Hi! The first post in this thread is really great. I'm looking for some advice on my situation and maybe some clarity for how the process will go.
My boyfriend and I have been together long distance (obviously lol) for just under two years. I'm a citizen in Ottawa and he's in Poland. I work and he just finished school so we're trying to get together ASAP and start our lives, and we decided to do that here (mostly because of the language barrier I face in Poland lol).
We have lived together for about 6 months total (me 3 months there, him 3 months here), so our relationship is considered conjugal as I understand. We do not share finances or have any shared anything. We definitely have the evidence to prove our relationship is genuine. I have 2 year old chat logs, pictures of us traveling and at home being cute, tons of saved texts, plane tickets, and more people than I could even name to testify if that's a thing. However, I've heard that regardless conjugal is the most difficult to get approved. Is this true? I also read that for immigration's sake we are treated like a common law relationship if we have been together a year+ but could not live together due to immigration barriers or laws. What exactly counts as an immigration barrier? Is it as simple as we could have lived together for a year by now if the time limit on visitor visas were longer?
We want to apply inland, but would this be the best option for our case? I'm inclined because of the distance and the price of plane tickets in the case that he needs to come in for an interview (which I imagine he will since we're applying as conjugal). So why not be here anyway, right? In that case, what happens when his 6 month visitor visa runs out? Can he stay since it's estimated to take 12 months to process? If he has to leave, when can he return? Can I leave Canada to visit him while it is processing? Can the two of us leave Canada to vacation (probably 1 week, not the usa) during this process?
If applying as conjugal is not the way to go, what is the best + fastest route? Marriage? I am a business owner as well, would it make sense to put the relationship off the immigration table and have him work for me? Could he extend his visitor's visa for another 6 months so we would be considered common law?
We're both pretty lost on this. Any advice or answers would be awesome.