andrew-brit said:
I know, it does not make sense. Nor does telling us our application will take somewhere in between 11-29 months.
We have been waiting since January 2014 to get our lives back on track. From January 2014 - February 2015 my previous employer was trying to get me a work permit via LMIA but eventually we said was enough was enough and applied for PR in September 2014. Hindsight!
We know it is coming but for someone like me who prefers to be too busy rather than sitting around the house all day this is killing me. The plan is I will go back to the UK without my wife and work there until whenever we get PR.
I feel for other London applicants who applied before me. It is so unfair that some go to Mississauga and the only choice for London based applicants is to accept it.
I know this isn't nearly the same situation as our application is in Mississauga, and will presumably go faster than yours (sorry, I really am) but I agree, it certainly does suck for people to have to uproot and disrupt their lives. We had originally planned for a year apart when we did the paperwork in December. He went home and stayed home for Christmas basically and spent 2.5 months in the UK looking for a job.. The processing times jumped to 29 months immediately in January, (I didnt find this forum until much later) so we made a new plan to work on getting me over to the UK once my sponsorship was approved, it also changed his course of action for job seeking, he was looking for something that would support us both financially and was being extremely picky about what work he took on. Meanwhile I began the process of getting a new birth certificate for me to prove parentage, right of passage visa for the UK in the works etc etc.
The consultant we used advised the other half to come back and reapply inland, so he booked his ticket. Before he landed we received confirmation that our package was received, that I was approved as a sponsor and I found this forum and was advised to leave our application as is. My other half just cancelled his return flight to the UK and is waiting. We don't know how long he will wait in Canada. Perhaps until our funds dry up. I honestly don't know.
Everything kind of gets put on hold in many ways. We're buying a new house, but really I am buying a new house until his residency comes through. Both of our vehicles were recently written off in a single hit and run collision, so we have to re-purchase those, all of that would be much easier if he had residency, or if we knew a time frame. As it is, you wait and wait and push things back and push things back hoping that it'll come soon.
As for being apart, its pretty awful at times. Especially with the time zone differences. It can be very hard on the relationship as all of us living it know.
This post wasn't just directed at you andrewbrit, I guess I am just commiserating with all of the others on thread to some extent, and sharing a personal experience with what the system does to ones life.
At least there is the option to sponsor a family member... Right? I mean this all could be much much worse.