CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[Lonely without my Hubby]

ameen to ur dua sis. Same here dua for u n alk of us.
Im 21 n i feel like im 50 n have so much problems, im sick n realli depressed. May Allah swt bring happiness to all of us here ameen

Ameen! Your problems will be over soon, and you'll be 16 again

 

[R.Mujgani]

Ameen! Your problems will be over soon, and you'll be 16 again

hahahaha 16?
problems will be solved but the scar that CHC has left on all our hearts will never be healed due to sooo much problems creatd by this.... n Allah swt is merciful insha'allah good news is on the way next month insha'allah,

as i have noticed, Oct. - Dec. rains remeds+ppr ( or ppr) insha'allah all those witin long will hear soon insha'allah

 

[Lonely without my Hubby]

hahahaha 16?
problems will be solved but the scar that CHC has left on all our hearts will never be healed due to sooo much problems creatd by this.... n Allah swt is merciful insha'allah good news is on the way next month insha'allah,

as i have noticed, Oct. - Dec. rains remeds+ppr ( or ppr) insha'allah all those witin long will hear soon insha'allah

Inshallah!!!!

And don't worry about the scars too much, they eventually fade away.

 

[BEENALI]

September bhi guzaar gaya ore October mein hamari 2nd wedding anniversary bhi aa gayee.

 

[R.Mujgani]

September bhi guzaar gaya ore October mein hamari 2nd wedding anniversary bhi aa gayee.

same here ma 2 anniversary is in October too n im away from ma husband
this hurts badly UGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

 

[sponsor of applicant]

100% agree, either be fully open with all now or accept her as wife, it seems you intend on getting her here and then not being a husband, that is incredibly awful...ruining ones life and hopes and trust. If your parents or hers are strict now, imagine their response in few years! You opened it on forum so I feel obligated to advice you to pray to have courage to do right thing and not destroy so many lives, I'd rather have my parents never talk to me again then ruin an innocent girls life. For one no one will beleive you two just had a sham marriage and her name will be ruined.

May Allah guide us all, ameen.

I agree with you 100% Allah bless you for saying that

what in the world some of us think we are.......

i think guys like us living in canada are lucky ....... i mean this is a seriously great blessing of Allah upon us that honourable and admirable families from our country trust us so much that they marry their girls to us.

and in response what some of us do is that we start feeling sorry for them. and start thinking that we are doing them a big favour by marring their daughters

for ones that think such a way

i think they should feel lucky and thank First Allah and then their in laws a million times
that a spineless and gutless morans like them got married to girls that they never deserve in a million years.

and another misconception that has been created by alot of our own people is that ...... parents push you into a marriage

my question to them is ....... did you say I AGREE in front of hall full of people .... if you did then no one pushed you into it ..... if you can say no to a telephonic credit card sale you can could have easily said no when someone was pushing you into such relationship ...... its that simple

and some of us really need to wake up and smell the coffee because canadian visa or high education is not something that you can offer to a girl for her to marry you

most of the girls from good families in pakistan are really highly educated and they could come to canada if they wanted to without anyone's help
because canada and all the other developed countries need highly educated people .... so if they are having mercy on your sorry self and coming to canada for you ..... then try to be thankful for that ...... trust me its gona save you alot of trouble

and for all of us

if we have any manliness left within us ........ we should treat our wives like queens because just the fact that they love us so much and they leaves their families behind for us ..... to be with us ...... is such a big favour that we can never repay.

 

[sponsor of applicant]

did anybody use the porter service at Toronto airport?

yup no different then lahore, islamabad or karachi airport

make sure you know what your paying and what your paying for before you hire one of the porters

 

[sponsor of applicant]

Inshallah!!!!

And don't worry about the scars too much, they eventually fade away.

yup the minute you receive the pp back with visa you will forget about everything .... inshAllah ...... no guaranty about being 16 again though!!! ;D ;D ;D ;D

 

[impulsive]

did anybody use the porter service at Toronto airport?

Its not much but I believe it is $2.00 per piece. but make sure you ask him before handing him the luggage.

 

[impulsive]

Thank you so much for your advice... some people are very judgemental, but ur the first one who didn't destroy my character by saying that what kind of husband I am.............. True hurts, but no more than lie.... so what is true I said and many people were saying that don't worry just have fun, but God never give me the power to play with anyone else life.....

It is always better to do the istikhara which is according to our Prophet (pbuh) saying; http://www.islamicacademy.org/html/Dua/How_to_do_Istakhara.htm

 

[impulsive]

Ameen! Your problems will be over soon, and you'll be 16 again

Shouldn't have thrown or given away those clothes.

 

[impulsive]

Thank you so much for your advice... some people are very judgemental, but ur the first one who didn't destroy my character by saying that what kind of husband I am.............. True hurts, but no more than lie.... so what is true I said and many people were saying that don't worry just have fun, but God never give me the power to play with anyone else life.....

what you sow is what you reap
http://www.quranictopics.com/Moral-Arguments-of-Afterlife4-e.html

 

[impulsive]

Mujgan dear, I can totally relate with you. Over two years of marriage with barely a month when we lived together. It has drained all my youth and happiness out of me. I can't even be sure that when I meet him again whether I would be the same playful and lively girl that my husband left behind him here. Allah Almighty definitely has some good plans for us. I just pray to him that I meet my hubby soon, and it is in our best interest. And I pray the same for you too, Ameen

How about us? That means you have completely forgotten about us. LOL

 

[sawera]

How about us? That means you have completely forgotten about us. LOL

Mard tu kabhi bhoda he nahe Hota ;D ;D ;D

 

[R.Mujgani]

How about us? That means you have completely forgotten about us. LOL

hahah ur funni off course wen we pray we pray not only ourselves but everyone
coz all of us are in on the same boat,
every one person taht gets a visa, we have hope of knowing that another person will get visa soon.

dont worri Everyone is in my prayers, and im sure lonely sis's prayers as well