yup we do have 3 kids together and all proof of us when we were engaged (for 2 yrs), marriage was done here and valima was done in pak......pictures of us together in pak... and i have traveled back and forth for 4 years since then most of the time when i go i stay for about 10 months...and the only reason he closed his case here was because he wanted to visit home to his mom who was critiliy ill and thus wanted me to sponser him later on so he doesnt leave her side...but he has his clearance done for states and canada already, which was requested last yr