Kingston,Jamaica

[ready_fi_move_on]

THANK YOU LORD FOR MY IN LAWS on that front I CAN SAY I WAS BLESSED ..... MY INLAWS TREAT ME BETTER THAN MY OWN FAMILY....They have always made me and my daughter feel so welcome and since before we even got togather offically ....his sister and neice have been my home girls and still are ....
his mom terrifc last year she came up for a visit ... was supposed to spend the time with her family and ended spending 90 percent of the time with me ...love my in laws badddd and glad fi have dem inna me life

 

[chickie72]

shut up that is where jamiacas girl and I are from .....
we are setting up something to meet for coffee inbox me your details if you want to join us.... would love to meet you ....

I wanna come too! Let me know when!

 

[jamaicansgirl]

Girl!!!!!! omg...hahahaha, same ish over here. She acts so lovey dovey in my face aswell....tries 2 buy me the world when im down there, and then doesnt like a bone in my damn body! When im gone....DIS DAT N THE OTHA...even thru it in my face that her son is not married t me anymore....and hubby goes "you cant stop that"..so pathetic...

Yep same exact shit...I hate that I can't actually say anything to her about all the rumors and stuff she's said about me and my hubby but I don't want to cause family drama so I keep it all inside until one day I'm gonna bust something

She told him once when she was here for the wedding that he looked like a bum and no son of hers gonna look like that. We never had much money so we couldn't go around looking fresh and buying expensive stuff like her daughters. That really hurt him cause he doesn't care if it's a $5 pair of shoes as long as he can walk in them he's happy. That's why I love him so much. His heart is so pure and honest. He gets it from his granny not the devil LOL

I like that I can vent here. I usually keep this stuff inside haha

Pathetic is right....

 

[jamaicansgirl]

I wanna come too! Let me know when!

The more the merrier ;D

 

[jamaicansgirl]

Yes my girl I hear ya. That's why I don't say anything cause I know it's still his mother and he loves her. He doesn't have much of anything to do with her and he always rants on and on about her to me but I know in his heart he just wants her love so I try to keep him calm. Breaks my heart everyda day. She doesn't even have anything to do with my SD, if he tries to talk about her to his mom she will cut him off and start tallking about her daughters kids and how they this and that blah blah...

 

[jamaicansgirl]

Can't wait for your hubby to come here then she'll have to find someone else to torture...

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

I wanna come too! Let me know when!

chickie we are meetn this weekend ..... you will be riding jockey then .... but defiantly when you are available we all should meet up ...... strong drink included

 

[bestisyettocome]

Guys i started back at work today at my new location in Brampton and i am in tears.. everyone asking me if me o.k
hubby just call me and seh him have the shinny visa inna him hand..omg
me feel so weak.the immigration process is over..thank you jesus.
fadda god is amazing..thank you guys for being there for me during this process.I can't wait for all of u fe get this feeling

me caant stop cry oh gosh
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You guys have a bless day..Iam always praying for u all

 

[jamaicansgirl]

Guys i started back at work today at my new location in Brampton and i am in tears.. everyone asking me if me o.k
hubby just call me and seh him have the shinny visa inna him hand..omg
me feel so weak.the immigration process is over..thank you jesus.
fadda god is amazing..thank you guys for being there for me during this process.I can't wait for all of u fe get this feeling

me caant stop cry oh gosh
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You guys have a bless day..Iam always praying for u all

That's awesome girl. Cry all you want, it's tears of joy and you deserve to shed them. I'm sooo happy for you, hubby is coming home whoot whoot.

 

[firstladyking]

Guys i started back at work today at my new location in Brampton and i am in tears.. everyone asking me if me o.k
hubby just call me and seh him have the shinny visa inna him hand..omg
me feel so weak.the immigration process is over..thank you jesus.
fadda god is amazing..thank you guys for being there for me during this process.I can't wait for all of u fe get this feeling

me caant stop cry oh gosh
.
You guys have a bless day..Iam always praying for u all

BIYTC I am rejoicing with you. You enjoy the rest of your life and make up for all this loss time the best you know how. I'll keep praying for you that God continues to bless your marriage in a special way.

 

[blondie1216]

Guys i started back at work today at my new location in Brampton and i am in tears.. everyone asking me if me o.k
hubby just call me and seh him have the shinny visa inna him hand..omg
me feel so weak.the immigration process is over..thank you jesus.
fadda god is amazing..thank you guys for being there for me during this process.I can't wait for all of u fe get this feeling

me caant stop cry oh gosh
.
You guys have a bless day..Iam always praying for u all

Congrats hun! You deserve to cry!!!! Enjoy it!

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

congrats biytc

 

[firstladyking]

To all my forum family with in-law issues and baby momma drama and man losing their wallets (LOL). Let me just say this to everyone, this immigration shystem can really get the best of us. We need to stay focused on what really matters here and why we're putting ourselves through all this aggrevation. All in the name of love. Face it, none of us needs this aggrevation, but because we are in love and devoted to our spouses we will go through the fire with them. May all of us come out of this hell as quickly as humanly possible so we can start enjoying what really matters, that is our lives with our soulmates. God bless you all, and don't let ANYONE nor ANYTHING steal your joy. One love everyone.

 

[Mrslwsn]

wow, reading all of your stories really put things in perspective of how blessed I really am. I didnt have a mom growing up, and my mother in law is like my mom. I love her to death and the only drawback to my hubby being here is I'm not able to see her as much. She is the kindest sweetest best woman I have ever met, and I admire her so much. She is amazing. My husband knows he shares her with me lol..my sister in law is a great girl too and my brother in laws are all great brothers. The only person I dont get along with is my sister in law by marriage who lives in England and is very bad mind n jealous, but hey she lives far away and we just dont trouble each other. One of my babyfather had 2 children before mine, but I never felt it was my place to care about whether or not she was a good or bad mom, or anything, cuz I could care less. Not my prob, not my biz. But lord, thank you all, sometimes you need reality check to really truly realize how thankful we should be.

 

[sheriB]

Hey ladies, haven't been by in a long time been really busy, my mom has been really sick had to book a flight to come up and see her then am back in Jamaica right now and am suppose to go back for her surgery.

Congratulations to all who have reached the end of the road, it must be a beautiful feeling.

Am still waiting on that day to come for myself.

For the ladies with baby mama problems... remember some people are just in your life to try and keep you from success. they just try to deter you from your goal. I always say pushing a child out doesn't make you a mother same way saying your married doesn't make you a wife. And major props to you for stepping in and giving these children the stability they need. You are in essence their mothers. All egg donors them have a chat.

As my old room-mate use to say "Bad mind people move move move!" keep that in mind when they bring in their negative vibes.