Thanks chickie..
I don't drink...ever, cause the love of the rum caused my people to be enslaved.. I don't smoke ganja, it is my sacrament but I understand that I would come across as drunk to say the things I say sometimes. I am love and hated for the same thing.. my drunken honesty. But when I want to know folks also I may say things I don't necessarily believe to flush out hypocrites. I love this trait in a person... I love when someone tells me the truth but not in a way where you disguise yourself. I can be fake and say nice things to be liked but would rather be disliked for the truth etc.. Anyway I was moved by the way you defended an argument recently... it showed you did not marry a Jamaican because it was trendy to do so but because you are a sister from another land... It made me respect you. If I interact with someone and they start to say or behave different from how they usually behave I don't immediately think it is about me, I ask myself "I wonder what is going on with this person"? I realize at the end of the day it is best to come forward and be me...annoyingly honest. The truth is when I read the post sometimes, they are so depressing so I tried to cheer folks up or just raise some arguments to encourage folks to continue living live till the "buddy" arrive cause when the real business of communal living begins one will find yourself missing the days of being separated. Sometimes I ask the questions others are afraid to ask... raise the topic too sensitive to speak on... say the things others think... but wont say. Sometimes I see some bad mind thing on this forum.. someone gets good news and instead of celebrating, people start talk fart bout unfair practice and how Kingston don't process according to receipt... ah so it go, a no fe you time yet, stop being a joy killer and go into depressing everytime someone have good news.. The reason why some people file is at the bottom of the pile is because they are annoying..
I am going to share something and believe it if you will... my friend is working as IO, she spends 3-6 months in different countries for the last 4 years.. Recently, she was in Jamaica.. returned for a three week break and will be in Columbia for 5 months. She said this emailing Kingston every minute, ordering notes and calling mps to harass them in Kingston is why some folks get F****. When did harassing any IO cause you to get a ppr. You are dealing with human beings who don't like when you behave like they are incompetent and not doing their job. Your file get fling into the "so and so" pile. So this is why i would sometime say without saying too much, take it easy..cause I know it does more harm than good to provoke these folks.. cause the constant badgering does not help your case. I have seen where people give the proper info regarding this and gets cuss out on this forum... Sometimes the patient people get punished because of the hasty Suzettes....
When we enter into long distance relationship it is the risk we take... it is stressful no doubt but chill out and know it must come through... And stop hating on someone because they don't live in you fairy-tale love zone. My husband lives here now and when he first arrived after I got tired of the stiff drinks, I wish I had my space to myself and am sure he missed being a cave man. This thing is not some Hollywood script...happily ever after so I was at times trying to say hush everything soon alright breathe. And if you are going to get depressed do so before someone get a ppr.. As a matter of fact people must stop telling when they get these calls so individuals stop falling into psychosis... wait till de man land then let the bad mind people get a break from all that roller coaster of emotion. Chickie, I am going to behave myself.. I promise. Your man soon come and he is not going no where when he gets here for you are real.
When your original message came in you said Big up to all Jamaicans and wanna be Jamaicans and yes I kind of took it offensively because no I am not Jamaican so the only other thing I could be would be the wanna be Jamaican and I am glad that you seen where I have taken it offensively. I agree with you whole heartedly that not all people who marry Jamaicans are in it because they love one another but I truly don't feel that if anyone was in it for any other thing that they would even bother with coming on this forum to find out information about this process. I for one know how much time this forum takes out of my day and if I was just with my hubby for money or his "Phallus" I definitely wouldn't give a darn about this forum. As for people that post things that are religious, well everyone is entitled to their opinion and if that is their slice of the pie then let them eat it because that is their belief and we all have our own beliefs in every culture and every nation. I truly do respect you for coming on here and telling me your are sorry. It takes alot to admit we are sorry and they say that "sorry" is the hardest word in the world to say so big ups to you and I will accept your apology.
