Kingston,Jamaica

[blessedelaine]

WELCOME SAMILANAIRE TO OUR LIKKLE FAMILY!!

STATUS UPDATES

2008
NAMES DATE FILED LATEST UPDATES TOTAL TIME

Sheraig(Skilled Class) Nov 07 Doc requested and Submitted
Torontogirl June 08 Husband Landed 20 months
Maple Aug 08 HUBBY LANDED 23 Months
Missingmybaby Oct 08 HUBBY LANDED 25 Months
Sassy Nov 08 Hubby Landed 18 Months
Junor Oct 08 Husband Landed 09 months
Faithhope Nov 08 Hubby Landed 16 months
Workinprogress Nov 08 Hubby Landed 16 months
Peaceloveunity Dec 08 Hubby Landed 15 months
Mizzy Dec 08 Hubby Landed 15 months
Lonley Dec 08 Husband Landed 14 months


2009
NAMES DATE FILED LATEST UPDATES TOTAL TIME
whydotheykeep Hubby Landed 13 Months
Peni Feb 09 Wife and Child Landed 12 Months
Hatewaiting Feb 09 Hubby Landed 16 Months
Longdistance Feb 09 Hubby Landed 12 Months
Kc416 March 09 Husband Landed 7 Months
Frequent March 09 Husband Landed 6 Months
Soso April 09 Husband Landed 7 Months
Glogirl April 09 HUSBAND LANDED 19 MONTHS
Missinghubby April 09 Hubby Landed 13 Months
Stressed May 09 Hubby Landed 12 Months
soanxiouswifey May 09 LANDED 22 Months
Cmom (dependant) May 09 Sponsorship approved & PR App sent
Confusedandscared June 09 LANDED 26 MONTHS
Rosemel (Quebec) June 09 HUBBY & GIRLS LANDED 18 MONTHS
Homesoon(ARC) July 09 Hubby Landed 9 Months
Helpmeplease Aug 09 Hubby Landed 5 Months
Chelley Sept 09 Hubby Landed 4 Months
Missingmyboo Sept 09 HUBBY LANDED 17 MONTHS
Jamwifey Oct 09 LANDED 13 Months
Ash Oct 09 AOR received(Conjugal spn)
Siron Oct 09 LANDED 9 MONTHS
Anxiouslyawait Nov 09 HUBBY LANDED 7 MONTHS
Kimore Nov 09 HUBBY LANDED 17 MONTHS
Yardie Dec 09 HUBBY LANDED 20 MONTHS
M.A.L Dec 09 HUBBY LANDED 13 MONTHS
highlyfavoured(familyclass) Dec 09 LANDED 19 MONTHS
2010

NAMES DATE FILED LATEST UPDATES TOTAL TIME
Highlyflavoured Jan 10 HUBBY LANDED 5 Months
Angella Jan 10 HUBBY LANDED 9 months
Miracle44 FEB 10 LANDED 3 MONTHS
Canuck Feb 10 WIFE LANDED 9 MONTHS
Waiting-for-a-star Feb 10 Interview March 30, 2011
KMC MAR 10 HUBBY LANDED 8 MONTHS
Virtuous MAR 10 HUBBY LANDED 7 MONTHS
KensWife MAR 10 HUBBY LANDED 7 MONTHS
Mylilangel APR 10 HUBBY LANDED 16 MONTHS
jesusgirl APR 10 VISA ISSUED 15 MONTHS
Mika & sick May 10 LANDED 7 MONTHS
MommyT (dependent) MAY 10 SON LANDED 7 MONTHS
NaeNae MAY 10 HUBBY LANDED 7.5 MONTHS
Child of the king MAY 10 HUBBY LANDED 8 MONTHS
LifeSoonSortOut MAY 10 HUBBY & KIDS LANDED 18 MONTHS
Iambless June 10 LANDED 15 MONTHS
Godblesswife June 10 LANDED 7.5 MONTHS
KIDD June 10 HUBBY LANDED 7.5 MONTHS
Chantol June 10 DOC REQUESTED
MrsLonely June 10 Sponsorship approved
lonely_wife June 10 HUBBY LANDED 10 MONTHS
Masskendawta June 10 LANDED 16 MONTHS
Ramdont June 10 HUBBY LANDED 10 MONTHS
ebonyshine June 10 ORIG. DOC REQUESTED
kuma June 10 HUBBY LANDED 15 MONTHS
brownsuga July 10 HUBBY & SON LANDED 8 MONTHS
chukie July 10 HUBBY LANDED 8 MONTHS
ladyposh July 10 HUBBY LANDED 10 MONTHS
ABA Aug 10 VISA ISSUED 11 MONTHS
Sanchester Sept 10 VISA ISSUED 9 MONTHS
Reema Sept 10 HUBBY LANDED 8 MONTHS
butterfly10 Sept 10 Hubby LANDED
Togirl2011 Sept 10 HUBBY LANDED 9 MONTHS
jahlove Sept 10 LANDED 14 MONTHS
Can-Indy-Jam Oct 10 HUBBY & CHILD LANDED 7 MONTHS
LMF2011 Oct 10 PPR
Lonely Wifey Oct 10 HUBBY LANDED 10 MONTHS
Randysgirl Nov 10 HUBBY LANDED 14 MONTHS
proper Nov 10 LANDED 11 MONTHS
spiritrac Nov 10 WIFE via Buffalo - LANDED, SON via POS - App received
Lostwithoutu Nov 10 VISAS ISSUED
Lilmaya Dec 10 eCAS Updated to "Medicals Received"
BBBB Dec 10 LANDED 16 MONTHS


2011
NAMES DATE FILED LATEST UPDATES TOTAL TIME
Irving Jan 2011 LANDED 8 MONTHS
Charlie D Feb 2011 LANDED 14 MONTHS
JAHBee Feb 2011 VISA ISSUED 11 MONTHS
Sassyoneil Feb 2011 HUBBY LANDED 13 MONTHS
MrsW Feb 2011 eCAS Updated to "Medicals Received"
Canhubtor11 Feb 2011 WIFE LANDED 13 MONTHS
Needmyhusband Mar 2011 PPR
Psalm75 Mar 2011 HUBBY LANDED 11 MONTHS
Island_girl Mar 2011 VISA ISSUED 4 MONTHS
witty Mar 2011 LANDED 8 MONTHS
SmoothiesQueen Apr 2011 HUBBY & DAUGHTER LANDED 7 MONTHS
Megscominhome Apr 2011 MED RE-DO REQ'D TO ISSUE COPR 8 MONTHS
JAMinCAN Apr 2011 LANDED 7 MONTHS
Akinna Apr 2011 eCAS updated to "In process Apr 5, 2012"
JoyVine1309 May 2011 HUBBY LANDED 7 MONTHS
Neika June 2011 eCAS Updated to "In process Feb 28, 2012", Docs req'd Apr 2012
firstladyking Aug 2011 App rec'd in KG, e-cas updated to "Medicals Received"
suki Aug 2011 HUBBY LANDED 7 MONTHS
green1074 Aug 2011 PPR
Icesfluffy Aug 2011 Application received by KG
Kedeisha Sep 2011 Waiting for sponsor approval
Kym Sep 2011 HUBBY LANDED 8 MONTHS
Tintin79 Oct 2011 eCAS Updated to "In process Apr 5, 2012"
Jamgirl Oct 2011 eCAS updated to "Medicals Received"
Bling Oct 2011 HUBBY LANDED 5 MONTHS
Luuk Oct 2011 VISA ISSUED
MrsLWSN Nov 2011 HUBBY LANDED 4 MONTHS
Bestisyettocome Nov 2011 PPR
Road2Calgary Nov 2011 LANDED 5 MONTHS
Lovehasnoboundaries Dec 2011 In process per email from KG
AmandaWood Dec 2011 LANDED 5 MONTHS
BASHA Dec 2011 HUBBY LANDED 5 MONTHS
dahlia Dec 2011 Hubby Landed 5 MONTHS


2012
NAMES DATE FILED LATEST UPDATES TOTAL TIME
AliCatShaw Jan 2012 VISA ISSUED 5 MONTHS
Jamdownwife Jan 2012 PPR
Jamaicansgirl Jan 2012 VISA ISSUED
Chickie72 Feb 2012 Waiting for sponsor approval
Ready_fi_move_on Mar 2012 Application received by KG; e-cas updated to "Medicals Received"
Blondie1216 Mar 2012 Waiting for sponsor approval
Halfmoon Mar 2012 Application received by KG;eCAS updated to "Medicals Received"
Anada May 2012 Waiting for sponsor approval
Samilanaire May 2012 SPONSORSHIP APPROVED
ceeallen June 2012 Waiting for sponsor approval
georgee (conjugal) Waiting to send app off
melmel Waiting to send app off
Nufflove Waiting to send app off
danielle902 Waiting to send app off
Sammystorm19 Getting married in November
Channy Getting married in July


IF I MISSED ANYONE PLEASE LET ME KNOW!!

This is awesome.. The processing seems getting faster.. Goddlcuk guys

 

[jamaicansgirl]

By the way a belated Congrats to BIYTC!! So glad hubby will be home with you soon!!

My two cents on the mother of step children front.... I had two step children in my first marriage and dealt with nuff fukry from their mother. Yes, I kept everything negative thing I thought and said bout their mother, away from the children. But don't think for one second that woman ever got much respect from me. I started out trying to form a civil relationship with her, but anytime she want something she manipulate the children to get it and I have no use for "tihs" like that! Stand your ground ladies! But the hardest thing was my ex turned ta jelly-spine when she start her *censored word* an neva stand up to her like a man.... it caused me nuff frustration mi tell yu....

I am so grateful that my husband has no children or ex spouse that could try to interfere in our relationship now. Don't get me wrong, I would still accept his children as they would be a part of him, but thankful I don't have an ex to deal with.

Big up to all the women bringing their step children to Canada!!! It nuh always easy... best piece of advice I can offer, when confronted with a situation.... it easiest to deal with these issues if both you adn your spouse are on the same page and in agreeance.... and if your not, try to settle it away from the children so they don't see your team "weakness".

Have a good day all

I totally agree. It's hard being a step mom especially when the childrens mom resents you and has zero respect for you.

Let's be honest here...Alot of times we are treated like "the devil" Most (not all) BIO moms do not like the "new girl in their ex's lives" It's a feeling of being replaced by the man and the kids and that makes them hate the new person no matter who they are. They get protective over their kids and feel like we are trying to replace them as a mom, which is usually not the case.

Again I'm not speaking of all BIO moms. I know alot of BIO moms who are in this situation and base my opinion mostly on what I see.

I, also like you tried to form a relationship with the mother when I first got married, that is until she tried to tell me a whole bunch of lies about my hubby and tried to ruin our ralationship. Also spread our name in the dirt back home. Then held him back from getting landed for Years, that just proves to be scandaless and I have no time for idiot people like that. Still to this day I have NEVER bad mouthed her to anyone other than my hubby ofcourse LOL
Why should I try to be nice and get walked on...No fucking way...I didn't choose to fall inlove with my husband, it happened and I am grateful everyday for him. We were meant to be together and nothing was stopping that, it was faith. I can't deal with people who lie to get what they want so I just don't deal with her anymore plain and simple.

I hope this post doesnt offend anyone, this is not my intention just my opinion.

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

morning all to continue with the step child thing i must also add
in my case i do not look at her as my step daughter this little girl though in others eyes is my step child because i am not her biological mother. is MY CHILD .... if anyone knew my situation they would know that i am the only mother she has ever known her mother and i use that term loosely choose to abandon her when she was only 2 months old...and only return when she saw that she and her dad was in process of leaving the country for a better life . AND had the nerve to try and fight for custody (even had the erve to look at me and say you must feel like a fool to know that you and him will have to work and mine me an me pickney)..... yeah thats the type of bitch she is ...... and even though i am in another country ...i am the one who this little girl calls mama and i can tell you neither me or her father influnced her in anyway to do so ...when i am there i am the one who dries her tears when she cries ..when i have to leave to return home my heart breaks evertime she see me packing and she a starts to put her clothes in my suit case to come with me. I am the one who reads stories to her at night before she goes to bed and worries about her everyday i am not with her .... i am the one who would give up my life here in a split second and move back to jamica if immigration were to turn down our aplication so that she could have the female influence she needs in her life.

and yes i talk shit about her mother(again using that term loosly).... but i would never disrepect my step daughter or try in anyway to stop her from having a relationship with that woman .... i would not talk ill of her infront of the child nor allow anyone to do that .... but again as i say i have my reasons to despise this woman and she is the cause of it her actions and the crap that she has pulled is unbelieveable......if she cared anything about my step daughter she would not have tried to step in the way of her having a better life .... thats my oppion straight , I am proud to have my daughter (step) in our lives and would not change it for the world and if having to put up the bitch that gave birth to her comes as a part of the package then i will deal with it because my daughter is worth that and more

 

[jamaicansgirl]

morning all to continue with the step child thing i must also add
in my case i do not look at her as my step daughter this little girl though in others eyes is my step child because i am not her biological mother. is MY CHILD .... if anyone knew my situation they would know that i am the only mother she has ever known her mother and i use that term loosely choose to abandon her when she was only 2 months old...and only return when she saw that she and her dad was in process of leaving the country for a better life . AND had the nerve to try and fight for custody (even had the erve to look at me and say you must feel like a fool to know that you and him will have to work and mine me an me pickney)..... yeah thats the type of *censored word* she is ...... and even though i am in another country ...i am the one who this little girl calls mama and i can tell you neither me or her father influnced her in anyway to do so ...when i am there i am the one who dries her tears when she cries ..when i have to leave to return home my heart breaks evertime she see me packing and she a starts to put her clothes in my suit case to come with me. I am the one who reads stories to her at night before she goes to bed and worries about her everyday i am not with her .... i am the one who would give up my life here in a split second and move back to jamica if immigration were to turn down our aplication so that she could have the female influence she needs in her life.

and yes i talk *censored word* about her mother(again using that term loosly).... but i would never disrepect my step daughter or try in anyway to stop her from having a relationship with that woman .... i would not talk ill of her infront of the child nor allow anyone to do that .... but again as i say i have my reasons to despise this woman and she is the cause of it her actions and the crap that she has pulled is unbelieveable......if she cared anything about my step daughter she would not have tried to step in the way of her having a better life .... thats my oppion straight , I am proud to have my daughter (step) in our lives and would not change it for the world and if having to put up the *censored word* that gave birth to her comes as a part of the package then i will deal with it because my daughter is worth that and more

Like I said before, it takes more than giving birth to be a mother. You my love are her mother no matter what. She is lucky to have you in her life. It's not easy being a step parent!! Much love to you and I hope she and hubby comes home sooner than later my girl xoxo

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

Like I said before, it takes more than giving birth to be a mother. You my love are her mother no matter what. She is lucky to have you in her life. It's not easy being a step parent!! Much love to you and I hope she and hubby comes home sooner than later my girl xoxo

thanks baby girl .... i am happy for you that things have come togather for you and you r babay girl will be with you soon .... check your inbox

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

That story is so inspiring, and so touching. My husband doesnt have any children outside our relationship, and neither do I, being we were so young when we met..But I really understand where u guys r coming from. You're not obligated to talk to the child's mother, because you're not into dealing with the child on her behalf, but on your husbands' (whats his is yours)....Any woman can have children, but it takes a special type of women to step up to the plate and take care of their responsibility...unfortunately though, thats Not so in everyone's case..some ladies enjoy the pleasure of having raw sex, and dont think about the consequence of getting pregnant....its not like they wanted children, or they were ready for them, n there4 the kids end up suffering because of their actions. a wutless moomma dem! and when theres some1 who steps in2 their life n becomes that mother they dont have, its a beautiful thing!

the thing is in my situation ..... my husband and i were togather before she had his daughter ...there was a situation and he did his thing and I choose to forgive that and move past the whole thing and resume our relationship ....i have my reasons and love gives us the power to forgive the most painful events .... this girl knew he was with me she put herself in the situation and i by no means am blaming her alone for what happended because it takes 2 .... but the funny thing about this whole situationis this girl now plays herslef as vicitm and tries to make me look like a home wrecker .... anyways it is what it is and i know in my heart that i am not any of those things and have played the honnorable role thorugh this whole situation ..... but people will think and believe what they like and there minds will never be changed
but since i do not now or have ever given a damn of what people think i am good ... i live for me my husband and my 2 kids and as long as we are all good then outsiders can say and do there best to destroy me will not make a difference

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

Thats the mindset one should always have.....ppl watch ppl too much, and in watching others, your own business a spoil cuzz yuh too busy a look pon someone else's....girl, I think you're doing a beautiful job in caring as the child as your own despite whatever hurt u had to go thru, and the outcome of it! If u can do that, proves you're a really strong person..cuz it takes a strong mind 2 forgive, and a weak mind to hold onto things.

thanks my darling ... i tell you im wait for the day when i here that they got there books stammped and i can finally have a drama free life and my family togahter ...where we can sort out our life togahter proper

 

[chickie72]

Thats the mindset one should always have.....ppl watch ppl too much, and in watching others, your own business a spoil cuzz yuh too busy a look pon someone else's....girl, I think you're doing a beautiful job in caring as the child as your own despite whatever hurt u had to go thru, and the outcome of it! If u can do that, proves you're a really strong person..cuz it takes a strong mind 2 forgive, and a weak mind to hold onto things.

My husband would say those people are crab in a barrel!

Ready, I truly believe God puts people in our paths everyday for a reason and you are the reason for what happened. That little girl needs a mama and low and behold there you are! Keep the faith and always believe. That little girl will one day see what her bio mom has done and it will be up to her to judge what she is to do with the info, you know!

For all the stupid things that have befallen me in the process, I have to say the bio moms that I have to deal with are great! They are happy their children are coming to foreign to get a better life and make something of themselves. The one mom calls me regularly to chat to me on the phone all the time and I am happy for that.

Have a great day everyone. 2 more sleeps to go!

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

Babes, its the same thing me n hubby were talking abt few days ago...Was telling him life will never be 100% what we want it to be until everything comes through and we're living together. Was telling him we love each other alot, and i dont doubt that, but we could love each other more, and its going to take us being aroun each other everyday away from stress, and drama (trust me, his mom is such a big stress in our life right now--she cant stand me, and is so jelous since its her only son, and she feels like im taking him away from her), it's even gotten so bad that one day wen i was doing someones hair in JA, I took my ring off and put it down on a table and after which I took a fresh and came in only to find my ring missing, and to know she took up my ring to sell it.......she always be telling hubby....YOU LOVE HER MORE THAN ME, and if SHE ASK U 2 DO ANYTHING U DO IT, BUT WHEN I ASK U, U DONT...hubby really needs 2 get away...and i think that would build our relationship so much more.

you are shitting me .... thanks to God i was blessed with a terrifc mother in law and all she says to me is hurry and tek him mek him be your problem lol

chickie ..... i am glad that you have women to deal with who care about whats best for there children than how they can milk money out of there baby daddys pockets.... stay blessed darling everything soon sort out for you

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

My mother in law is from helll.....n hubby knows that. Never meant anyone in my life as wicked as her...but its not her i'm married to, its her son..lol

true talks my girl ....btw what area do u live if you do not mind me askn?

 

[ready_fi_move_on]

shut up that is where jamiacas girl and I are from .....
we are setting up something to meet for coffee inbox me your details if you want to join us.... would love to meet you ....

 

[jamaicansgirl]

My mother in law is from helll.....n hubby knows that. Never met anyone in my life as wicked as her...but its not her i'm married to, its her son..lol

Can so relate to this... My wicked MIL says same thing to hubby "you love her more than me"lol

She 2 faced. All lovey in front my face but chat chat behind my back. Me and his aunt really close so she tell me everything she says (his MIL doesn't know that LOL). She and her evil daughters even tried crashing the wedding. Did everything that day to ruin it but god was good and our day was perfect

My hubby a softy so they would walk all over him, but since I came in the picture that quickly changed cause nobody is gonna make my husband cry so he now has a back bone FINALLY. He longs for his mothers love so badly but she just treats him like a dog but then say he the best kid she has. She dashed him away when he was born, left him on the beach for stray dog to nam up. His cousin found him and his grandmother has raised him ever since. She even had him believing his father wasn't his real dad cause she was jealous that they were so close....Evil I tell you. Me on the other hand always trying to make things good so I smile right along with her. I love her, just wish she was a nicer of a person and didn't tell so many lies. After we got married it took 3 years for them to even talk to us. She had his family in JA believing I was the devil on 2 legs and they all formed an opinion of me. His aunt said she couldn't believe how nice I actually was. His aunt, uncle and cousin came to Canada this past Xmas with us, was really nice. His mother would never do that, I ask her all the time to spend time with us but she always makes false promises and never keeps them. She's done that her whole life. His grandmother is his mom, shes such an angel. She even calls me her grandbaby hehe

Sorry, went off on another rant lol

 

[jamaicansgirl]

So for all of those who have really good in-laws. Treat them like gold cause they are rare I tell ya LOL

 

[jamaicansgirl]

ceeallen- That would be awesome if you would join us. We are also in B-Town

 

[chickie72]

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