Kingston,Jamaica

[CocoVanilla]

Good morning JamFam!

How's it going?!

Good morning CdnWifey89! It's quiet in here today. Hopefully it's just the calm before the PPR storm!!!

I'm doing alright on this fine Thursday. How are you?

Let's go Kingston.... 2 more days this week to answer some prayers and make some wishes come true!

Please start moving so that all 2012 applicants are finished off before the end of January. And then February can have a sea of PPRs for the 2013 applicants!

Who's next to win the Kingston Lottery?????

 

[longdistanceloves]

Good morning!!

I too would like the 2012 applicants out of here by the end of January

Happy Thursday everyone!!! Get to workin Kingston!

 

[CocoVanilla]

Good morning LDL, THOR and Chickie

 

[CocoVanilla]

Happy new year everyone!! I havent been on the forum since my husband landed on Dec 27th. I picked him up at 3:30am. Its been a year since we saw each other. He was tired from the travelling. The next day was my birthday n i was so happy spending it with him until he broke down n cry because he misses his son. I could understand but that just made my day feel crappy n i felt guilty n selfish for wanting to be with him. Everything is so much different from JamAica that is hard to explain n to assure that everything is going to be ok. I on the kother hand am trying really hard to pretend n to keep my feelings inside. I just dont k ow what to do or say anymore. We already had like 3 fights in such little time. I just hope that whatever is in next for us is something good n positive. Because so far i experience the opposite of what i thought it was going to feel like. My husband doesnt like the fact that if its freezing outside i dont go out unless i have absolutely have to example 'WORK'. I am not the type to just go out just because. When spring n summer arrives is a whole different story. He also has been looking at jobs in Alberta n keeps asking me if i would move there. N yes i would except i cant just pick up n go. We need to prepare for it. He is becoming very inpatient with job searching since he already got his SIN number.
Right now i feel frustrated. I feel some what alone. I have him here but is like he wants to b back home.
Thats all for now before i get tears running down.

Hi Jamnic,

Just wanted to say hi and also to thank you for these honest words... I'm sure it wasn't easy to type them. Hang in there and come back for support anytime you need it. ((hugs))

 

[chickie72]

Good morning LDL, THOR and Chickie

good afternoon now CV!

 

[Twoheartsonelove]

Good morning LDL, THOR and Chickie

Hello CV!! Hope all is well.

 

[samll1]

Happy new year everyone!! I havent been on the forum since my husband landed on Dec 27th. I picked him up at 3:30am. Its been a year since we saw each other. He was tired from the travelling. The next day was my birthday n i was so happy spending it with him until he broke down n cry because he misses his son. I could understand but that just made my day feel crappy n i felt guilty n selfish for wanting to be with him. Everything is so much different from JamAica that is hard to explain n to assure that everything is going to be ok. I on the kother hand am trying really hard to pretend n to keep my feelings inside. I just dont k ow what to do or say anymore. We already had like 3 fights in such little time. I just hope that whatever is in next for us is something good n positive. Because so far i experience the opposite of what i thought it was going to feel like. My husband doesnt like the fact that if its freezing outside i dont go out unless i have absolutely have to example 'WORK'. I am not the type to just go out just because. When spring n summer arrives is a whole different story. He also has been looking at jobs in Alberta n keeps asking me if i would move there. N yes i would except i cant just pick up n go. We need to prepare for it. He is becoming very inpatient with job searching since he already got his SIN number.
Right now i feel frustrated. I feel some what alone. I have him here but is like he wants to b back home.
Thats all for now before i get tears running down.

I am so sorry to hear, but i to know how your feeling. It is going to take a while for them to adjust to our country. I have come to realize that they feel lost in our country. They are so use to going outside whenever they want and this time of the year it is cold and thier not use to it .Because your husband is lost it is going to have an affect on you and your relationship. and if you act up and show your husband different vibes, he is going to thing that your not interested in him anymore. We have to stop and think. He's like a baby learning how to creep again and we as the wife have to show them without making them feel less of a man.. its going to be hard but it can be done.

 

[Twoheartsonelove]

I am so sorry to hear, but i to know how your feeling. It is going to take a while for them to adjust to our country. I have come to realize that they feel lost in our country. They are so use to going outside whenever they want and this time of the year it is cold and thier not use to it .Because your husband is lost it is going to have an affect on you and your relationship. and if you act up and show your husband different vibes, he is going to thing that your not interested in him anymore. We have to stop and think. He's like a baby learning how to creep again and we as the wife have to show them without making them feel less of a man.. its going to be hard but it can be done.

Hello Samll1...I am fairly new to the forum. Very true what you are saying. We need to be their solid rock and make them feel like a man still. They are on our turf with us being in control but they still need to feel control themselves.

I see that your stats say that the visa was issued 10-10-13. Has your spouse landed? Did I miss your landing story?

 

[Mrs. Parkin]

Hi Everyone! Read this cute little poem a friend of mine blogged about her hubby coming home from out west..It resonates with us, and maybe it will help us feel those excited lovey feelings we have everytime it's the "night before seeing spouse"!

‘Twas the night before Steve,and all through my mind
My mind raced with happy thoughts, all mushy and kind.

Knowing his plane would soon take flight,
I tried to settle down for the night.

My heart was aflutter, like our very first date.
How I was to sleep soundly, I could hardly wait!!

Apart for months, how could we know,
That being apart would help us to grow.

A new appreciation for that man of mine.
So selfless and hardworking, and OH so fine.

FaceTime, we used, although it wasn’t always great.
It allowed to see each other, to somehow communicate.

Lost connections were frustrating but we made due.
Even though most nights we became disconnected before any “I love you’s”.

Now tomorrow’s the big day, it has felt like so long.
Even though it was tough, we knew God’s will wasn’t wrong.

For I have been reminded of something, that I think I always knew.
That no matter what road we travel, I will always love you!

 

[Ninirae]

Hi Everyone! Read this cute little poem a friend of mine blogged about her hubby coming home from out west..It resonates with us, and maybe it will help us feel those excited lovey feelings we have everytime it's the "night before seeing spouse"!

‘Twas the night before Steve,and all through my mind
My mind raced with happy thoughts, all mushy and kind.

Knowing his plane would soon take flight,
I tried to settle down for the night.

My heart was aflutter, like our very first date.
How I was to sleep soundly, I could hardly wait!!

Apart for months, how could we know,
That being apart would help us to grow.

A new appreciation for that man of mine.
So selfless and hardworking, and OH so fine.

FaceTime, we used, although it wasn't always great.
It allowed to see each other, to somehow communicate.

Lost connections were frustrating but we made due.
Even though most nights we became disconnected before any “I love you's”.

Now tomorrow's the big day, it has felt like so long.
Even though it was tough, we knew God's will wasn't wrong.

For I have been reminded of something, that I think I always knew.
That no matter what road we travel, I will always love you!

That's so sweet Mrs. P!!! And you're right it does resonate with us.

Jamnic, I am at a loss for words. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that you will get through this tough time. The forum is here for good and bad, and not just for immigration requests, but for everything we need help with during this time.

Much love

 

[Ninirae]

SPOUSAL ARGUMENT TOPIC OF THE DAY: Popcorn

And yes, I mean the food, not the artist "Popcaan"

Yep. He tried to create a full blown argument about popcorn consumption until I called him on it and he started laughing (thank goodness).

BAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

 

[CanadianWifey89]

SPOUSAL ARGUMENT TOPIC OF THE DAY: Popcorn

And yes, I mean the food, not the artist "Popcaan"

Yep. He tried to create a full blown argument about popcorn consumption until I called him on it and he started laughing (thank goodness).

BAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

lol! Thanks that made me laugh! I was having a pretty bad day today..like to the verge of tears while at work..So I booked my vacation request..I'm going home!

 

[Ninirae]

lol! Thanks that made me laugh! I was having a pretty bad day today!

I can guarantee you that almost everyone has a funny argument topic when they think back. And I was ready to get heated about this popcorn debate!!

 

[CanadianWifey89]

I can guarantee you that almost everyone has a funny argument topic when they think back. And I was ready to get heated about this popcorn debate!!

LOL! Ohh yes that's for sure!!

 

[Twoheartsonelove]

Ninirae you are too funny!! Care to elaborate on the almost argument???

My husband cannot believe how much I love popcorn and was in shock when I told him that I was having popcorn (food not popcaan) for dinner bc went to a movie with my friends and that I will have popcorn for dinner quite a bit (sadly). Oh and he hates microwaves and wouldn't eat the microwave popcorn, but then when he finally did try he was in AWWWWEEEEE of it and it is officially the only microwave food he will eat (well I guess "food" is debatable)!!!