Re: SPOUSAL Sponsorship PAKISTAN @ London Visa Office
I am sure everybody when they applied were aware of the processing time[which are not set in stone].
For all the husbands whining, man-up and be the emotionally stable person that your significant other need during this process.
I wanted to say something along these lines for couple of days to people whose relationships were getting "effected" by the immigration process but couldn't get myself to sugar coat[which is apparently the only acceptable response in this forum] it without sounding like I am bashing someone.canvis2006 said:Not sure why is relationship being destroyed just by prolonged processing times?
You and your husband must have known about the long processing times on CIC website. Despite knowing this why did you expect a quick and short processing and enjoyment of life in Canada. There are members here who are waiting for more than 4 years for their spouses to be with them, and you're just at 17 months. A little more patience is required, your file is moved to London, they're not that bad and are working on cases.
If a little bit of a delay is destroying your relationship, I suggest you to move to Pak temporarily for some time to be with your spouse.
Try and work out your issues, and learn to be patient and tolerate these things. If you start failing now what will u do when life throws other
things at you guys ? Is the relationship only going to work out if u live in Canada? Rather, it should work under ALL conditions, everywhere in the world, in any state you both must be content and have patience.
Your turn will come soon, I suggest you patch up things in your relation and start to be happy. Get busy, work or study. If you're going to obsess 24 hours a day about visa you will go crazy.
I am sure everybody when they applied were aware of the processing time[which are not set in stone].
For all the husbands whining, man-up and be the emotionally stable person that your significant other need during this process.