I asked a lawyer about this. after submitting "letter of explanation" if there's no response is good thing after they confirmed to received of said documentAbsolutely!
I read through the forum though, and feels like that's 100% refusal for me this time with the direction "go under spousal or common-law class".
Booked a legal marriage for November.
i'm just wondering what now after medical is done lol time to wait again