Can someone please tell me what I should be expecting.. we recently got asked for proof of ongoing communication, and then a month later for PC and chest x-ray. How much longer.. im not one to complain but this system has no idea what its doing to us. I want to do nothing but cry because im so frustrated. My(our) life is on pause. Someone who is from the same country as me got PPR 6 months after they applied, me ive been waiting 13 months almost with no end in sight. I just feel like i get my hopes up for them to be shut down immediately. I feel bad for my family and friends because the stress and frustrations is taken out on them, and im angry all the time. How can i be positive when i dont know when my life is going to start. i didnt see my husband for a year before going to visit him for Christmas, and now its been 2 months since ive seen him. I cant imagine spring/summer coming and me not see him again. Do they not understand that we cant afford to take these trips, we cant get time off work because you know what, bills have to be paid. And at the rate theyre going with doc requests, we have to work our a**es off to pay for all the remeds the mail etc. I just wish someone would tell me an exact date of when my husband will be here, how long it will take to clear everything so i can start planning for things. I know we're all in thw same boat but when i hear that someone got processed in 6 months while theres some of us waiting 12+ months, i cant help but feel anger and frustration that it's not fair accross the board.
Sorry for my rant, its almost 2 am and i cant sleep because im so stressed!