IvanP said:I'd rather assume the allegations are true and give good advice, rather than try to decipher whether we're being trolled in this anonymous forum. The victim in an abusive relationship is often told by the abuser that the abuser loves the victim. The abuse is followed by apologies, they make up, and then the abuse starts over. The victim is emotionally attached to the abuser, so when a victim says "he loves me, I love him", it's not at all inconsistent with an actual abusive relationship.
So, here is my good advice for Baby1990:
You need to do the following things right away, and in the following order:
(1) get to a safe place, away from the abuser
(2) contact the police
(3) seek the advice of professionals on how to get your life together (at a minimum, a therapist and a divorce lawyer).
You don't deserve to be abused, and there will be plenty of resources out there to help you. Good luck.
I didn't try to decipher anything but simply brought to your attention that her posts have been inconsistent. You and others have posted on her inquiry before. Now she came up with something that is completely new. I posted the advisory after answering her topic.
She is playing you and you are thinking of her as naive. You are welcome to wait and provide answers to her next posts.