I took a ferry, we are on Vancouver Island BC.
Thanks for the info about our friend's wife's probability of getting to visit. I thought as much and told him that. He said oh well if not that is ok. I asked when the next time he will go there is, he told me not for a long time it is very costly when he goes there since he always stays in a high class resort. I asked wouldn't he now just stay in her community, wanting to ask him if he wouldn't just stay at the house she shares with family but knowing he would say no, he said he guesses he could stay at a bed and breakfast but then he would still have to go out to eat other meals. I don't understand this since my husband and I even before marrying stayed at each others places and one or the other cooked for us both. I know it is Cuba but he could buy food for them to cook I think.