@ mapledreams - apologies mylady !
I hope my assumptions arent presumed as gender bias

IMHO - Well, girl sponsoring boy should be a smooth ride given it was a "love marriage".
On the other hand if urs was an arranged affair, it does warrant more scrutiny as more guys leave their wives after coming here.
I mean no offence, just stating the numbers here. There have been too many cases where guys have used marriage to come to canada.
So it might take a few more days than "average".
But all that said, nobody really knows what "average" refers to in NDVO.
And each VOs personal prejudices come into the decision making process i think.
We cant really blame them for being so over cautious, our own people have created this hole for us, with all the fake marriages.
And this longer procedure, i think, is a deliberate move. It has to have a reason to it.
10 yrs ago ppl got visas in weeks, even days.
i would say add one more week to kukus time ..... i would hope even quicker