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tuyen said:
I was the same way...but that was because deep inside every fiber of my being, I knew - without any doubt - that my success or failure in life will have absolutely no connection with my school grades. I knew it as young as 15 or 16...but of course nobody takes you seriously at that age, especially when you start talking about life. At the time, when I tried drilling that concept into my parents' heads, they thought I was insane. But it turned out that I would ultimately be vindicated, as my grades and education as a whole had absolutely ZERO impact on my life.

If you really feel that going back to school will help you out in the long term with your career and overall quality of life, then it's definitely something you should consider. But make sure you weigh the pros and cons properly, because many people have gone back to school in their late 20s and 30s, only to regret it later because it had little or no impact on their salaries and career in general. Certain occupations will definitely reward you for having more diplomas/certificates/degrees, while others won't even give you a second blink.
I agree with you on grades not being a marker for career success; I've always believed that. If I go back to school, it has to be for a professional degree or not at all, but I'd have to ace the LSAT if I want to go to law school. :mad: The problem I'm facing right now is all of the career areas I've been interested in since I was younger require more education, so I feel as though I've closed a number of doors because of my youthful pettiness. I completely avoided mathematics and science in school because my mother kept pressuring me to become a doctor, so my logic was "HAH, I did the bare minimum. Now I CAN'T be a doctor! BEGONE EVIL WOMAN!" It was the small rebellions that kept me sane then. Because I was so determined to not make my mother proud (hah), I stopped caring in general, as I said, and my GPA ended up being a disaster. GRUMBLE GRUMBLE GRUMBLE
 

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tuyen said:
Now...if you pinch daddy again without just cause, he may have no choice but to spank you.
I'll give you two some privacy.
 

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tuyen said:
Heeeyyy! Why am I being pinched AGAIN!?

All I said was that I couldn't bring myself to believe that you were delinquent...because you've always struck me as being someone who was a good kid..

Now...if you pinch daddy again without just cause, he may have no choice but to spank you.
:-X

One day when I was about 5 or 6 years old, I was sitting on my daddy's lap and I used to always pinch his biceps and one day decided to bite him as he never reacted to the pinches. He gave me one quick smack (without saying a word the whole incident) and that was the first and last he ever smacked me. So now I just stick with pinching.
 

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blueboom said:
I'll give you two some privacy.
Not what you think blueboom.

This is Tuyeniees way when it comes to social etiquette. Forgive him for he does not know any better.
 

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Not what you think blueboom.

This is Tuyeniees way when it comes to social etiquette. Forgive him for he does not know any better.
He does too!
 

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Halfmoon said:
Not what you think blueboom.

This is Tuyeniees way when it comes to social etiquette. Forgive him for he does not know any better.
LOL He doesn't need to apologize for being in his natural state.
 

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tuyen said:
He does too!
You see blueboom?

He referred to himself as "He".
 

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Halfmoon said:
You see blueboom?

He referred to himself as "He".
You crack me up!
 

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blueboom said:
You crack me up!
wellllll....I think that is Tuyeniee's specialty.
 

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blueboom said:
I'll give you two some privacy.
why?! It's just getting good!... :p
I hope you all have had a good day. We might have all got into the car to go for a small drive to get out of the house and at some point we decided that we wanted food from a place that wasn't around us and...yeah we ended up driving 3 hrs one way for donuts and cherry lime-aids.... All I can say is thank heaven for the in-car dvd players!!!!
 

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mameelynn said:
why?! It's just getting good!... :p
I hope you all have had a good day. We might have all got into the car to go for a small drive to get out of the house and at some point we decided that we wanted food from a place that wasn't around us and...yeah we ended up driving 3 hrs one way for donuts and cherry lime-aids.... All I can say is thank heaven for the in-car dvd players!!!!
I hope the donuts were good! I love long drives. Sometimes.

I was driven home after lunch by the company driver. My back pain was sooo horrible I actually cried at work. I got home, fell into bed... And napped for five hours. I just got up and it hurts just as much.
 

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goldenkagi said:
I hope the donuts were good! I love long drives. Sometimes.

I was driven home after lunch by the company driver. My back pain was sooo horrible I actually cried at work. I got home, fell into bed... And napped for five hours. I just got up and it hurts just as much.
sad!!!
Yeah they are pretty awesome donuts... the place is called Voodoo Donuts and they have a maple bacon bar... it is the best!!! And to think we were just going for a short drive... 9 hrs later and 400 miles later! Oh well it's good practice for the kids in April when we go the almost 3000 for the big move north!!
 

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mameelynn said:
sad!!!
Yeah they are pretty awesome donuts... the place is called Voodoo Donuts and they have a maple bacon bar... it is the best!!! And to think we were just going for a short drive... 9 hrs later and 400 miles later! Oh well it's good practice for the kids in April when we go the almost 3000 for the big move north!!
Wow mameelynn, Voodoo Donuts sounds so cool! Looks like you had a blast :) Good luck with your move, it's only three months away now!