this is so helpful thanks very much
let me ask this again
does living with me now and filling new application from abroad proofs the intention was not for immigration status in Canada?
Or does it proof genuine relationship only.
Is there or are there other things to do or show to proof the relationship was not entered into for immigration status ?
I do not understand your question, really. As far as I'm aware, as I hinted before, the genuine relationship is usually sufficient answer to rebut the 'entered into for immigration status.' I beleive they decided your relationship was NOT genuine.
That doesn't mean that living together now / new app IS proof that [both those things]. But it has a better chance now that there is new information that wasnt in the first app.
this platform is really good and I appreciate all your inputs because the immigration lawyer was not helpful telling us we have no chance only 20% based on my immigration history the officer based her refusal on that only and it’s difficult to clean so I was wondering that means my wife and won’t be able to live in Canada? What of our kids
I make a big distinction, as I think the lawyer is, between an appeal vs a new application. And I think the info was helpful, even if you did not recognize it.
Most appeals, I believe, do not succeed (i.e. the 20% figure).
Your immigration history WHEN THE OFFICER CONSIDERED IT didn't include all the time you spent together. (This was my point is that on appeal, they COULD decide the decision was correct when the officer made it. Which would basically be telling you that you MIGHT be successful with a new app.)
While you can't 'clean' that history, the time together that you now have/are in process of establishing with spouse living with you is - I think - an answer to the genuine relationship (and hence immigration purposes).
Therefore - as it seems your lawyer was telling you - a new application is preferable.
This isn't a guarantee, it's not certain, etc. (And it's my opinion, although it doesn't sound that different from lawyer).
One question: did your lawyer offer a service of helping with a new application (no appeal), and if so, at what cost?