I have a new question for you guys! This is something that hasn't ever crossed my mind at all until now, randomly. This is the issue I just maybe possibly found myself in :-\ Maybe I'm just over analyzing everything because I'm so stressed because of this application! (Which I cannot wait to have OUT of my hands!)
In my mind I fear that the IO will think me and my husband got married out of convenience, solely because of the fact that I was proposed to on New Years Eve (Dec 31st) and we got married on Christmas Eve day (January 6th for us, Christian Orthodox).
We got married at the city hall and wanted it to be on Christmas Eve day. Because we are both very religious, and so are our families, we wanted to do it on that day. We had discussed it before I was even proposed to, and it was a topic of conversation back some time during our relationship, so my husband surprised me with the engagement and with the wedding date already set! I was so happy just because he remembered we had talked about it before! (Guys have horrible memory, sorry guys but its true!) We talked about this plan because we plan to have our actual wedding reception and church marriage in the future, and it won't be in the winter time (will be in the summer). We wanted a special day on which we can celebrate every year with our families, and since Christmas Eve day is celebrated/spent with the whole family every year wherever we are in the world (with his family or mine at the time), this is the date that we chose because it is a perfect day to spend with family to celebrate Christmas Ever and our marriage.
I am now worried that the IO will see this as getting married ASAP for the PR process to begin, although that was not the purpose of the marriage
at all, just a matter of special dates that
meant something to us.
Now, I may be over analyzing, but what do you guys suggest I do? Write a letter stating this the same way I stated it here or?
I just want to be with my husband
Why is that so hard. This whole process is draining me of energy!