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Danny4450 said:
If you are sending more proof of contact voluntarily, then its a positive and would support your case rather than them taking it the wrong way. I understand your situation when you were getting married, but since you had your valima done and sent them pictures then you shouldn't worry too much :)


yes but what about the GOLDEN MOMENT OF rukhsati which they believe consummates marriage in Pakistani culture and anything els does not stand in the way of Rukhsati demand. IO wants the girl to go to her husband's house, this is how loving they are, is not it romantic
 
ONE 2 KA 4 said:
Thek hy Style bhai tum tu arr he gye ho yaar mujh per, Chalo mein he agree krta ho aap ki baat se be aur Become-A-loner se be be. Me at Fault. Ap jeet gye beside VO happy now.
Give a smile now. Tum tu aise behave kr rahe ho jaise court mey khare ho aur tense & stressed out ho. Relax yaar
Don't take anything personally man. You were the prime example of what we were talking about so I just used you as an example. Sorry if I offended you in any way.

And ofcouse I have high hopes from Allah, why wouldn’t I. I don’t know what makes you think I’m stressed over all this, my wife will get her visa when it’s time for us to be together

So I’m relaxed maybe you can relax now too 
 
became-a-loner said:
The problem is .............when people marry, its an emotional decision for them, love is in the air and emotions are running high, when they turn to embassy, Embassy wants them to have acted as a seasoned immigration lawyer and have provided all the proof which couples least expected to collect all along the way, unless one is lucky to have a relative or close friend who has gone through this painful process of proving relationship to embassy. they (Embassy) expect perfection from average Joe which is unfair and if the average Joe tries to fix his/her mistake by lets say going back and c0-hibiting, they stick to their initial findings of NO RUKHSATI, not bonafide, no no no buddy u learnt it now you were not like this to begin with ........ now tell me how fair is this on their part. I have worked on legislation and I know how they interpret it and apply on individual cases, for most part its their subjective feelings but in making such decisions they ruin lives ............ at the end it was all going fine until Jason Kenny and Harper showed up and dumped Pakistan into a trashcan where the legislation is only used to victimize not to help applicants. I believe this delay of 21 months average is created to prevent Canadian citizens and residents to completely avoid marrying in Pakistan because formally they cant ask us to do so but there is always a way between the right way and wrong way to get things done your way, this is way of conservative party

You are absolutely right. Honestly, you're getting married and aren't thinking oh will CHC think the location my special occasion is being taken place at is sufficient or not? *sarcasm* Ofcourse not, you're simply happy to get married and can't think about anything other than how surreal everything feels. I didn't plan anything, it just happened. I didn't get wedding cards made, I feel it would have been a waste of money and I wanted a simple wedding (I don't regret doing that) we called everyone and ask them to show up. Anyways, I don't see why I should have to waste MY family's money to satisfy these people.

I think amongst all the other services CHC-isb should provide us, they should also have their own "card shop and car service" for barat
 
became-a-loner said:
Thank you for sharing your information, did you provide proof of any communication between engagement and nikkah such as emails or phone calls and did you write a detailed story in response to the critical question on form (development of relationship)

Yes, Phone log as well as screen shot of email but did not write anything in detail.
 
became-a-loner said:
yes but what about the GOLDEN MOMENT OF rukhsati which they believe consummates marriage in Pakistani culture and anything els does not stand in the way of Rukhsati demand. IO wants the girl to go to her husband's house, this is how loving they are, is not it romantic

I think in her case, if she sent the NIkkah pictures and the grand Valima pix then its safe to assume that the Rukhsati was done. Unless she mentioned in the form that Rukhsati wasn't done and would be done upon getting Visa, then it could be a concern. If she submitted proof of post marriage cohabitation and communication, then it just further strengthens the case.
 
Style said:
Don't take anything personally man. You were the prime example of what we were talking about so I just used you as an example. Sorry if I offended you in any way.

And ofcouse I have high hopes from Allah, why wouldn't I. I don't know what makes you think I'm stressed over all this, my wife will get her visa when it's time for us to be together

So I'm relaxed maybe you can relax now too 

Good you are relaxed, and I am always in relaxation mood, you should have reliaze it by now.
 
Danny4450 said:
I think in her case, if she sent the NIkkah pictures and the grand Valima pix then its safe to assume that the Rukhsati was done. Unless she mentioned in the form that Rukhsati wasn't done and would be done upon getting Visa, then it could be a concern. If she submitted proof of post marriage cohabitation and communication, then it just further strengthens the case.


I assume they expect rukhsati to start with DUA and then girl being escorted (for the fear of IO devils and witches) by her close male family members under the shadows of Quran on her head walking and getting into Car. I dont think they like to assume anything to help anyone, they want it there or they will keep demanding it
 
ONE 2 KA 4 said:
Good you are relaxed, and I am always in relaxation mood, you should have reliaze it by now.

lol -
 
Style said:
Yes, Phone log as well as screen shot of email but did not write anything in detail.


If you had communication proof between engagement and nikkah, it is a GREAT HELP indeed, not sure for length of time it was but it adds a lot.
 
ONE 2 KA 4 said:
Good you are relaxed, and I am always in relaxation mood, you should have reliaze it by now.

ONE 2 KA 4 tum say kohi nahi jeet sakta and that is true you are so relax brother
 
became-a-loner said:
I assume they expect rukhsati to start with DUA and then girl being escorted (for the fear of IO devils and witches) by her close male family members under the shadows of Quran on her head walking and getting into Car. I dont think they like to assume anything to help anyone, they want it there or they will keep demanding it

Does Rukhsati mean anything in Islam?
 
Style said:
Does Rukhsati mean anything in Islam?


We are not dealing with Islam, we are dealing with IslamicPhobia .....................:)
 
Sigh you guys argue a lot pretends like you all are the champions of immigration process come on relax take a chill pill.
 
became-a-loner said:
We are not dealing with Islam, we are dealing with IslamicPhobia .....................:)

if that was the case then CHC could ask you to live your spouse before the wedding.
 
bestplace4u said:
Sigh you guys argue a lot pretends like you all are the champions of immigration process come on relax take a chill pill.

Well if we all get together we can all open a Immigration Consult Agencies :D