BLOOMINGFLOWER
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whywait:( said:On this forum most of the people are living in Pakistan and some in Canada.
Once advice I want to give to all who are in Pakistan right now: spend as much time with your family cause once you are here you shouldn't be putting your stress on the one who already lives here!
For those who are already here and sponsoring from the other side of the world: tell your other half to be ready to be away from their daddy, mommy and this and that!!
When we sponsor our loved one, it takes all the energy from us to send inquiry to Islamabad, to go to mp every now and then and on top of that to hear the "why don't you hire a lawyer to do our work the right way and faster"! And when together after years of waiting...they start "i miss my mom"! oh ya we all love our family members but once you decide to go on the other part of the world to start a new life then you shouldn't act like a baby who needs a bottle from the mother!!
For those who are still waiting for the other half...I say enjoy your own company for the time being and stop stressing yourself cause you will need some of the energy when they are hererelationship starts when both are together and NOT on the phone anymore!!
true well said and i would say many are in the same boat and they dont realize that with all the effort we put through getting our spouse here and it takes alot of energy and effort . people in pakistan say that "my friend came to canada within so so months how come its taking so long with his case"....i hate it when they say that as if we dont want a normal life and we are holding him back.....