Letter of explanation and factors to consider:
I honestly have overlooked the dates on the statutory declaration of common law because during the time we processed the application, I also was helping out my sister submit her student visa application. It could've been avoided but we weren't extra diligent with checking it unfortunately with work schedules and life responsibilities in general, it was a lot that time.
We have provided all the other dates on the forms as it occurred on the timeline below. We submitted Andre's ETA copy alongside his passport with a stamp dated his point of entry. We even wrote a timeline with dates summarizing our love story and the important dates. These documents prove that we are honest on the dates the events occured and that one of the documents has been overlooked. We didn't omit anything and have provided all the documents IRCC asked such as photos with me and my family, conversations, proof of cohabitation through signed sublet lease, shared expenses through e-transfers, insurance coverage.
As mentioned on our call, officer Vijesh's tone when I got his call already kinda implied in my own judgement that he doesn't want to approve the application. When I told him the dates were wrong he accused us of lying right away and threatened to issue a ban. That being said, I kinda anticipated that he would not grant the extension but if I would have submitted a new common-law declaration and written an LOE on my own, I think he would still have issued a refusal thus we thought it would have been better to seek professional help.
This breaks my heart and how they would just so easily tear us apart. We don't know what to do Please help us out.
Timeline:
Jan 2019 - Johan arrived in Canada as PR
Sep 2019 - Andre arrived in Canada on ETA (to visit his cousin and a short vacation)
Dec 2019 - Around end of december, we met on a dating app – started chatting
Jan 1, 2020 - We met in person, went for a date in a coffee shop and continued chatting daily since then
Jan 5, 2020 - We went to lakeshore and CN Tower and this was the day we became official
Feb 2, 2020 - Andre moved to my place to live with my family in [our old address]
Feb 2, 2021 - Marked 1 year of our cohabitation – I submitted a common-law declaration and got it notarized
Mar 2021 - We submitted our common-law sponsorship application by mail
Oct 2021 until present - Our family moved to [our current address]
Some of our photos:
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