The problem is .............when people marry, its an emotional decision for them, love is in the air and emotions are running high, when they turn to embassy, Embassy wants them to have acted as a seasoned immigration lawyer and have provided all the proof which couples least expected to collect all along the way, unless one is lucky to have a relative or close friend who has gone through this painful process of proving relationship to embassy. they (Embassy) expect perfection from average Joe which is unfair and if the average Joe tries to fix his/her mistake by lets say going back and c0-hibiting, they stick to their initial findings of NO RUKHSATI, not bonafide, no no no buddy u learnt it now you were not like this to begin with ........ now tell me how fair is this on their part. I have worked on legislation and I know how they interpret it and apply on individual cases, for most part its their subjective feelings but in making such decisions they ruin lives ............ at the end it was all going fine until Jason Kenny and Harper showed up and dumped Pakistan into a trashcan where the legislation is only used to victimize not to help applicants. I believe this delay of 21 months average is created to prevent Canadian citizens and residents to completely avoid marrying in Pakistan because formally they cant ask us to do so but there is always a way between the right way and wrong way to get things done your way, this is way of conservative party