Again, I agree with you. Even a strong marriage can crumble a little or get cracks because of this kind of distance. I pray that never happen to anyone in general. There once was a time that "unity and diversity" were important but that's not part of the Conservative platform. I miss Chretien, he was a great PM, weird yes, but he didn't let the American's push him around.
Agar spouse k saath jagra ho gaya hai, kaise eik dosre ko manayinge? Wo aap k peeche peeche to nahi aa sakega/sakegi mana ne k liye. Agar udas ho, to bhi akaile manage karna parta hai dono k liye. Actually I'm so depressed right now, I can't just call him whenever I want. We all have to take into consideration the time difference, if they're at work, doing something else, helping at home, etc. Sigh, I barely get an hour to talk to him everyday and in that I try to share as much but not that much to stress him with my life's problem because there is nothing he can do from such a distance. I know he doesn't tell me about his stress because he always wants to see me smiling and happy. Its hard to create a complete and solid relationship if you're so far away from each other.
I read this somewhere so I e-mailed him this and also sharing it here,
Kyun teri khamoshi mujhe khamosh ker jaati hai,
Kyun teri udaasi mujhe udaas ker jaati hai,
Ye rishta hai hi aisa tera aur mera, jo palke band hote hi
Teri yaad aa jaati hai....
Even with this distance, from the time I got married to now, our relationship persevering and our love is only growing more but so is this heartache, its growing heavier and heavier on my chest.
Zalim hain ye CHC-isb wale laug k hume itni aziyat dete hain hume itna intezar kar wa k. :'(
and plz dont tell this to my Jatti pehle he CHC wale relationship ke piche pare howe hy.
