New Delhi - 2012 applicants

[immigrationwaiting]

Its been two weeks that the MP told us that we will get our visa. There is nothing with postman and on ecas.

I am in such a disbelief right now. I just do not know what to say. It has brought my whole life and marriage in question. A big huge question. Never though I would be the one to wait for so many days. Its mindbogglingly annoying.

I got no job, no work and no happiness left. All I had was hope, which was escalated by the reply we got from MP office. And now even that is crushed.

Many of you applied in july or later. An guys, you too feel the pinch. Imagine my situation!! or our situation who applied earlier.

People we befriended earlier are gone long ago and are happy with their spouses. We still wait and wait and wait.

Any clue if they reject people after file in process or without interview. Our GCMS was clean. MP told that file is in final stage and will be done in two weeks. This is horrible.

At the start of this process, I had promised myself, no matter how much the wait is, I will never cry. But I think I reached my breaking point yesterday. Now my husband has to take a leave from live project and come here. Waste money and his holidays. This is so unbelievably horrid and the worse part is, I do not know if it will end happily and when.

If my VO is reading this and knows who I am..one question for you, what do you want? You won, now please conclude our case in whatever manner you wish, but for God's sake end this agony. I need an answer. before any more days of my life are wasted.

hey mumble.. i wont even say i feel ur pain coz i dont.. i just cant imagine wat u must hav gone thru for more than 8 months... we get married with hopes n promises of a new life , new people and in our cases a new country... i would like to say that though everyone says oh we shud hav been prepared for this wait, we were aware of d process since beginning.. bt its easier said dan done... waiting is not easy. spcly wen u dont have a fixed time frame..
i am glad ur husband is comin to visit u.. relations r more imp dan money n time...

though m in no position to advise u bt i would tell u sth dat i was told by an immigration consultant in canada.. he is our relative so i trust him on this. he gave us one advice- dont send any querry!!!!! niether thru mail.fax or mp or gcms .. nothing.. in other words once u submit it.. forget about it... now i kno its very easy to say dan actualy do it,, coz i myself ended up emailin ndvo once.. which i regret bt well....

so please have faith in the almighty... its d situation like this wen our faith is tested.. weneva i feel frustrated i like to remind myself dat something good wil come out of this.. my mom says dat we as humans r very short sighted bt our God has bigger plans for us..and wat is happening rite now is just a part of that plan and will lead us to our happiness.. these words rly help me go thru every tough situation.. so i think they mite help u too..
also happiness is not by chance bt by choice.. so pls choose to be happy.. happy about d fact that u r gone get to meet ur husband after so long... pretend to be happy al the time.. keep a smile on ur face even if a forced one... good news is just round the corner.. ur at the end of the road girl.. i wud say get ready to welcome ur husband n make plans about it.. forget abt wat mp said or ur ecas says.. njoy this time with him n sure enuf u guys wil go back together.....amen


ps- sorry if it was too philosophical.. it was indirectly meant for myself as well.. it feels good to write it down.. lots of best wishes...

 

[muksi]

hey mumble.. i wont even say i feel ur pain coz i dont.. i just cant imagine wat u must hav gone thru for more than 8 months... we get married with hopes n promises of a new life , new people and in our cases a new country... i would like to say that though everyone says oh we shud hav been prepared for this wait, we were aware of d process since beginning.. bt its easier said dan done... waiting is not easy. spcly wen u dont have a fixed time frame..
i am glad ur husband is comin to visit u.. relations r more imp dan money n time...

though m in no position to advise u bt i would tell u sth dat i was told by an immigration consultant in canada.. he is our relative so i trust him on this. he gave us one advice- dont send any querry!!!!! niether thru mail.fax or mp or gcms .. nothing.. in other words once u submit it.. forget about it... now i kno its very easy to say dan actualy do it,, coz i myself ended up emailin ndvo once.. which i regret bt well....

so please have faith in the almighty... its d situation like this wen our faith is tested.. weneva i feel frustrated i like to remind myself dat something good wil come out of this.. my mom says dat we as humans r very short sighted bt our God has bigger plans for us..and wat is happening rite now is just a part of that plan and will lead us to our happiness.. these words rly help me go thru every tough situation.. so i think they mite help u too..
also happiness is not by chance bt by choice.. so pls choose to be happy.. happy about d fact that u r gone get to meet ur husband after so long... pretend to be happy al the time.. keep a smile on ur face even if a forced one... good news is just round the corner.. ur at the end of the road girl.. i wud say get ready to welcome ur husband n make plans about it.. forget abt wat mp said or ur ecas says.. njoy this time with him n sure enuf u guys wil go back together.....amen


ps- sorry if it was too philosophical.. it was indirectly meant for myself as well.. it feels good to write it down.. lots of best wishes...

After reading mumble's post i was feeling sad for her but after reading yours i realized that every situation can be looked at positively and make ourself happy. I completely agree with you. Hope it helps all who are waiting!
+1 for you.

 

[Chitraajay]

hey mumble.. i wont even say i feel ur pain coz i dont.. i just cant imagine wat u must hav gone thru for more than 8 months... we get married with hopes n promises of a new life , new people and in our cases a new country... i would like to say that though everyone says oh we shud hav been prepared for this wait, we were aware of d process since beginning.. bt its easier said dan done... waiting is not easy. spcly wen u dont have a fixed time frame..
i am glad ur husband is comin to visit u.. relations r more imp dan money n time...

though m in no position to advise u bt i would tell u sth dat i was told by an immigration consultant in canada.. he is our relative so i trust him on this. he gave us one advice- dont send any querry!!!!! niether thru mail.fax or mp or gcms .. nothing.. in other words once u submit it.. forget about it... now i kno its very easy to say dan actualy do it,, coz i myself ended up emailin ndvo once.. which i regret bt well....

so please have faith in the almighty... its d situation like this wen our faith is tested.. weneva i feel frustrated i like to remind myself dat something good wil come out of this.. my mom says dat we as humans r very short sighted bt our God has bigger plans for us..and wat is happening rite now is just a part of that plan and will lead us to our happiness.. these words rly help me go thru every tough situation.. so i think they mite help u too..
also happiness is not by chance bt by choice.. so pls choose to be happy.. happy about d fact that u r gone get to meet ur husband after so long... pretend to be happy al the time.. keep a smile on ur face even if a forced one... good news is just round the corner.. ur at the end of the road girl.. i wud say get ready to welcome ur husband n make plans about it.. forget abt wat mp said or ur ecas says.. njoy this time with him n sure enuf u guys wil go back together.....amen


ps- sorry if it was too philosophical.. it was indirectly meant for myself as well.. it feels good to write it down.. lots of best wishes...

Do u really think going to a mp will create problems in our file..otherwise also we are in problem with the life..the worst part is they don't even reply to our email..So in that case we have to go to MP and check whats going on rite? Whats wrong in that??

 

[smallworld]

hey mumble.. i wont even say i feel ur pain coz i dont.. i just cant imagine wat u must hav gone thru for more than 8 months... we get married with hopes n promises of a new life , new people and in our cases a new country... i would like to say that though everyone says oh we shud hav been prepared for this wait, we were aware of d process since beginning.. bt its easier said dan done... waiting is not easy. spcly wen u dont have a fixed time frame..
i am glad ur husband is comin to visit u.. relations r more imp dan money n time...

though m in no position to advise u bt i would tell u sth dat i was told by an immigration consultant in canada.. he is our relative so i trust him on this. he gave us one advice- dont send any querry!!!!! niether thru mail.fax or mp or gcms .. nothing.. in other words once u submit it.. forget about it... now i kno its very easy to say dan actualy do it,, coz i myself ended up emailin ndvo once.. which i regret bt well....

so please have faith in the almighty... its d situation like this wen our faith is tested.. weneva i feel frustrated i like to remind myself dat something good wil come out of this.. my mom says dat we as humans r very short sighted bt our God has bigger plans for us..and wat is happening rite now is just a part of that plan and will lead us to our happiness.. these words rly help me go thru every tough situation.. so i think they mite help u too..
also happiness is not by chance bt by choice.. so pls choose to be happy.. happy about d fact that u r gone get to meet ur husband after so long... pretend to be happy al the time.. keep a smile on ur face even if a forced one... good news is just round the corner.. ur at the end of the road girl.. i wud say get ready to welcome ur husband n make plans about it.. forget abt wat mp said or ur ecas says.. njoy this time with him n sure enuf u guys wil go back together.....amen


ps- sorry if it was too philosophical.. it was indirectly meant for myself as well.. it feels good to write it down.. lots of best wishes...

I agree fully agree with you. You just wrote down which I wished to write. +1 for you.

I also had heard about delay if we enquire. I had also thought to enquire through my MP. But dropped that plan. Had sent a mail but ignored it.

May Lord be your strength Mumble. Don't loose hope yaar. Everyday we live with this hope that tomorrow will be a better day

 

[immigrationwaiting]

Do u really think going to a mp will create problems in our file..otherwise also we are in problem with the life..the worst part is they don't even reply to our email..So in that case we have to go to MP and check whats going on rite? Whats wrong in that??

wel i dont kno since i am not a specialist.. bt i dont have ne reason to not blv in someone who has been in this field for so long n is part of our family.. well to each his own i wud say... pls do wat gives u ur peace of mind coz i kno some situations it gets rly frustrating n dan sending a query is only option left.. its jsut dat not sending ne query is wat we have decided to do in our case personaly for now.. u nvr kno may be i too end up in a situation whr i HAVE to send it...

 

[mumble]

I agree fully agree with you. You just wrote down which I wished to write. +1 for you.

I also had heard about delay if we enquire. I had also thought to enquire through my MP. But dropped that plan. Had sent a mail but ignored it.

May Lord be your strength Mumble. Don't loose hope yaar. Everyday we live with this hope that tomorrow will be a better day

Thank you smallworld.

Arre issue yeah hai ki, ek baar bola two weeks main aayega..then i should come. Nahi dena hai two weeks main to bol do na, nahi aayega. I did shopping for third time last week...cleaned bags packed partially, so that I could fly as soon as I get visa. Abhi they put me in a pressure cooker. Kiss pe bharosa rakhe samaz main nahi aata. We are going to update MP, but even we are planning to ask him not to inquire any further. Thank God we did not inform many people from family about the reply we got two weeks ago. But parents ko pata chala. Now everytime I try to forget it, I get another question from parents.

Given the fact that we did not get visa in the time stated by MP, I am worried that last stage main they did some kidas.

I also think it wont happen with you guys. Our case was an excellent case of bad timing.

I have same questions as Chitraajay.

With great power comes great responsibility. Embassy needs to understand that instead of well..you know what I mean.

 

[tiredofwaiting]

OH MY GOD!! OH MY GOD!! FINALLY AFTER MONTHS OF WAITING .....

DECISION MADE!!

what does that mean?? is it good or bad?

 

[mac_canada]

DECISION MADE..

We started processing XXXXXXXX application on January 28, 2013.
A decision has been made on xxxxxxx application. The office will contact xxxxxxx concerning this decision.

India address still there...what does it mean?

 

[mumble]

Its a great news..both of you

Pack your bags !

 

[mac_canada]

Its a great news..both of you

Pack your bags !

So how long will it take to get passport from new delhi..Mumble..I wish you speedy visa too..
I will preaching to the choir but patience is the key..

 

[immigrationwaiting]

DECISION MADE..

We started processing XXXXXXXX application on January 28, 2013.
A decision has been made on xxxxxxx application. The office will contact xxxxxxx concerning this decision.

India address still there...what does it mean?

OH MY GOD!! OH MY GOD!! FINALLY AFTER MONTHS OF WAITING .....

DECISION MADE!!

what does that mean?? is it good or bad?

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!! GOD BLESS YOU ALL.....

 

[nreddyd9]

Hi nreddy,

congratulations to you....you are of the lucky lot....btw...was ur case straight forward ?? i have send out my pp around the same time as you and keeping my fingers crossed after ur dm....u give me lots of hope...
cheers !!!!

Thank You. yes it was staright forward. I wish you get DM soon!! Wish you Good luck

 

[tiredofwaiting]

Its a great news..both of you

Pack your bags !

lots and lots of excitement and confusion!! I just informed my husband about it and told him to start preparing and tell his work place that he's on a 2-3 weeks notice so that he can be relieved the minute passport comes. he busted my bubble saying he doesn't trust the Canadian Embassy and he is not going to do anything until the passport's in his hand. we ended up having an argument instead of celebrating....ugh marriage is stupid and complicated!! i am so confused

 

[mumble]

lots and lots of excitement and confusion!! I just informed my husband about it and told him to start preparing and tell his work place that he's on a 2-3 weeks notice so that he can be relieved the minute passport comes. he busted my bubble saying he doesn't trust the Canadian Embassy and he is not going to do anything until the passport's in his hand. we ended up having an argument instead of celebrating....ugh marriage is stupid and complicated!! i am so confused

Its a good fight..not bad...and its fun to fight on issues like this..and yes let him wait for passport. It will hardly take 4-5 days if u r in a city.

 

[tiredofwaiting]

Its been two weeks that the MP told us that we will get our visa. There is nothing with postman and on ecas.

I am in such a disbelief right now. I just do not know what to say. It has brought my whole life and marriage in question. A big huge question. Never though I would be the one to wait for so many days. Its mindbogglingly annoying.

I got no job, no work and no happiness left. All I had was hope, which was escalated by the reply we got from MP office. And now even that is crushed.

Many of you applied in july or later. An guys, you too feel the pinch. Imagine my situation!! or our situation who applied earlier.

People we befriended earlier are gone long ago and are happy with their spouses. We still wait and wait and wait.

Any clue if they reject people after file in process or without interview. Our GCMS was clean. MP told that file is in final stage and will be done in two weeks. This is horrible.

At the start of this process, I had promised myself, no matter how much the wait is, I will never cry. But I think I reached my breaking point yesterday. Now my husband has to take a leave from live project and come here. Waste money and his holidays. This is so unbelievably horrid and the worse part is, I do not know if it will end happily and when.

If my VO is reading this and knows who I am..one question for you, what do you want? You won, now please conclude our case in whatever manner you wish, but for God's sake end this agony. I need an answer. before any more days of my life are wasted.

Hey Mumble I am so sorry to hear about this! But I just want to say that if the MP said 2 weeks, it could be that after 2 weeks your passport was supposed to be dispatched? I am not saying be patient and I am not saying it will come because I will be the biggest hypocrite to say so. I cried everyday and I also came to a point where my marriage was in questioning of existence and the worst part was I just came to Canada in September 2012 and they asked for my husband's visa. our future plans were to start business and when they asked for his passport, everyone said that his passport will be returned in 15 days!! and so i was encouraged to start the business and get everything set up in time for him to come. it took me 3 months to get everything ready and i was still waiting for any news to come!! I started up business in December and forcefully due to a family function and because my husband wasn't here, I had to go visit him back in India for just 10 days. in that time my work suffered and I bought ticket so much more expensive then i would have ever had to buy if i had some early planning. and all i did was complain about going. but when i landed in delhi and saw my husband and finally hugged him....let me tell you this, it was all worth it!!

I also want to tell you that I sent in 3 email queries to them and I went to the Canadian embassy New Delhi personal trying to inquire as well, even though they didn't take any inquiries in person, I mentioned in my last email that I went!! and i am not sure if that made an impact on their decision making but i guess we will find out. all i know is, i needed to do it for my satisfaction and i was told by many not to put in so many inquiries but oddly enough when i went to CHC Delhi, the guards (now am not sure if they were just bluffing) told me to email them as many times as i want and even told me to write urgent on top of the email!! they tend to reply sometimes!!

I don't know how this will help you...all i'm trying to say is don't think of your husband coming to india as a waste of money or time...and make the most out of it, kind of like a second honeymoon ... and I will pray for you that you get to go back with your husband and that too soon!! you are in my prayers!! Everyone here is!