thank you so much agadir08 , all be fine inchallah , when there is a hope there is a way , keep strong , keep simple all be fine .
To keep me occupied I decided I will paint our room a more cozy welcoming color! Got to have everything perfect for his home coming!!anouarjacklyn said:thank you so much agadir08 , all be fine inchallah , when there is a hope there is a way , keep strong , keep simple all be fine .
Yes both Arabic and English marriage certifiates were sent to them.In addition I had my lawyer notorize these as well and that was sent to them.Also I legally changed my name to Khadija and this legal certificate was forwarded to them as well.Why would I change my name if this mariage is a sham?How much more legitmate can you get.I still have so much to learn about Islam but I converted when we married and my husband is the best teacher I know!rjessome said:I completely understand your stress. Believe me. But if you read that letter again, it says average time is 7 months IF "no interview is required". So that's where they get us.
However, you SHOULD believe their email. You are in the queue for an interview. That's what is taking so long. They've decided an interview is required so you have to wait.
Now in your case, are they aware that you and your husband are now married? I know you applied as conjugal. This is information you should send them if you haven't already. Get your marriage contract translated and send it to them by fax or through the Case Specific Enquiry form where you can add attachments.
You've already ordered your CAIPS notes so they are on their way to you within the next 30 days. If you don't want to sit on the sidelines here are two other things you can do:
1. Contact your MP and ask them to make an inquiry on your behalf.
2. Send another package of proof to them including more emails, chats, telephone records, pictures, boarding passes, etc. Send this via courier like Fedex or UPS where you can track it internationally. Expensive, I know but these are things you CAN do.
I know you are frustrated. I am too but they have the power here, not us. In less than one month, it will be 1 YEAR since I sent our application to CIC Mississauga to begin this whole process. Rabat received our file in November of 2008! And I know others who are still waiting from December and January too. You are not alone. But take it from me, I've wasted too much time and energy being angry, sad and frustrated with them. It's WASTED and I can never get it back. It's not going to help. You have to MAKE yourself stop obsessing over this by throwing yourself into something else. You MUST do this for yourself. All of this will end eventually and we should all focus on doing what we can to stay positive. Focus on things you CAN control, not things you can't. Take it from someone who knows.
And here's something you can do with your husband. PRACTICE for the interview. Practice questions and answers. There are lists posted throughout this thread to give you an idea of what the both of you can expect. At least by doing that you ARE doing something positive for both of you that will improve your chances of having a successful result.