crazy D said:
Hi Farhana,
Thanks for this insight .
My husband and i met online after a year and half we met in person then a year after got married. 26 years age gap, my husband older, different religion. but when it comes to documentation we have lots. crazy sweet pic together , but mostly in selfie in public places we've been. messages, western receipts , insurance. no joint account yet coz have to physically sign bank papers.
after his first visit i tried to get TRV, but it was refused for trying to visit and meet his family. then after marriage i tried to get US visa so we could have honeymoon. but then denied coz family ties. so don't want really to try again . it just my husband want me to travel instead of him coz its long hours flight.
the only good thing i see in our application we have tons of happy picture together, it was not quick marriage tho.
by the way, i have a question, is there any effect to officer decision as to what sponsored spouse intended occupation once get there? and also looking into his/her personal history?.
the only thing i'm concern with interview.my husband , he is not good remembering date tho. as for me i know specific date , our first contact,in relationship,first meeting,proposal ,wedding date, etc. i know my husband well, his daily life there and his family coz we talked 24/7 but my husband not really when it comes to my family coz i don't talk that often to my family tho.
I'm still looking forward that despite of our differences we will avoid interview.finger crossed lol
Thank you Farhana
Hello crazyD,
Thank you for sharing your story. I find 2 major “RED FLAG” in your application. One is age gap and other is you both from different religion. I think the visa office will put you in the interview and its possibility 95%. If visa office put you in the interview it will very difficult to waived your interview. In this situation you have to face the formal interview. So you have to very well prepare for your interview if visa office put you in the interview.
I read you have a sweet photo together. But if the photo is only you and your sponsor together it is not enough you need to photo with your parents, family with your sponsor. Do you have any photo which your parents are together with your sponsor? If you have this kind of photo submits it. It will help you to proof your marriage.
You have message like skype screen shot, viber, whatsapp, line, hangsout, emo submits all communication papers at least past 12 or 24 or whatever you have. Money transfer receipt and supportive letter from you and your sponsor friend and family members. If your husband post you anything from Canada submit it with envelops.
If visa office put you in the interview in the interview day the immigration may ask you---
1. What your intention to marry him?
2. Do you want to change your religion? If not why?
3. What you want to do in Canada?
If visa office put you in the interview the visa office email you for interview. You have to face the interview; if you want you can accompany with your sponsor but if you do not want to accompany it is ok. The visa office only email you to face the interview but the visa office will not email your sponsor to face the interview but sometime the immigration officer call sponsor for cross check the question answer.
If your sponsor does not remember the date in this situation you can help him to remember to all the date and special moments in your life. You talk to your sponsor long time every day and you can ask him every day the date and special date of your life. It is good practice for both of you. When I got my interview date, that time I every day I tried to remember my all special date and day in my life. Every day I also practice my sponsor education year, our marriage, divorce date and his all Canadian life because I was very nervous those days. Some time I write all the date, his phone number, his Canadian home address and many other things. I watch 150 interview video to learn how I present myself in front of immigration officer and it really help me.
From my experience I learn if you practice very well you can face all things and passed.
Hope it will help you
Farhana