NEW DELHI - 2013 APPLICANTS.

[Myrah7]

I dnt knw bt m loosing everythin....Sum ppl just cant live their own lives...I am so morose no wrds to tell wht is goin on..

till I don't know exactly whats goin on....kya bolu...anyways u know how ppl are ...y do u even care....screw them...as long as u guys are with each other let ppl bark....how does it matter....u guys need to love each other and yes TRUST most impt !!

 

[RD.NewDelhi]

I dnt knw bt m loosing everythin....Sum ppl just cant live their own lives...I am so morose no wrds to tell wht is goin on..

hey -- Don't worry. A mth or so more and all will b fine -- ending a relation for someone else or this stupid strike isn't worth it -- be Lil more patient -- u cannot please everyone. Right? Be a MAST. Its ur life don't let others control your life. Keep your faith alive and spirits high.

 

[James.007]

Hi fingercrossed88,

Patience is the key. Never lose hope. This is life. There are always ups and down in life. Everything happens for a reason. This is a test and you have to pass this test. May be there is something already planned for you. If you pass this test you may become the happiest couple. Everyone argues but that doesn't mean that you are going to end this relationship. This situation will be gone very soon.

Look at the words posted by Namachii where he mentioned "Emotional pain lasts for 10 to 20 minutes, anything longer is actually self inflicted by over thinking, making things worse."

Be strong and don't think about it. Let the things pass by. You will be flabbergasted once this situation is over and you will be the happiest person.
Believe in God. Try to be happy and make your partner happy. People talk. Just ignore them.

Regards,
James

I knw guys I shudnt be so negative bt I feel ths is the only place where I cn vent out my feelings...I cn c my relationship kinda ending in front of my eyes bt I am so helpless

I pray everyday,gather up my courage every single day to be strong n face another day with the hope tht yeah sum day I will get across to my husband n I must say I hv an amazing husband as well bt due to sum family issues,both of us are loosing our patience so much so that even I hv started feeling tht yeah I shud end ths so tht atleast I get the mental peace tht one yearns fr...

I just hv no more wrds to say wht m goin thru

 

[fingerscrossed88]

I am also waiting for the past 7 months so do not take this to mean I do not understand what everyone is going through.

But, I dont understand how this can lead to conversations of leaving the marriage and moroseness. When you married someone from another country, you did know there will eb a wait time. I see from your profiles some are March or April applicants. That is still below the 10 months stated time online when you applied (though that has gone to 11 months now). I understand family can sometimes ask unnecessary questions, but who cares. Its you and your husband you should focus on. All this talk about leaving marriage and all is just silly.

It's not abt being away frm him...I dnt blame him n cn never blame him cz he is the best I cud ever get n nor m I blaming the time gap....It's sum other situations tht are worsening everythin...n breaking us down...whtever will happen eventually is gonna be in future bt as of nw...the situations are sickening

 

[canz]

Canz
M parents belong to garshankar ad m bhen ji. Not bhaji
Lol

hahahhahaha..ok bhen ji.. any village frm garhshankar of proper gsr??

 

[satnam waheguru]

http://m.embassynews.ca/news/2013/08/28/feds-argue-technicality-at-diplomat-strike-hearing/44374

 

[waiting1234]

Yes people have different issues. This is not the forum to discuss those issues is my point. Objectivity is required on these forums

 

[Myrah7]

It's not abt being away frm him...I dnt blame him n cn never blame him cz he is the best I cud ever get n nor m I blaming the time gap....It's sum other situations tht are worsening everythin...n breaking us down...whtever will happen eventually is gonna be in future bt as of nw...the situations are sickening

if its some other reason talk to your hubby discuss it...be transparent ya..........nothing comes bet a husband and wife......as long as u wanna be with each other and love each other kuch nahi ho sakta hai.......bas ya we are nearly thr so close.....

 

[Tdot2329]

I knw guys I shudnt be so negative bt I feel ths is the only place where I cn vent out my feelings...I cn c my relationship kinda ending in front of my eyes bt I am so helpless

I pray everyday,gather up my courage every single day to be strong n face another day with the hope tht yeah sum day I will get across to my husband n I must say I hv an amazing husband as well bt due to sum family issues,both of us are loosing our patience so much so that even I hv started feeling tht yeah I shud end ths so tht atleast I get the mental peace tht one yearns fr...

I just hv no more wrds to say wht m goin thru

Dont ever think of it .....none absolutely none of them loosers who are making or twisting your brains are gonna be der with you for ur life struggles and ur life joys here in canada or even anywhere in the world for that matter.....they all do that just cuz it makes them feel better and supreme over you ......all you should really think of is the day when u will get ur visa and start planning ur future with ur life partner....u can slap each and everyone of ur relatives once you get ur visa.....its not that u r not gonna get it its just a matter of time ......hold on tight u r almost der ....the already gave away 3-5 dm to march applicants.......and it is a MARRIAGE not only u but 2 families are gonna be affected by this......just think of those who are harassing you rite now by their talks...what do u think they will do after u decide to break ur marriage......they will jump onto u even more and also ur family.....take a deep breath .....go watch a movie get freshen up.....learn something new......travel somewhere with ur cousins .......read something.......get knowledge........helpp someone in need......volunteer for some charity org......an idle mind is a devils workshop

 

[fingerscrossed88]

Yes people have different issues. This is not the forum to discuss those issues is my point. Objectivity is required on these forums

thanx fr ur comment bt ths ws certainly nt neede n if at all u dnt want to read ths u cn skip my comments...thanx

 

[fingerscrossed88]

hey -- Don't worry. A mth or so more and all will b fine -- ending a relation for someone else or this stupid strike isn't worth it -- be Lil more patient -- u cannot please everyone. Right? Be a MAST. Its ur life don't let others control your it. Keep your faith alive and spirits high.

yeah I'll do tht n nw m feelin a bit lighter talkin to all of u...thanx yea... :-*

 

[Myrah7]

Dont ever think of it .....none absolutely none of them loosers who are making or twisting your brains are gonna be der with you for ur life struggles and ur life joys here in canada or even anywhere in the world for that matter.....they all do that just cuz it makes them feel better and supreme over you ......all you should really think of is the day when u will get ur visa and start planning ur future with ur life partner....u can slap each and everyone of ur relatives once you get ur visa.....its not that u r not gonna get it its just a matter of time ......hold on tight u r almost der ....the already gave away 3-5 dm to march applicants.......and it is a MARRIAGE not only u but 2 families are gonna be affected by this......just think of those who are harassing you rite now by their talks...what do u think they will do after u decide to break ur marriage......they will jump onto u even more and also ur family.....take a deep breath .....go watch a movie get freshen up.....learn something new......travel somewhere with ur cousins .......read something.......get knowledge........helpp someone in need......volunteer for some charity org......an idle mind is a devils workshop

well said ............slap all the ppl once u get the visa hahah I so love this ya already march have started dear ...... u nearly at your destination ...cheer up ....

 

[skas13]

I am also waiting for the past 7 months so do not take this to mean I do not understand what everyone is going through.

But, I dont understand how this can lead to conversations of leaving the marriage and moroseness. When you married someone from another country, you did know there will eb a wait time. I see from your profiles some are March or April applicants. That is still below the 10 months stated time online when you applied (though that has gone to 11 months now). I understand family can sometimes ask unnecessary questions, but who cares. Its you and your husband you should focus on. All this talk about leaving marriage and all is just silly.

+1

 

[fingerscrossed88]

Hi fingercrossed88,

Patience is the key. Never lose hope. This is life. There are always ups and down in life. Everything happens for a reason. This is a test and you have to pass this test. May be there is something already planned for you. If you pass this test you may become the happiest couple. Everyone argues but that doesn't mean that you are going to end this relationship. This situation will be gone very soon.

Look at the words posted by Namachii where he mentioned "Emotional pain lasts for 10 to 20 minutes, anything longer is actually self inflicted by over thinking, making things worse."

Be strong and don't think about it. Let the things pass by. You will be flabbergasted once this situation is over and you will be the happiest person.
Believe in God. Try to be happy and make your partner happy. People talk. Just ignore them.

Regards,
James

Thanx James...yeah I am holding on n waiting fr my life to get bak on track soon...thanx

 

[fingerscrossed88]

Dont ever think of it .....none absolutely none of them loosers who are making or twisting your brains are gonna be der with you for ur life struggles and ur life joys here in canada or even anywhere in the world for that matter.....they all do that just cuz it makes them feel better and supreme over you ......all you should really think of is the day when u will get ur visa and start planning ur future with ur life partner....u can slap each and everyone of ur relatives once you get ur visa.....its not that u r not gonna get it its just a matter of time ......hold on tight u r almost der ....the already gave away 3-5 dm to march applicants.......and it is a MARRIAGE not only u but 2 families are gonna be affected by this......just think of those who are harassing you rite now by their talks...what do u think they will do after u decide to break ur marriage......they will jump onto u even more and also ur family.....take a deep breath .....go watch a movie get freshen up.....learn something new......travel somewhere with ur cousins .......read something.......get knowledge........helpp someone in need......volunteer for some charity org......an idle mind is a devils workshop

Thanx a lot tdot...means a lot I'll hold tight n divert my mind elsewhere...Thanx..!!