bhenji or veer ji...just relax nd chill....jd RABB de aasre shdya a saara kujh den fikr ni kri da....everything will be algud...sareya da hi visa ana a...bus ik tym hunda a...jdo sada daana-paani canada da hona asi udo hi jna a....GURU ki nagri ton ho tusiii....jithe sarya diyan manga porian hundian a...WAHEGURU ji always bless us all..,tcfingerscrossed88 said:yeah I am feeling much lighter than before...n thanx fr the concern..
Objectivity if fine, but I think it is OK for people to vent their frustrations, and worry over here. We are all here to support one another. Though it is silly to talk about marriages ending though because of the wait. We all knew this would take time, and if you are already complaining 4-5 months in, then it's going to get difficult really quickly.waiting1234 said:
its a grl ths side n thanx alot fr ur kind wrds...sahi gal hai...sari kahani daana-pani di hai...i knw i hv to be strong..thanxcanz said:
Thanx bt skas its nothin related to the time n the distance...obviously I opted fr ths n I knew very well tht v had to stay apart fr a yr or so...Its sumthin related to the nature of sum ppl arnd us who cn in no way support us in ths bt yeah they try their best to make all efforts to make all ths even worst fr us....its just tht I feel I cant stoop down to their level n ths is wht makes me fell helpless....thts all abt it... :-[skas13 said:
Yeah, I know how things can be with family in India. Stay strong. We are all here for you.fingerscrossed88 said:
yeah...thanx alot...there are certain things u cant share with ur own parents thinkin abt the tension tht it might create in ur parents's minds...so i just hd to vent to it out sumwhere so I did it here...skas13 said:
yup...my lawyer also said that instead of it being a problem..its actually a strong proof that our relationship is genuine...and it shudnt cause any problem since i am a citizen and i also got OCI....I even asked sweden here on the forum...and he said the same thing...but i still would like to send them proof of my return ticket and let them know that i will be going back for sure...gupta417 said:
nothing to do with distance...ppl have lot of issues coz of other ppl in india....when we got into this we all knew it wld take time...and thr are several reasons for such a drastic step...only ppl who go thru this wld understand......its DEFINATELY nothing to do with wait and time !!skas13 said:
yes we are excited now. My daughter made a chain out of construction paper (I helped her as she is only 4), and each link represents a day. We cut a link off everyday so she can see how long it will take for her daddy to get here. Ten days for us until I go pick him up at the Toronto airport.fingerscrossed88 said:yeah...thanx alot...there are certain things u cant share with ur own parents thinkin abt the tension tht it might create in ur parents's minds...so i just hd to vent to it out sumwhere so I did it here...
wishing u n ur family loads n loads of success n happiness in the future..tc
hello everyone,angel2117 said:
Believe me I know how it can be. My husband got a lot of pressure from his family and his elders. I think many thought that me and the kids left him there and never bringing him over. It caused him a lot of stress. And it's worse for him too, because I am not Indian nor the same religion as him. So his pressure was terrible. I'm sure he never told half the things his extended family said or thought about me. it was very hurtful and our marriage almost never survived that.Myrah7 said:
ya I can understand.... anyways...all is well now...hes coming soon....start life all again... happy days are backskas13 said:
That's good...please pray for all of us.....RD.NewDelhi said:most prolly this weekend i am going there too -- soooooo excited
