soblue ur soooooo right. I never even gave it a thought and that's normal, when ur in love that's all u think about. U don't consider that ur gonna hafta actually PROVE ur love to some impartial officer who holds ur fate in their hands. It's really sad that there are so many fraudulent marriages out there that it has come to the point where real love has to be proven.
As a word of encouragement though I think A LOT of weight is given to the interview. If your hubby and you really get to know one another well and have proof that you are in contact regularly then he will pass the interview no problem as he will have in depth knowledge about you, your life, family, friends and interests and that's what they look for. arljam once posted a link which I found incredibly fascinating. It's a site where all the judgements have been made on couple's who've appealed the VO's denial. Here it is:
https://www.canlii.org/en/#search/all=morocco%20marriage%20age%20difference%20wedding%20ceremony
Here you will see that most VOs denied PR because the interviewee didn't know enough about their spouses and sometimes because they don't speak English well enough for the VO to believe the couple are able to really communicate. There are a few cases where the VO seemed to deny PR for no solid reason, and sometimes interviewees claim their answers recorded by VO were not the answers they gave, which is the scariest part. But there are many, many cases that have the usual 'red flags' so many of us worry about here, like age difference, religious difference, socioeconomic differences, only knowing each other a short time before marrying, discussing marriage before meeting in person, but as long as your hubby can show with confidence that he knows you I think that goes a long way.
As a word of encouragement though I think A LOT of weight is given to the interview. If your hubby and you really get to know one another well and have proof that you are in contact regularly then he will pass the interview no problem as he will have in depth knowledge about you, your life, family, friends and interests and that's what they look for. arljam once posted a link which I found incredibly fascinating. It's a site where all the judgements have been made on couple's who've appealed the VO's denial. Here it is:
https://www.canlii.org/en/#search/all=morocco%20marriage%20age%20difference%20wedding%20ceremony
Here you will see that most VOs denied PR because the interviewee didn't know enough about their spouses and sometimes because they don't speak English well enough for the VO to believe the couple are able to really communicate. There are a few cases where the VO seemed to deny PR for no solid reason, and sometimes interviewees claim their answers recorded by VO were not the answers they gave, which is the scariest part. But there are many, many cases that have the usual 'red flags' so many of us worry about here, like age difference, religious difference, socioeconomic differences, only knowing each other a short time before marrying, discussing marriage before meeting in person, but as long as your hubby can show with confidence that he knows you I think that goes a long way.
