goodman36 said:
ADVISORY TO OTHERS: I realized after writing the above reply that this poster seems familiar. So, I went back and read her previous posts. She is just pulling all of our chains. Many senior members have already commented on her posts earlier. In a previous post this same poster said, her husband loves her a lot and that she loves him too. Stay away from this poster.
I'd rather assume the allegations are true and give good advice, rather than try to decipher whether we're being trolled in this anonymous forum. The victim in an abusive relationship is often told by the abuser that the abuser loves the victim. The abuse is followed by apologies, they make up, and then the abuse starts over. The victim is emotionally attached to the abuser, so when a victim says "he loves me, I love him", it's not at all inconsistent with an actual abusive relationship.
So, here is my good advice for
Baby1990:
You need to do the following things
right away, and in the following order:
(1) get to a safe place, away from the abuser
(2) contact the police
(3) seek the advice of professionals on how to get your life together (at a minimum, a therapist and a divorce lawyer).
You don't deserve to be abused, and there will be plenty of resources out there to help you. Good luck.