Kingston,Jamaica

[CanadianWifey89]

Ninirae you are too funny!! Care to elaborate on the almost argument???

My husband cannot believe how much I love popcorn and was in shock when I told him that I was having popcorn (food not popcaan) for dinner bc went to a movie with my friends and that I will have popcorn for dinner quite a bit (sadly). Oh and he hates microwaves and wouldn't eat the microwave popcorn, but then when he finally did try he was in AWWWWEEEEE of it and it is officially the only microwave food he will eat (well I guess "food" is debatable)!!!

LOL! That is adorable!

 

[Ninirae]

Ninirae you are too funny!! Care to elaborate on the almost argument???

My husband cannot believe how much I love popcorn and was in shock when I told him that I was having popcorn (food not popcaan) for dinner bc went to a movie with my friends and that I will have popcorn for dinner quite a bit (sadly). Oh and he hates microwaves and wouldn't eat the microwave popcorn, but then when he finally did try he was in AWWWWEEEEE of it and it is officially the only microwave food he will eat (well I guess "food" is debatable)!!!

Oh, to elaborate! Lol... so basically it consisted of me asking him if he likes caramel popcorn and his immediate response was: “I HATE popcorn!” To which I said: “No you don’t .” He practically yelled: “Yes I do! I will NEVER eat it! It’s garbage! Why would you ask me such a stupid question? What’s wrong with you?!” To which I said: “Mr. Nini, you have eaten popcorn around me.” Him: “NO! You’re a liar! I hate it!”
Please note that by this point, he was VERY passionate about his dislike for popcorn and with his last comment, I was becoming enraged at being called a liar... so I took a deep breath (okay, maybe a FEW deep breaths – lol) and responded with: “Pretty sure it was you who ordered the large popcorn with double butter when we went to the movies... and I’m also pretty sure it was you who ate almost the entire bag and couldn’t stop telling me how addictive it was and how much you liked it and wish the butter was distributed better instead of just on the top...” To which he said... “Oh Mrs. Nini! You’re crazy!!” To which I started laughing then said: “You do realize I almost allowed us to get into a full blown conversation over popcorn?” Then we both burst out laughing and he went into telling me how much he misses me and how angry he has been lately and he’s so grateful that he has me as his wife to keep him grounded...

SILLY MR. NINI!!!!!

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[Zoey80]

Hi everyone!! Hope all is well!!!
A little dissapointed today, got my notes and no real activity?
I'm looking at the lower portiong of the notes....should i be looking anywhere else? This is my first time ordering them.

 

[Zoey80]

do any of you rent a car when you go to JA? I'm landing in Kingston in Feb and considering renting a car? Anyone done it from Kingston before?

 

[mrsbrown]

When did u apply? Because many ppl who applied over a year ago still have no progress in their notes. It might be a bit of a wait yet. U can check the link under chickie72's posts to see what the timeline of our forums applicants have been.

 

[Zoey80]

When did u apply? Because many ppl who applied over a year ago still have no progress in their notes. It might be a bit of a wait yet. U can check the link under chickie72's posts to see what the timeline of our forums applicants have been.

I received sponsorship approval in may 2013
I know I havent been waiting long but its dissapointing to see that they haven't touched it at all

 

[mrsbrown]

I know exactly how u feel I received my notes this week and I applied in march. No one has even looked at my file. Hang in there. I are not alone.

 

[carm_cnd]

OMG my husband needs to get here already! I just added up my trips to Jamaica since Dec 2009. I didn't count the first trip because I met him down there so it was more so for me then him. But I just got back from Trip 15 ( 16 really) and I average with ticket, food, hotel and car rental my trip average is 3,500 up to 4,000. @ 3,500 I have spent $52,500 in the last 4 years.

I cant believe this. Maybe the government should start looking at those numbers. It is making me re think my trip in April.

 

[lovindahubby]

I know exactly how u feel I received my notes this week and I applied in march. No one has even looked at my file. Hang in there. I are not alone.

Lol mrsbrown dnt be surprised they might as well looked at it also and u won't see it in the notes. That's the trick.. For example. You can email kingston and ask a question about your husband file and you think there's no movement and they can reply back with an answer saying its in initial review or its waiting on medical issuance... But yet still in your notes it nothing... So don't be shocked or feel down if you think there's nothing goin on. Lol

 

[lovindahubby]

OMG my husband needs to get here already! I just added up my trips to Jamaica since Dec 2009. I didn't count the first trip because I met him down there so it was more so for me then him. But I just got back from Trip 15 ( 16 really) and I average with ticket, food, hotel and car rental my trip average is 3,500 up to 4,000. @ 3,500 I have spent $52,500 in the last 4 years.

I cant believe this. Maybe the government should start looking at those numbers. It is making me re think my trip in April.

Well dis is quite a number... U never know how much you spend until one day you sit and realize its a lot of money to travel to go see a love one... I'm not even goiin to sit and check mine... Cause I might curse two claat... Smh

 

[Jamnic]

All,
I am really touch by everyone that reached out to me. It truly put a smile on my face reading all the encouraging words you each had to say. My friends truly dont understand what am going thru. All i know is that i had high expectations on how he was going to feel. I dont think he prepared mentally for this n it hit him hard. I've tried to explain to him that i can understand because I too come from a different country n adjusting was not easy. The only difference is that he has a child he left behind n i dont have any. At this point I am just going to keep being myself And try a bit harder to make him feel the man he is. It doesnt make him weak the fact that he broke down n cry, what I see is that he is a great father and if God ever granted me the opportunity to b a mother I would be proud to have a child with this man.

One thing that I forgot during this process is the fact he has a child. I kept thinking n planning my life with him not knowing it was going to affect him that much. We are thinking of buying his son a mini ipad so he can skype every night. I told him if he wants to sponsor him we can do that next year. Everyone comes to Canada for a reason n thats to have a better future for your family.

Sometimes we 'woman' think we know everything n believe everything is a bed of roses because we are so wrapped up crazy in love with these man not realizing that everything could come crashing down on us n make us feel so weak n lost. I do think that only those relationships that make it in the end are a real true love story.

Even though he says he loves me and he is here with me i question everyday if he truly wants to b here. Well Good night! I will b back to keep u updated if theres any progress on my situation.

Ninirae- u made me laugh with the popcorn story!!!

 

[chickie72]

lol! Thanks that made me laugh! I was having a pretty bad day today..like to the verge of tears while at work..So I booked my vacation request..I'm going home!

yahhhhh when you going?

 

[chickie72]

I can guarantee you that almost everyone has a funny argument topic when they think back. And I was ready to get heated about this popcorn debate!!

lol today I was talking to hubby and he said they are having a cold front so I checked my weather app and said babes it is 26 in Kingston and -2 here and you wanna talk about a cold front LMAO

 

[chickie72]

Hi everyone!! Hope all is well!!!
A little dissapointed today, got my notes and no real activity?
I'm looking at the lower portiong of the notes....should i be looking anywhere else? This is my first time ordering them.

on the first page third line it should say updated date: that is the last time someone went into your file and if it is a newer date then last time then check through your entire notes for a date that is the same as that and you will be able to tell what they did. What i do each time I get a set (every month lol) I highlight all things that are different then the last ones and that tells me what they are doing> hope that helps....if you have anymore questions just ask away

 

[carm_cnd]

Well dis is quite a number... U never know how much you spend until one day you sit and realize its a lot of money to travel to go see a love one... I'm not even goiin to sit and check mine... Cause I might curse two claat... Smh

lol yea mon don't do it!