boatswife
Star Member
- May 5, 2012
- 4
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- Accra
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- 20-03-2016
- Doc's Request.
- 09 -02-2017 new meds...police..sched A after interview
- AOR Received.
- 12-05-2017
- File Transfer...
- 17-05-2017
- Med's Request
- 19-04-2017...For stepson...This was after PPR!
- Med's Done....
- 11-07-2016 and 14-02-2017
- Interview........
- 08-02-2017
- Passport Req..
- 14-03-2017 sent in via dhl 20-03-17
- VISA ISSUED...
- 03-05-2017
hi everyone,
After checking with my husband, we have both agreed to share our story about our Accra experience. On March 24, as I was preparing to fly to Ghana, I checked my email and was overjoyed to see a letter inviting my husband for an interview on April 15. His application had arrived in Ghana on Nov 15. We practiced all the marriage related questions we found online over and over, and he got them all right. I had to leave on the 12 and was not able to stay for the interview but we were very confident. So confident in fact, that I brought a suitcase of his clothes home with me. The morning of the interview, he was asked to go into a very cold room, the vo started her statement with I have the ability to reject you, so you better be honest. For the next three hours he was harassed by her. 90% of questions were not related to our marriage at all. She threw questions at him like why had he not attended his sons mothers funeral 12 years ago , did he have sex with women in the years prior to our marriage, does he have lots of girlfriends, her quote was then "Ghanaian men always have lots of women, they love too many women". She said to him, did you bring your old expired passport, he told her no, that it was not needed but that he had his current one, she screamed at him accusing him of trying to get visas before (he has never traveled). I was there in 2007 and he came to see me, but only as my friend, she dwell ed on the fact that he didnt have alot of information why I was in Ghana then (I was there marrying my first husband at the time, as my current husband was just friends with me). She asked him who raised his son, he stated he did along with his sister, she then told him he was irresponsible and not a good dad as he had help raising his son and didn't do it alone.. when she asked how we met, he told her originally online in 2000, she then criticized him for talking to me online as he had a girlfriend at the time, he informed her that we were penpals only, but she continued to throw insults at him. I have a 24 year old son , she kept asking why my son doesnt see his father, what happened in that relationship, he informed her that was long before we were together, and it had nothing to do with his relationship with me, she did not like any of the answers, and just kept saying she is not convinced of our marriage. Another thing she asked was if he knew I had a loan, there is no way she would have known this unless she pulled a credit file on me, he told her yes he was aware of it. Over and over again, she brought up that Ghanian men love having women, and that there is no way a man of his calibre would go without sex for extended amounts of time.
We have known one another 14 years, married for two. I've taken 3 trips to Ghana 3 years in a row to see him. My family and friends know about him, as does his. We planted a tree in his fathers village for our wedding, I stay at the family home with him,, we dont leave each others side when Im there. All his work documents list me as his spouse, as does his sons school information. At his sons school, they recognize me as the mom. My application package was overfilled with photos, email chats, love letters, phone records, etc. I spent hours and hours organizing it well. I knew we would be flagged as this is my second sponsorship and marriage, but the questions the io did had virtually nothing to do with our relationship, and only focused on things prior to us being together. My husband doesnt drink, or do drugs, he works in transport for another embassy, and is a christian, we are similar in age (im 44, he is 47), both of us the same religion, and similar education levels. We even have land together in Ghana.
I wanted people to know our story, in case there is anyone out there that had a similar interview. I will of course appeal, but I also think its high time this officer be brought to task, I see online there are other complaints on her, so now I sit and wait and cry every day until we succeed,
:'(
After checking with my husband, we have both agreed to share our story about our Accra experience. On March 24, as I was preparing to fly to Ghana, I checked my email and was overjoyed to see a letter inviting my husband for an interview on April 15. His application had arrived in Ghana on Nov 15. We practiced all the marriage related questions we found online over and over, and he got them all right. I had to leave on the 12 and was not able to stay for the interview but we were very confident. So confident in fact, that I brought a suitcase of his clothes home with me. The morning of the interview, he was asked to go into a very cold room, the vo started her statement with I have the ability to reject you, so you better be honest. For the next three hours he was harassed by her. 90% of questions were not related to our marriage at all. She threw questions at him like why had he not attended his sons mothers funeral 12 years ago , did he have sex with women in the years prior to our marriage, does he have lots of girlfriends, her quote was then "Ghanaian men always have lots of women, they love too many women". She said to him, did you bring your old expired passport, he told her no, that it was not needed but that he had his current one, she screamed at him accusing him of trying to get visas before (he has never traveled). I was there in 2007 and he came to see me, but only as my friend, she dwell ed on the fact that he didnt have alot of information why I was in Ghana then (I was there marrying my first husband at the time, as my current husband was just friends with me). She asked him who raised his son, he stated he did along with his sister, she then told him he was irresponsible and not a good dad as he had help raising his son and didn't do it alone.. when she asked how we met, he told her originally online in 2000, she then criticized him for talking to me online as he had a girlfriend at the time, he informed her that we were penpals only, but she continued to throw insults at him. I have a 24 year old son , she kept asking why my son doesnt see his father, what happened in that relationship, he informed her that was long before we were together, and it had nothing to do with his relationship with me, she did not like any of the answers, and just kept saying she is not convinced of our marriage. Another thing she asked was if he knew I had a loan, there is no way she would have known this unless she pulled a credit file on me, he told her yes he was aware of it. Over and over again, she brought up that Ghanian men love having women, and that there is no way a man of his calibre would go without sex for extended amounts of time.
We have known one another 14 years, married for two. I've taken 3 trips to Ghana 3 years in a row to see him. My family and friends know about him, as does his. We planted a tree in his fathers village for our wedding, I stay at the family home with him,, we dont leave each others side when Im there. All his work documents list me as his spouse, as does his sons school information. At his sons school, they recognize me as the mom. My application package was overfilled with photos, email chats, love letters, phone records, etc. I spent hours and hours organizing it well. I knew we would be flagged as this is my second sponsorship and marriage, but the questions the io did had virtually nothing to do with our relationship, and only focused on things prior to us being together. My husband doesnt drink, or do drugs, he works in transport for another embassy, and is a christian, we are similar in age (im 44, he is 47), both of us the same religion, and similar education levels. We even have land together in Ghana.
I wanted people to know our story, in case there is anyone out there that had a similar interview. I will of course appeal, but I also think its high time this officer be brought to task, I see online there are other complaints on her, so now I sit and wait and cry every day until we succeed,
:'(