Sure we will let everyone know if I find out the info on how long each calendar year one can stay.
Re the visit question: We met in June and I bought her a one way ticket to come here for July 1st 2013. I had asked a travel agent if that may pose a problem and she seem to not think so. We didn't know how long she would be here so that seemed like a good idea.. Anyhow she did get scrutinized by the border agents and almost wasn't let through to visit. The agent called me and wanted to know our plans and how we met and I told him and that we were thinking she'd stay a month but we weren't sure if it would be 4 weeks or 6 or? . After we talked I asked him if she was going to be able to come and visit and he said he didn't think it would be a problem. Next thing I knew she called me and said they let her through.. Her passport wasn't stamped and we looked into and found out that meant she could stay for up to six months. We then found out later on that we could apply for an extension so we did. It wasn't clear anywhere we looked on how long you could ask for an extension for a visit so we asked for another 6 months and after waiting a good while it was granted, yay
So that leads to what we want to do now etc.. We really do not want to be apart, love each other very much, we are living like a normal couple does and want to stay together and not be apart.. So that's what we are trying to figure out our best bet to be able to be together long term with the least hassle or risk.. It would really be horrifying to get that one year exclusion that you mentioned happen to you, how did you handle that it must have been really tough to be apart that long?