Milance
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- Mar 12, 2013
- 9
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- VIENNA
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- 12-03-13
- Doc's Request.
- 28-01-14
- AOR Received.
- 23-03-2013
- File Transfer...
- 09-04-2013
- Med's Request
- RE-DO 30-04-14
- Med's Done....
- 15-11-2012
- Passport Req..
- 27-05-2014
- VISA ISSUED...
- 05-06-2014
- LANDED..........
- 02-07-2014
Our 1 year anniversary is coming up in sept. and we probably won't be together. Im looking to come in the second half of and our ann. is the 4th of the month. I understand that they need to do background checks and it's not easy for them but I don't see why it should take this long. As far as being able to go for months, we have a family business plus Im a contractor in oil and gas so its not like I have to ask for time off. another trick is I when I go to Serbia I pay my bills 2-3 months ahead and make sure I leave enough money for automatic withdraws such as car payment. when Im over there I don't need to much money. If the average salary is 300 eu a month and they all seem to live ok then I can do the same. plus my parents and brother are here and we all help each other out. I guess im fortunate that way to be able to do go for longer periods but again im not making money but still spending it. I will see beginning of sept. how things stand with our case and then decide. When your apart for this long and your main source of communication is messaging sometimes you get so frustrated you say things you don't mean or something gets taken out of context and you depend on smiley's to show you emotions. that's not the way to live. If we get denied I know there is no way she could handle waiting even longer thru an appeal and I would have to go live with her until she does get a visa... otherwise I think it would be over. as much as you love your spouse I think there is only so much one person can take. we are both in our mid to late 30's we should be making babies now instead of waiting "11" months as they show on the website.Hungary said:Hi Everyone!
Wow, you had trouble with the postal service too, it's not easy but annoying..
Milance it's awful to be apart, and yessssssssssss, they shouldn't keep couples apart like this! My Gosh, if I just think over that we are spending our first year of marriage like this... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Don't kick yourself for being a little bit late submitting the application, at least now you can show 6 extra month of your relationship. I just say this, because I have worries, who knows how are these VOs think?
May I ask how are you able to leave your life behind and come to wait with her even for months? Maybe you would give us some good advice. :-[