHC-induced rukhsati. Dare I ask if you had your Rukhsati done, without having my head bitten off?

from the first sight to the departing kiss I provided them proof of all the unholy rituals but that does not help them finish their morning coffee with gossip quicker than it should take and work on my file ......... I am part of waiting game but I am not in the game I am a football and I insiste on the word FOOT

 

[shamsia]

from the first sight to the departing kiss I provided them proof of all the unholy rituals but that does not help them finish their morning coffee with gossip quicker than it should take and work on my file ......... I am part of waiting game but I am not in the game I am a football and I insiste on the word FOOT

Maybe they did not like how it was done. They are coming up with a book shortly titled "The Mother of all Visas: Rukhsati"

 

[depression]

Toba karo Inshallah soon you will hear my sweet sis do one salat ul Tasbih Namaz you will see the result Inshallah very soon .......dil chota nahi karo Allah is very kind wo better socha hoga ap ke liay so just pray and ask Allah jo ap ke khair and khushi mai hai wahe ho jaye ......first khair always so I will also pray for you and you will hear soon Inshallah remember

salatul tasbih har friday night ko perhni hai jub tak cic se reply na aye or once only plz do eply. thnks

 

[wes786]

salatul tasbih har friday night ko perhni hai jub tak cic se reply na aye or once only plz do eply. thnks

That definately worked for my case when I did during first two Fridays of ramadan and before the third Friday she received her PPR!

 

[wes786]

Haha that made me laugh...

Ruksati is a spiritual act of two souls not soles meeting in heavens, angels shower their blessings on you .......... on that auspecious day the bride's family depart her but then from the back door she has to return home because embassy wont give her visa for approximately 24 months ..............this holy event is closely monitored by our super intellectuals desi's working at CHC-ISB by sightseeing the rukhsati pictures over a cup of tea, goras are also invited and then all of them see the angels in watermarks on those pictures ........... without this watchful and mindful or mindless if I could say "incidence" if not an EVENT, the marriage is not considered complete .......... CHC-ISB staff has been obsesed with making sure that all the girls get some personal time with their husbands before the spouses depart to Canada ......... and without rukhsati that cannot be promised .......... rukhsati is a bond that unites two worlds which are set apart by few oceans and mind numbing 12000 km and you know what two worlds i am talking about ........ you can just have a nikkah and ruksati and you are still geniune marriage.......... otherwise they will have your babies attend your ruksati ........ rukhsati is an emotionally charged, financially economical, procedurally required, morally needed and physically compentent life saving or threatning event ............ ok I gotta go back to work now

 

[became-a-loner]

Maybe they did not like how it was done. They are coming up with a book shortly titled "The Mother of all Visas: Rukhsati"

They have not opened my file yet ........... they cant dislike it because it was written like a love story with ideas stolen from Holly-Lolly and Bollywood ........ to regale them ..........

the purpose of Canadian "Mission" as they like to call it in Pakistan called High Commission ........is to make sure we all pray to God ........ making us better muslims ........ Subhan-allah ......... and thank you Jason Kenney you are a great muslim

 

[depression]

That definately worked for my case when I did during first two Fridays of ramadan and before the third Friday she received her PPR!

thnks bro ill definately recite every friday till my process over INSHALLAH.

 

[shamsia]

Which brings me to another question...why is Nikah without Rukhsati so popular in Pakistan?

 

[Tor-wi]

LOL

Ruksati is a spiritual act of two souls not soles meeting in heavens, angels shower their blessings on you .......... on that auspecious day the bride's family depart her but then from the back door she has to return home because embassy wont give her visa for approximately 24 months ..............this holy event is closely monitored by our super intellectuals desi's working at CHC-ISB by sightseeing the rukhsati pictures over a cup of tea, goras are also invited and then all of them see the angels in watermarks on those pictures ........... without this watchful and mindful or mindless if I could say "incidence" if not an EVENT, the marriage is not considered complete .......... CHC-ISB staff has been obsesed with making sure that all the girls get some personal time with their husbands before the spouses depart to Canada ......... and without rukhsati that cannot be promised .......... rukhsati is a bond that unites two worlds which are set apart by few oceans and mind numbing 12000 km and you know what two worlds i am talking about ........ you can just have a nikkah and ruksati and you are still geniune marriage.......... otherwise they will have your babies attend your ruksati ........ rukhsati is an emotionally charged, financially economical, procedurally required, morally needed and physically compentent life saving or threatning event ............ ok I gotta go back to work now

 

[anzee]

anyone send the link of supplementary form they request in letter.

 

[Tor-wi]

Nope, it's not popular in Pakistan but many prefer this when the wedding is done with a non-resident specially the parents of the bride as they do not want a nawasa/nawasi without the bride's husband being with her to support her emotionally and be there for the birth of the kid.

Also, trust is another issue, what if the guy does full shadi and never returns? or what if the immigration does not work out and he send out a divorce (God forbid) + considering other suspicions + fikermand rishteydars and their microscopic monitoring of the husband’s character = Nikah seems like a smart solution....she is married yet not married...

Which brings me to another question...why is Nikah without Rukhsati so popular in Pakistan?