ACS said:
I know it's early for me to recieve an AOR, but seriously, everytime my phone blinks that I have a new e-mail my heart catchs for a second and I get all hopeful...(99% of them are ads....grrrr)
I find myself even anxious for Thursday to come...when they are supposed to update the CIC website....
Man...and I've Barely begun the wait and I'm already going nuts with it....
How do you guys do it?
Any coping strategies?? lol
I'm almost ten months into waiting for AIP, and some days/weeks/months are harder than others. I'd say the best thing you can do is try to stay busy. Work on making Canada your country. Get out and try to meet people, if it's possible for you to do so. Enjoy the summer, as it's shorter here than it is a lot of places. Then go skiing, or learn! Snowshoes aren't expensive, and snowshoeing is good exercise. Go hiking! Ride a bike! Join a gym, if that's your thing. I got to try snowboarding for the first time every last winter, and I will do more of it this winter. Enjoy some good books or movies.
Try not to count days. There are FAR too many days in this process! I'm now counting months, which is a little better, though each new week I *do* think..."Is this the week when I finally get some news?!?" I only let myself check ECAS and the CIC website a maximum of once a week, to try to help maintain my sanity.
One thing that helps me a lot is to make sure to appreciate the time I get to spend with my husband, who is my best friend. Even though he's military, so he was gone half of our first year here, at least I DO get time with him. I assume it's the same with your partner, since you applied inland. It helps me appreciate the time with him and turn away from the stress of the PR app process to remember that many would LOVE to be with their partners, but were/are unable to apply inland. It's a long and frustrating process, but when I'm laughing with my darling...what process?!?!? I'm here, next to him, in the only place I want to be.
It's hard to miss family and friends back in the States, to see pics of my nephew, who I'm sure doesn't even remember me, as he grows and grows and approaches his 2nd b-day. BUT...we live in a wonderful time. Make use of Skype, messenger programs, the phone, and the many communication apps that are out there (HeyTell, Viber, Tango are a few I use).