JohnnyP said:
You have no idea what you're talking about. Just wait for your turn and see how you react when your application gets delayed, delayed and delayed again and you have no idea what's going on, you start to feel insecure and useless, and you get sick but can't go to hospital, and your parents back home are sick but can't travel abroad. and etc...and when you think you're finally getting the AIP very soon, the process gets delayed again... Please put yourself in other people's shoes before making these kind of assumptions.
Guys, this is getting a little bit out of hand. I have been through this process and while others here may frustrate you with their opinions it is exactly that: an opinion... and you know what they say about those.
People who have negative things to say only want a reaction in some cases. I'm not saying that that is what is happening in this case. I can tell you that engaging in back and forth arguing or name calling or whatever this is DOES NOT help. It only stresses you out more. I do say this from experience.
As for the timeline, it's pretty much the same as for when my husband and I applied. It took almost 10 months for my husband and I to receive AIP even after sending in a FULL application. It then took almost another month for us to get DM - again, this was with a FULL application sent. Once it was all said and done, we landed March 12th, 3 weeks shy of the 1 year anniversary of starting this whole ordeal.
Everything will happen in time and it is OK to be stressed out, I was. It's OK to be calling CIC to want to know what is going on, I did. It is DEFINITELY OK to ask questions and voice concerns here, I have and still do. Do not ever feel like you are not allowed to voice your concerns or thoughts. I would have gone off the deep end without the help of everyone here after the first 6 months. This is supposed to be a place where we all understand what the other is going through to some degree; be fair to each other and be kind - in some cases this is the only line of support people have.
"Rivers know this: There is no hurry, we shall get there someday."
- A.A Milne.