Hi everyone,
Recently my Common-Law partner decided to split up with me. We were together for 5 1/2 years and I applied for residence with her as my sponsor on October 3 2013. I have worked here and gone to school here and this is my life. I love it here and have no interest or will to go back home. I feel like I am losing the love of my life, best friend, and place that I call home all in one big shot. I am absolutely freaking out and trying to keep myself from having disturbed thoughts but I don't know where to go from here. Is there any possible way she can still sponsor me? She does not feel comfortable going on sponsoring me as a common law because she doesn't want the legal backlash if they think we are trying to cheat the system, which I get. But I also do not feel ready to sit back and watch as my entire life here gets blown up in my face. I do not meet any of the classes on federal skills worker so that is not an option. My common-law and her mom have been famly to me for 6 years now while I have lived here and would be willing to sponsor me if it doesn't mean breaking the law. Do I have any option whatsoever? What are my options other than giving up and moving back to the US? If i lose this I fear I may mentally lose myself completely, so if any of you have any answers or suggestions whatsoever PLEASE let me know. This is the most desperate situation I have ever been in. How else can I become a canadian permanent resident?
I have graduated under an Ontario College Certificate in Media Fundamentals, went a year for journalism but did not finish, and worked 1 year as a warehouse manager at business depot. I have paid taxes and been living with my common-law and her mom since March of 2009. Please, PLEASE someone have something for me. I am mentally very damaged and can't see myself leaving here without having a major breakdown or possibly harming myself. I need something to let me know that I still have a future here in Canada. if there's any way they can specially sponsor me as something other than a common law or if we can continue this application without her facing possible legal issues. Or if my case fits under humanitarian cause. I don't know, I just cannot mentally handle or cope with going back to the US, and since the US is a first world country i feel like the compassionate cause may not be taken into consideration. I am absolutely terrified. Help.