I understand everybodies frustration with the whole process, but try to see it from a different perspective. We can be lucky that we can stay with our partners during the process, even if we can't work at least we are not alone. There are a lot of people that have to wait in there home country until they get there PR and are seperated from their partners.
And for the different processing times: each case is different and needs different checks and procedures. And why be jealous of somebody that gets approved sooner than yourself, there is probably a reason for that. They are processing a lot of cases at the same time and they are able to finish some sooner than others, that doesn't necessarily mean they ar not working on yours. I think we should be happy for everybody that gets approved quick.