NEW DELHI - 2013 APPLICANTS.

[Myrah7]

Dont ever think of it .....none absolutely none of them loosers who are making or twisting your brains are gonna be der with you for ur life struggles and ur life joys here in canada or even anywhere in the world for that matter.....they all do that just cuz it makes them feel better and supreme over you ......all you should really think of is the day when u will get ur visa and start planning ur future with ur life partner....u can slap each and everyone of ur relatives once you get ur visa.....its not that u r not gonna get it its just a matter of time ......hold on tight u r almost der ....the already gave away 3-5 dm to march applicants.......and it is a MARRIAGE not only u but 2 families are gonna be affected by this......just think of those who are harassing you rite now by their talks...what do u think they will do after u decide to break ur marriage......they will jump onto u even more and also ur family.....take a deep breath .....go watch a movie get freshen up.....learn something new......travel somewhere with ur cousins .......read something.......get knowledge........helpp someone in need......volunteer for some charity org......an idle mind is a devils workshop

well said ............slap all the ppl once u get the visa hahah I so love this ya already march have started dear ...... u nearly at your destination ...cheer up ....

 

[skas13]

I am also waiting for the past 7 months so do not take this to mean I do not understand what everyone is going through.

But, I dont understand how this can lead to conversations of leaving the marriage and moroseness. When you married someone from another country, you did know there will eb a wait time. I see from your profiles some are March or April applicants. That is still below the 10 months stated time online when you applied (though that has gone to 11 months now). I understand family can sometimes ask unnecessary questions, but who cares. Its you and your husband you should focus on. All this talk about leaving marriage and all is just silly.

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[fingerscrossed88]

Hi fingercrossed88,

Patience is the key. Never lose hope. This is life. There are always ups and down in life. Everything happens for a reason. This is a test and you have to pass this test. May be there is something already planned for you. If you pass this test you may become the happiest couple. Everyone argues but that doesn't mean that you are going to end this relationship. This situation will be gone very soon.

Look at the words posted by Namachii where he mentioned "Emotional pain lasts for 10 to 20 minutes, anything longer is actually self inflicted by over thinking, making things worse."

Be strong and don't think about it. Let the things pass by. You will be flabbergasted once this situation is over and you will be the happiest person.
Believe in God. Try to be happy and make your partner happy. People talk. Just ignore them.

Regards,
James

Thanx James...yeah I am holding on n waiting fr my life to get bak on track soon...thanx

 

[fingerscrossed88]

Dont ever think of it .....none absolutely none of them loosers who are making or twisting your brains are gonna be der with you for ur life struggles and ur life joys here in canada or even anywhere in the world for that matter.....they all do that just cuz it makes them feel better and supreme over you ......all you should really think of is the day when u will get ur visa and start planning ur future with ur life partner....u can slap each and everyone of ur relatives once you get ur visa.....its not that u r not gonna get it its just a matter of time ......hold on tight u r almost der ....the already gave away 3-5 dm to march applicants.......and it is a MARRIAGE not only u but 2 families are gonna be affected by this......just think of those who are harassing you rite now by their talks...what do u think they will do after u decide to break ur marriage......they will jump onto u even more and also ur family.....take a deep breath .....go watch a movie get freshen up.....learn something new......travel somewhere with ur cousins .......read something.......get knowledge........helpp someone in need......volunteer for some charity org......an idle mind is a devils workshop

Thanx a lot tdot...means a lot I'll hold tight n divert my mind elsewhere...Thanx..!!

 

[fingerscrossed88]

if its some other reason talk to your hubby discuss it...be transparent ya..........nothing comes bet a husband and wife......as long as u wanna be with each other and love each other kuch nahi ho sakta hai.......bas ya we are nearly thr so close.....

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[RD.NewDelhi]

yeah I'll do tht n nw m feelin a bit lighter talkin to all of u...thanx yea... :-*

u r from Asr right? Go to Darbar Sahib - sit there for a while -- trust me u ll feel alot better.

 

[fingerscrossed88]

u r from Asr right? Go to Darbar Sahib - sit there for a while -- trust me u ll feel alot better.

oh yeah THANX ALOT FR THS ONE.....I AM SURE THS IS THE BEST SOLUTION...THANX RD... :-* ;D

 

[Myrah7]

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babes saw....give me 10 mins will be backk......and trust me all will be ok..... :-* :-* :-*

 

[fingerscrossed88]

babes saw....give me 10 mins will be backk......and trust me all will be ok..... :-* :-* :-*

YEAH THANX.. :-* :-*

 

[RD.NewDelhi]

oh yeah THANX ALOT FR THS ONE.....I AM SURE THS IS THE BEST SOLUTION...THANX RD... :-* ;D

most prolly this weekend i am going there too -- soooooo excited

 

[fingerscrossed88]

most prolly this weekend i am going there too -- soooooo excited

OHH THEN DO LEMME KNW WHEN U R HERE...v cn meet leave me a pm...

 

[RD.NewDelhi]

OHH THEN DO LEMME KNW WHEN U R HERE...v cn meet leave me a pm...

sure

 

[jk45]

babes saw....give me 10 mins will be backk......and trust me all will be ok..... :-* :-* :-*

Finally u r feeling better .. Whenever you are sad or frustrated just speak up with someone or this forum .. Let it out n u will feel much much better .... We have to pass this time .. Specially for girls it's rally tough cause we get stuck with home n in laws but in the end sab thik ho jayega ..
All matters is to be with husband happily ..
We have to fight this toughest time of our life ..
N we also don't have choice .. We are stuck badly !!
So just IGNORE all n try to be HAPPY ..

 

[fingerscrossed88]

Finally u r feeling better .. Whenever you are sad or frustrated just speak up with someone or this forum .. Let it out n u will feel much much better .... We have to pass this time .. Specially for girls it's rally tough cause we get stuck with home n in laws but in the end sab thik ho jayega ..
All matters is to be with husband happily ..
We have to fight this toughest time of our life ..
N we also don't have choice .. We are stuck badly !!
So just IGNORE all n try to be HAPPY ..

yeah I am feeling much lighter than before...n thanx fr the concern..

 

[jk45]

yeah I am feeling much lighter than before...n thanx fr the concern..

Anytime