Hello all,
I have been leeching on this forum for a few days now and I'm now joining the club. Waiting begins.
I'm sponsoring my common-law partner (lesbian couple) to Canada, application to CPC-M received on Jun 25.
Meds done Jun 14. We are both Chinese.
Here's our case:
I was in China since Dec 2010, and I met her online in early Feb 2011. We confirmed our relationship late Feb 2011 and I visited her in her city.
We took a trip together in early March and then I had to be in HK for 2 weeks due to my Chinese visa expiring. We decided in March that we wanted to live together, so in April she moved to Shenzhen. Another point that is detrimental to our case is that I have sponsored someone 4 years ago, and that person left me just 3 months after landing. I suspected there was fraud involved but there's nothing I can do except reporting it to CIC.
Evidence:
1. A lease where we began living together, 6 months in total. However the lease was signed by her alone, as it's a hassle for a foreigner to sign any documents.
2. Restaurant receipts, Ikea receipts showing purchase of household items, receipts of gifts to her
3. Train tickets for trips taken inside China, boarding passes for a trip to Philippines
4. Photos of trips, dinner with friends, trips with friends, random daily photos
5. Proof of separation and explanation about my previous sponsorship (Emails in 2008 reporting my ex-partner's misrepresentation etc.)
6. Love letters from my partner
7. Phone logs showing calls to each other
8. Excerpts of QQ chat logs during our first 2 months of relationship (You can imagine people who live together wouldn't chat on QQ as often.)
9. Courier slips showing our address for online purchases (Taobao, equivalent to eBay)
10. Utilities bills in my name, and Maintenance fees paid by her
11. Printouts of internet banking transfers to her, about once every month
12. Photocopies of her HK&Macau Entry Permit showing trips to HK together
13. Development of relationship written in my partner's perspective (love story)
14. Movie tickets (about 20 movies for 2)
15. Plans to return to Canada (New condo completing in Oct 2012)
16. Statement from my best friend confirming the development of our relationship
Except everything listed in the checklist, the list above is everything I included as supplementary documents if my memories serve right.
I have 3 clear plastic folders in my application. The first one included all forms by sponsor and applicant and all other essential documents in the checklist like police certificate and medical report. The second I have all the printouts, photocopies or receipts, phone logs and chat logs. The third are the items with sentimental values, ie photos, trips receipts etc. I grouped my photos and receipts by trips, ie. photos to Philippines and e-tickets, together with hotel invoice and other trip receipts into a clear ziploc bag. We have a few trips to HK and Macau as well, and I grouped the show tickets or entrance receipts that way. I have a few of those ziploc bags in my supplementary documents folder.
Since I have done all of this before, I am familiar to the whole process. I was initially reluctant to go through this whole thing again, not that I don't love my girlfriend, but because of the fear of rejection and the stress of living the whole thing, waiting and interview etc. However, after a year or so in China, I can only confirm that not only emotionally I hate China, financially I wasn't doing well and my career here is not going anywhere. I wish to return to Canada as soon as possible where I was raised and was respected as a citizen. I felt foreign the whole time I'm here. I cannot be myself being a lesbian in China, and I cannot even qualify for a credit card due to my visa status, let alone getting a supplementary card or opening a joint account with my lesbian partner. I can say this is all fate I have to come back here for my family, and then meeting someone whom I have never planned to. I have been single for 3 years after my last sponsorship, and if it wasn't for her, I really don't have the courage to go through with it again.
Well, that's my long story.
Any support or advice is much appreciated.
Jay
ps. Once I receive my file number, I will send additional call logs, photos, statements from friends and family, and an insurance policy showing her as beneficiary.